girl question??

[abstrack]

ok here is the situation, there is this girl at my gym that works the front counter couple times a week. She is always very nice and commencing to small talk and giving me eye contact. I dont know if she likes me or if she is just doing her job-as being friendly to the members. I was thinking of asking her out butI dont know if this is stepping over the boundries, I wouldn't wan't to create a awkward situation for either fo us. Now rejection is no problem, who cares?? right but I am having a hard time reading the signal if there is any??? What do you think I should do ask her out?? or no?? would this be stepping over the boundries?? Help me out here, i would like some feed back from the women members also.

Thanks


abstrack

[H BOMB]

eye contact is the key right there. i would say see if you catch her a couple of more times and if so then what do have to lose. i normally don't hit on girls at the gym especially the hot ones cause every other dude does and they get sick of it. i wait for eye contact and let them wonder why i never talk to them. sure enough soon or later they say something to one of my boys or girl spy's asking ?? . then i know i am good to go and not just another dude at the gym. just recently i got to take the hottest girl out that goes to my gym. man and she is nice too. hard to find. i never hit on her at the gym, just hi and bye. i knew her threw mutual friends and it took about three months but was worth it. i saw her out a couple of weeks ago and we started talking and hit it off i guess, cause later that week i took her to dinner, talked on the phone a few times since. man i want this girl bad. i am glad you posted this so i could share this with my other family. sorry for the long post. good luck

[KeyMastur]

Dude, she's being friendly, cause she does that to me too.

No, I'd try and ask her out. Start with something casual like "hey, what are you doin tonight ?? wanna go have a few drinks [with me and my friends] ??" (the [ ] part is optional). That way it doesn't sound like you're tryin even though you are. Of course if she's under 21 like a lot of those girls are, then there's a problem.

[abstrack]

well she said today she was only a frshman in college, so I know she is not 21 yet, not unless she is a idot with the brain the size of a dried up pea. Thanks for sharing guys, I think i am going to ask her out and see how it goes. i really dont have any friends in the gym, I kind of work alone, say hi and bye or good morning and good day. To bad i didnt have the skimmy down on her shit, then things might be alot easier.

I think she might have some interest, cause I catch her creepin a look whenI am in the gym, but then again-that might be me creepin a look at her and she catches me,

well next time I see her , which will be later today or sometime this week in the morning-I am going for it!!!
I'll let you guys know how it went.


thanks again

abstrack

[Wake Chick]

WHAT HAPPENED?? Details

[retired]

Save the romance for the clubs and wherever else you might meet women. If it does not work out with this person, or if there is some other guy (or guys) at the gym who have the same idea as you, then why create a potential situation that might ruin the training atmosphere for you?

I'm assuming of course that you go to the gym to TRAIN... but then again, you may have other agendas going at the same time that are just as important to you. If so, then you should go for it.

Just my opinion of course, but good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[abstrack]

Nothing has happened so far because I have not seen her since that one day. Umm??? I think i am going to take it slow, and just work my mojo,lol

[Ryanhallmark]

Thats weak dude, ask her out man..

[abstrack]

like i said, I am not going to rush it with her, there is alot of good looking shorty's in the gym. She is just one that I think is pretty cool. Just going towork the MOJO

[abstrack]

ok here it is again, i was getting along talking to her and getting ready to ask her out and some how we get into her past relationships and what is the longest she has ever had, well 6 months was the answer!! I said why??? she says most of her boyfrinds do not agree with her religious beliefs. I am thinking to myself right away, she doesnt give up the goodie!! then she elaborates that she does not believe in sex before marriage and this is the case of her relationship failure.

DAMM IT!! so I told her good luck finding a guy who will wait!! lol. sorry but this brotha cant wait that long, I have tasted the forbidden fruit and I like it!!! if having sex before marriage is a sin then damm it I think I best find me a cold seat in hell!!

[Decoder]

all the girls that work the front desk at my gym are sluts

[abstrack]

so where do you work out at??

[Decoder]

24hrfitness!

[abstrack]

I am on my way, let the sluts know I am comming<<!! lol

[Decoder]

ask for megan!

[Nibbe]

I love sluts ;-)

[chicamahomico]

I love sluts ;-)

Doesn't everybody or should I say hasn't everybody.

[Warrior]

Originally posted by Decoder
24hrfitness!

Ever been in a Vegas 24 Hour Fitness? - lots of strippers and dancers! Yeah baby yeah!

[Decoder]

Nope, but there is a 24HR in San Fransico i want to hit up , its on the 20th floor or somewhere around there, of some sky scrapper looking over the city. It takes up an entire floor and all the walls are windows.

[Warrior]

If a chick told me she did not "believe" in sex until marriage based on religuos beliefs - I would make her an atheist in minutes. I like having those kind of conversations with people - the ones based on "beliefs." I am pretty practicle and the "because we say so" don't fly without explanation - if you told me I could not have sex until after marrage... I would ask why everyday until I got an answer I could except... like your dick will fall off - but then again, I am the type of person to try it and see what happens. I was the kid that was told not to put the butter knife in the light socket... but I tried it to see why not

I live my life in a way that will make me happy on my death bed with little regrets on how I lived or what I accomplished - with Lutheran tendancies of course

[Warrior]

Originally posted by Decoder
Nope, but there is a 24HR in San Fransico i want to hit up , its on the 20th floor or somewhere around there, of some sky scrapper looking over the city. It takes up an entire floor and all the walls are windows.

