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i fell off the train i was kicking asses and my grand mother passed away on christmas eve in the middle of Fu@& dinner... havent been to the gym but once siince that happend... put on like 20 pounds cant stop eating...dont want to do any thing.. First my father 7 mounths ago and now his mother... i had to watch them both die...live sucks
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Things will get better, I know life can deal shitty cards sometimes but it will turn around.
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maybe if you get to thegym u can burn off some stress
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true that....
the gym may be a way for you to step away from the stress for a while.
leave the cellphone in the car, put on some music, and lift.
sorry to hear about your loss.
Nothing to it, but to do it
Agreed the gym is a great place to get away from the real world.Originally Posted by Nicotine
If you have a lot of distractions at your current gym maybe go try out a different one where you don't know anyone.
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Sorry to hear it man but you have to get a grip before things get out of hand. I agree w/the others. Get in the gym w/some good music and put your frustrations out on the weights and cardio. Some of my best days in the gym are when things are tough and i need to vent.
Don't let it get too far out man. 1 month leads to 2..2 to 3, so forth and so on. And if it does get out of hand, and when you do get back to the gym, you're going to be pissed at yourself for taking such a leave.
Good luck man.
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thanks guys i needed that... should have posted sooner
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whatever u decide bro, my prayers are with you and ur family.
im real sorry to hear the news....
do whatever will make u happy....
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4 pounds of brownes didnt help or those 3 trips to the buffet ether so now i guess ill try the gym...
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if u go to the gym take all ur pain and suffering with u work out till u cant walk out on ur own make sure the next few trips u leave it all there
trust me bro i know it hurts
but really u dont have a choice to let this break u down isnt what they would want i was told by my grandmothers a few month before her passing last year that its not a time to be sad when she dies thats life and the best thing i could every do was to live my life to the best i could and to always know she would have been proud of me
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dont worry man, eventually things like this happen
sorry to hear, hope everything gets better for you from here on
Ar's cockney geezer Retired
Sorry for your loss bro things will get better just takes time.
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thanks feeling better every day...little buy little
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:/... Man honestly... I feel for you.... Damn all this stuff going on everywhere make me feel like the luckiest person in the world...
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Hope u feel better soon bro sorry to hear about ur loss
Snook~ AR Lounge Monitor
I have personally learned that things like this just help make you a stronger person. Screw the gym right now just be with family.
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I'm sorry to hear that bro, i hope everything get's better for you, i think the best thing for you is not to stay alone, if you have friends going to the gym i suggest you go with them and workout together, and time will heal everything bro
That don't kill me, can only make me stronger
life is a beach sometimes, i have been depressed for years but it will always get better. Look up to the greater things in life.
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thanks again guys
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