how would you feel if ur son took steroids?

**lovestospooge23** · 02-05-2010, 12:45 AM

here's a scenario, you are cleaning your 21 year olds sons room, and discover a vial of steroids , how do u react? what do u tell him when he says "BUT DAD! U TAKE THEM!"

honestly if he was 21 i dunno what i'd do, i know steroids aren't dangerous when used properly, but the father in me.... gee i dont know

**Friend** · 02-05-2010, 12:46 AM

Confiscate them and use them.

**lovestospooge23** · 02-05-2010, 12:50 AM

Originally Posted by Friend

Confiscate them and use them.

what would u say to him after he found that out?

**drdeath613** · 02-05-2010, 12:52 AM

well i feel like this its like telling your kid dont smoke pot and u have a weed leaf tattooed on you

your better off talking to him about this then trying to stop him make sure he knows what hes doing

cause even tho the father in you says to tell him to stop hes not going to like you this is what he wants to do it makes him feel good

**Friend** · 02-05-2010, 12:59 AM

Originally Posted by lovestospooge23

what would u say to him after he found that out?

Thanks

**lovestospooge23** · 02-05-2010, 01:02 AM

Originally Posted by Friend

Thanks

would u give him the finger too while ur saying thanks?

**Friend** · 02-05-2010, 01:34 AM

Originally Posted by lovestospooge23

would u give him the finger too while ur saying thanks?

No need to be mean to the boy, just smile.

**Mr.Rose** · 02-05-2010, 01:38 AM

I wouldn't mind if he took it, BUT only if i knew what he was taking and the doses and PCT, then i would help him out. Cause i know they are not bad for your health when done correctly.

First i'll sit him down and have a talk to test his knowledge and then give him the go ahead. It will turn in a mass competition but, me vs my boy. haha. Can't wait.

**Bojangles69** · 02-05-2010, 01:45 AM

As long as he really really knew what he was doing then sure, go right ahead. It would still recommend that he waited however, if he didn't listen, whatever.

**therecanonlybe1** · 02-05-2010, 02:02 AM

ask for a good scource..

**bjpennnn** · 02-05-2010, 02:13 AM

Originally Posted by Friend

Confiscate them and use them.

I would def do this.

But on the other side I would totally approach him about it calmly help him come up with a diet, and anny sups he may need. And telll him when he is 24 I will buy him his first cycle.

**laduem88** · 02-05-2010, 03:01 AM

it would be a glorious bonding experience. "deca only?! no wonder you havent been bringing any girls over"

**Aizen Sosuke** · 02-05-2010, 06:11 AM

Originally Posted by laduem88

it would be a glorious bonding experience. "deca only?! no wonder you havent been bringing any girls over"

my thoughts exactly

***t-gunz*** · 02-05-2010, 07:10 AM

i would ask why.... and if he explains to you are you are comfortable with him taking it.

find out his knowlegde so he doesnt steroid abuse it.

chances are he will take it regardless so all you can do is help him do it safe

BG · 02-05-2010, 07:17 AM

Originally Posted by laduem88

it would be a glorious bonding experience. "deca only?! no wonder you havent been bringing any girls over"

Lmao or thank the lord your doing deca only son for a while I was affraid you were gay.

**Phate** · 02-05-2010, 07:35 AM

i would have him join the site and discuss them with him, but my family discusses them openly anyway so he would be educated about them way before he decided to use them

**rockinred** · 02-05-2010, 07:36 AM

I would explain to him that he is making bad choices. That he can hurt himself for taking them at a young age and that it is not for kids. Just because people take them for training it does not mean a kid should be doing it. then I would proceed with a long talk about choices in life and how he needs to think when approaching them. Very similar to alcohol. I enjoy a beer, but I absolutely don't think kids should be drinking. Things can be appropriate at certain ages.

**Hazard** · 02-05-2010, 08:23 AM

I'd recommend him to wait until he turns 25 but more importantly..... i'd make sure he knew what he was doing. I do them.... and I wont stop him from doing them as long as he's not wreckless.....

The bond I have with my father right now has never been stronger. I found out he used steroids a while ago..... then broke him into the idea of using them again. Ofcoarse tho..... it's not the steroids per se..... but the time we spend in the gym..... eating..... cooking up 20 chicken breasts together LOL. Good times.....