The one in Honolulu is tight too, at Pearlridge - they keep the doors open and nice hot fresh air roolin' in... and ya got to like the Polynesian woman!

[Terinox]

Just go up to the girl at the counter, whip out your cock, slap it on the desk right in front of her face and say, "Hi, I'd like to sign up a new MEMBER!"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA



I just thought of it...sounded damn funny in my head

[Warrior]

- "... and he needs personal training with lots of stretching - yes, hon... you will do fine."

[peam]

Sluts are no fun guys! Where's the challenge? You should at least try for those girls... who knows? maybe you can changer her beliefs? Now that would be something to brag about right? hehehe

[peam]

Just go up to the girl at the counter, whip out your cock, slap it on the desk right in front of her face and say, "Hi, I'd like to sign up a new MEMBER!"

you've got me laughing!

[Warrior]

Peam's a team player 4 sure

[Lostsoul]

Originally posted by Terinox
Just go up to the girl at the counter, whip out your cock, slap it on the desk right in front of her face and say, "Hi, I'd like to sign up a new MEMBER!"

haha good one man, laughed my ass off actually.

[abstrack]

Originally posted by Warrior
If a chick told me she did not "believe" in sex until marriage based on religuos beliefs - I would make her an atheist in minutes. I like having those kind of conversations with people - the ones based on "beliefs." I am pretty practicle and the "because we say so" don't fly without explanation - if you told me I could not have sex until after marrage... I would ask why everyday until I got an answer I could except... like your dick will fall off - but then again, I am the type of person to try it and see what happens. I was the kid that was told not to put the butter knife in the light socket... but I tried it to see why not

I live my life in a way that will make me happy on my death bed with little regrets on how I lived or what I accomplished - with Lutheran tendancies of course

damm, warrior I wes thae same kid using the fork as the test object.

--yeah that girl is funny she has her beliefs but she follows what one she thinks are more serious and not the other. like a pick and choos the commandments type of thing. she told me her parents dont even let here watch certain tv programs like the sympsons or king of the hill. Damm she has some fucked up head problems, sorry I can not delve into those waters.

[abstrack]

Originally posted by Warrior
Peam's a team player 4 sure

Yeah nothing like a girl who will go all out for the team!!

[abstrack]

Originally posted by Terinox
Just go up to the girl at the counter, whip out your cock, slap it on the desk right in front of her face and say, "Hi, I'd like to sign up a new MEMBER!"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA



I just thought of it...sounded damn funny in my head

LMAO!!!

[peam]

Hey! You guys like me! Sweet! lol I can't help but jump up and down. Yep, I've only posted one thing on the female's forum... I like hanging out with the guys better! ;-)

[abstrack]

Originally posted by peam
Hey! You guys like me! Sweet! lol I can't help but jump up and down. Yep, I've only posted one thing on the female's forum... I like hanging out with the guys better! ;-)

were called the "Creme de la Creme"

[peam]

No, you must be mistaken... that's what I amI don't know if any of you have a cat but mine just jumped into my trash can... so I thought I'd share.

[partyboynyc]

ask out for dinner and a fuck. if she gives you some shit about it just ask her, "what? you don't eat dinner" then you have a safety net.could work....

[abstrack]

Originally posted by partyboynyc
ask out for dinner and a fuck. if she gives you some shit about it just ask her, "what? you don't eat dinner" then you have a safety net.could work....

LMAO--yeah I dont want to go into the gym everyday thinking that I just asked this girl who is totally against pre-sex to fuck and dinner. I think I will just pull the ole crank out and see how she handles it.

[partyboynyc]

tell her to just get naked at your place and masturbate on her!!then be like, " see bitch, that could have been in you and not ON you!!second guessing this no pre sex shit now, huh baby?!!"hahaha

[peam]

Just ask her out.... forget about the not having sex thing. This girl could be the one you're supposed to be with... and if you pass her up because you can't use your hand... then I don't know buddy... that would be gay. Unless you want to marry some slut... then I'd start paying attention to those no-sex girls. At least you know they haven't been used... and that they're not using you.

[peam]

she never said she doesn't give oral sex

[partyboynyc]

marrying a girl you haven't fucked until you're married is like buying a car you haven't test driven.that kinda sucks.you know she'll be shitty in bed unless you get her some jenna jameson dvds to study from. i would invest in those for future happiness.in all honesty, every girl on earth should be taken aside and made the learn jenna's blowjob technique.i'm not really into watching porn, but the few jenna ones i have a excellent for instructional purposes when w/ a girl.you watch that hsit w/ them and they always try to emulate that shit when it's over so you don't think they have no skills in bed.healthy theory of mine!!

[CrazyRussian]

i agree partyboy, a test drive is always needed!