~Haz~

**BJJ** · 02-05-2010, 08:24 AM

Originally Posted by lovestospooge23

here's a scenario, you are cleaning your 21 year olds sons room, and discover a vial of steroids , how do u react? what do u tell him when he says "BUT DAD! U TAKE THEM!"

honestly if he was 21 i dunno what i'd do, i know steroids aren't dangerous when used properly, but the father in me.... gee i dont know

Are you really sure about that?

**BJJ** · 02-05-2010, 08:25 AM

Originally Posted by Friend

Confiscate them and use them.

Originally Posted by Friend

Thanks

Originally Posted by Friend

No need to be mean to the boy, just smile.

Amazing!

**Phate** · 02-05-2010, 08:39 AM

Originally Posted by Hazard

I'd recommend him to wait until he turns 25 but more importantly..... i'd make sure he knew what he was doing. I do them.... and I wont stop him from doing them as long as he's not wreckless.....

The bond I have with my father right now has never been stronger. I found out he used steroids a while ago..... then broke him into the idea of using them again. Ofcoarse tho..... it's not the steroids per se..... but the time we spend in the gym..... eating..... cooking up 20 chicken breasts together LOL. Good times.....

~Haz~

exactly, when everything is out in the open then both people can take that load off their shoulders, i'm the same with my dad and mom

**IM708** · 02-05-2010, 08:47 AM

If I had a kid, I couldn't give a shit a long as he isn't running a bunch of dbol pills for a cycle.

**NVR2BIG1** · 02-05-2010, 08:47 AM

I would tell him that as long as he held a 3.0 and stayed in college I would buy him a cycle each semester. Sooner or later he'd realize education was more important anyways and not get involved too deep in any of this bullshit.

I cycle because its something I've done for so long it really doesn't matter anymore. I need TRT anyways so **** it. But in all honesty, if I could go back in time when I had that first needle in my hand, I would have put it back down and threw my shit in the trash.

**BJJ** · 02-05-2010, 08:57 AM

Originally Posted by NVR2BIG1

I would tell him that as long as he held a 3.0 and stayed in college I would buy him a cycle each semester. Sooner or later he'd realize education was more important anyways and not get involved too deep in any of this bullshit.

I cycle because its something I've done for so long it really doesn't matter anymore. I need TRT anyways so **** it. But in all honesty, if I could go back in time when I had that first needle in my hand, I would have put it back down and threw my shit in the trash.

Hope the young people who are hanging around here will read that sentence.

**Mooseman33** · 02-05-2010, 09:01 AM

Originally Posted by lovestospooge23

here's a scenario, you are cleaning your 21 year olds sons room, and discover a vial of steroids , how do u react? what do u tell him when he says "BUT DAD! U TAKE THEM!"

honestly if he was 21 i dunno what i'd do, i know steroids aren't dangerous when used properly, but the father in me.... gee i dont know

this board is great, but why is this the message thats portrayed here.
AAS are dangerous, regardless if used "properly".

oh yeah, i would break my kid in half, because he would never know i do them.

**NVR2BIG1** · 02-05-2010, 09:02 AM

Let me just add something to that. If I was asked this BEFORE I HAD A SON my answer would have been totally different. But when you look at your 8 month old sleeping in his crib you see something else besides just your son. You see a life that has not been tainted, by anything. Nothing illegal, nothing bad for him, and nothing he nor you would regret. I often say to myself, if I could have just tried to do what was right all the time my life would have been better. You see that baby lying in his crib, and what I see sometimes is myself, before I got involved in all of this. If I found my son with steroids I'm going to still see that baby lying in his crib. So yea, it would be hard for me to deal with that. Thats just me though

**tboney** · 02-05-2010, 09:02 AM

Originally Posted by rockinred

I would explain to him that he is making bad choices. That he can hurt himself for taking them at a young age and that it is not for kids. Just because people take them for training it does not mean a kid should be doing it. then I would proceed with a long talk about choices in life and how he needs to think when approaching them. Very similar to alcohol. I enjoy a beer, but I absolutely don't think kids should be drinking. Things can be appropriate at certain ages.

I agree.

**Phate** · 02-05-2010, 09:06 AM

Originally Posted by Mooseman33

this board is great, but why is this the message thats portrayed here.
AAS are dangerous, regardless if used "properly".

oh yeah, i would break my kid in half, because he would never know i do them.

how would that help though? Reeming him would just make him become more secretive from you. I tell my parents EVERYTHING i do, before and while i'm doing it, and in return for that honesty they condone it as long as i do well in school and maintain a productive lifestyle

i'm just saying that i'm 20 and if i was going to use them and you broke me in half for using them, i would just move them to a friends house and inject over there

besides, if he ever does find out, how can you face him since in his eyes you would be a complete hypocrite, which IMO is unforgivable and a total breach of trust

**Mooseman33** · 02-05-2010, 09:22 AM

its the : build em,burn em,build em plan.

i would tell him how great he is without them, then he would get broke in half verbally as i would not really beat him, then i would raise him up with praise for all he can be..

then i would educate the shit out of him so he would not want to do them at that age.
i agree with parents knowing everything, im like that with mother and will be that way with my kids.

im one of the guys who really doesnt believe AAS are safe so i would naturally freak out, just like if my kid was smoking...

ironic seeing how i smoke and use AAS...we always want beter for our kids..

**bjpennnn** · 02-05-2010, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by Hazard

I'd recommend him to wait until he turns 25 but more importantly..... i'd make sure he knew what he was doing. I do them.... and I wont stop him from doing them as long as he's not wreckless.....

The bond I have with my father right now has never been stronger. I found out he used steroids a while ago..... then broke him into the idea of using them again. Ofcoarse tho..... it's not the steroids per se..... but the time we spend in the gym..... eating..... cooking up 20 chicken breasts together LOL. Good times.....

~Haz~

dude some of the best bonding i have with my dad is when we use to work out together. i ****en miss it. i am way to much of an animal now and i think since he weighs almost 80 lbs more then me it hurts his ego lol. but I am trying to get him on hrt he is using the gel and i keep telling him how dumb it is.

**bjpennnn** · 02-05-2010, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by Mooseman33

its the : build em,burn em,build em plan.

i would tell him how great he is without them, then he would get broke in half verbally as i would not really beat him, then i would raise him up with praise for all he can be..

then i would educate the shit out of him so he would not want to do them at that age.
i agree with parents knowing everything, im like that with mother and will be that way with my kids.

im one of the guys who really doesnt believe AAS are safe so i would naturally freak out, just like if my kid was smoking...

ironic seeing how i smoke and use AAS...we always want beter for our kids..

Ya i can feel you on that.

**amcon** · 02-05-2010, 12:16 PM

make him do a book report on the good and bad sides of steroids , diet, and work out splits... then make sure the guy who sold them to him sees me personally so i can threaten to kick his ass if he screws my son. and at that point a 21 year old son is really a man and can make his own decisions...

would i want him to do steroids - i would have to say no! if he did them i would want him to do it right

**redz** · 02-05-2010, 12:23 PM

It would honestly depend on why he was using them. If it were in an attempt to get a scholarship or get drafted to a sport I would sympathise with him and help him be smart about it. If for vanity only I wouldnt be too happy, I would also increase his rent if he had all this money for steroids lying around lol.

**Nicotine** · 02-05-2010, 12:53 PM

if they had years of training, proper diet, and figured out what works for them naturally - then i say sure

but

they would see a doctor before/during/after cycles to watch their kidneys/liver/cholestoral, etc.

keep it as safe as possible

PT · 02-05-2010, 01:18 PM

as long as he was 21, educated and safe about it i would be happy he choose them over a narcotic

**warchild** · 02-05-2010, 01:22 PM

tell him its for TRT and confiscate them for yourself and your BFF on the forum.

**awesome1** · 02-05-2010, 01:43 PM

"do as I say, not as I do"

**Dukkit** · 02-05-2010, 01:47 PM

it would never get to the point where i would just "find them"

id know he was usng. ive been doing them and been around them long enough to see the signs, sides, etc of juicing. especially if he lived with me.

so at first thought of him using i would approach him

feel out his knowlwdge and mindframe. when i started i was too hot headed, immature. which landed me in jail mid cycle. no fun.

so depending on how that all goes id educate him further. id tell him the good and bad. id give him my opinion. then id see what he decided to do. if he decides with something i dont agree with....

i'll knock him down and take them.

cuz my son damn sure will never be bigger then me

thats just not natural.

**Hazard** · 02-05-2010, 02:04 PM

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

cuz my son damn sure will never be bigger then me

thats just not natural.

Hence why my father is getting back on tren ..... BWAHAHAHA

~Haz~

**jbran23** · 02-05-2010, 02:06 PM

On the flipside of the coin, MY dad found needles in my draw and thought I was shooting herion...needless to say he was actually happy to hear they were only for steroids . Haha.