How often does your wife/gf drink?

**creactiveprotein** · 04-19-2010, 10:02 PM

My girlfriend is 25, has a kid, and HAS to get drunk atleast once per week, this bothers me as I only drink every 3 months or so. Am I right to get mad at her? 25 is not exactly a kid anymore, its time to start focusing on a successful life.

**AlphaGenetics** · 04-19-2010, 10:08 PM

Dosent sound bad to me. My x wife drank 24/7. Was a living hell.

**Kibble** · 04-19-2010, 10:42 PM

My wife is an alcoholic. It makes us fight all the time. I threatened to leave her 2 times already

**Chode Logan** · 04-20-2010, 12:33 AM

Originally Posted by creactiveprotein

My girlfriend is 25, has a kid, and HAS to get drunk atleast once per week, this bothers me as I only drink every 3 months or so. Am I right to get mad at her? 25 is not exactly a kid anymore, its time to start focusing on a successful life.

She is whoever the hell she wants, so no you don't have a right to get mad at her. You picked her knowing that she drinks, you're the dink if you think you can change someone.

Find a girl who drinks less.

**lovbyts** · 04-20-2010, 12:40 AM

Originally Posted by Chode Logan

She is whoever the hell she wants, so no you don't have a right to get mad at her. You picked her knowing that she drinks, you're the dink if you think you can change someone.

Find a girl who drinks less.

Exactly. Why do people pick someone then try to change them.

Once a week is no big deal. I probably have a drink once a week but never get drunk or even buzzed most of the time. I will get buzzed once ever few-6 months.

**vpchill** · 04-20-2010, 07:08 AM

Did you not know her drinking habits b4 u guys got 2gether? I personally used 2 drink a lot. Me and my ex wife. Yet I quit drinking all 2gether. When she realized I was serious she in turn quit.
My Gf doesn't drink at all which is a blessing.

Its ur choice, u either deal wit it or not. I don't mind someone who drinx as long as they maintain their liquor. The problem I have is a chic who smokes. She can't even come near me.

**stack_it** · 04-20-2010, 07:43 AM

My girl will have a beer or two a couple times a month doesn't get drunk unless it's a special occasion.

**Hazard** · 04-20-2010, 08:30 AM

I wouldn't say she has a drinking problem yet......

My wife went from a gym rat who was a hard worker in and outa work to a useless prescription drug addict who got fired from her job...... this happened over the coarse of about 18 months.

We stuck it out..... shes done her detox/rehab and is still being treated but its a process.

I don't think you can really get mad at her for drinking once a week unless it's interfering with your life. In other words..... if you made plans in advance to go out and she came home drunk and you had to scrap your plans to watch the kid..... thats a problem.....

~Haz~

**energizer bunny** · 04-20-2010, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by creactiveprotein

My girlfriend is 25, has a kid, and HAS to get drunk atleast once per week, this bothers me as I only drink every 3 months or so. Am I right to get mad at her? 25 is not exactly a kid anymore, its time to start focusing on a successful life.

no she doesnt have a problem,,,,and its her choice to do what she wants, you are wrong to get mad by a long shot........if you dont like it just leave......

**warchild** · 04-20-2010, 11:30 AM

coming from an alcoholic mother, who drank herself to death, i have ZERO tolerance for a girl who can't control her drinking.

**JasonT** · 04-20-2010, 11:32 AM

never, neither do i

**Mooseman33** · 04-20-2010, 11:39 AM

i wouldnt have an issue with it but my chick acts like a fvking retard when she drinks.
i mean, she flat out embarasses me, does not know hpow to have a couple and relax, has to get drunk and act like a bloody fool...

**Bossman** · 04-20-2010, 11:52 AM

Originally Posted by creactiveprotein

My girlfriend is 25, has a kid, and HAS to get drunk atleast once per week, this bothers me as I only drink every 3 months or so. Am I right to get mad at her? 25 is not exactly a kid anymore, its time to start focusing on a successful life.

Mine....every night. You got a keeper at just once a week!

**energizer bunny** · 04-20-2010, 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by warchild

coming from an alcoholic mother, who drank herself to death, i have ZERO tolerance for a girl who can't control her drinking.

Originally Posted by JasonT

never, neither do i

thats fair enough BUT were in the OPs post does it say she cant control her drink,,,he just states she drinks once a week........

**dece870717** · 04-20-2010, 12:24 PM

My ex drank every weekend and I hated it! I rarely drink, once every 3-4 months.

**BgMc31** · 04-20-2010, 01:09 PM

Much ado about nothing...IMO!!!

My wife drinks, but I don't keep tabs with how often. Sometimes its once a month, sometimes its 3-4 times a week. I doesn't bother me one bit. She doesn't have a problem. I drink as well with the same up and down frequency. We're successful with very successful children living the American dream. You shouldn't be with someone if you don't know if your lifestyles are compatible.

**calgarian** · 04-20-2010, 01:14 PM

my wife doesnt at all...gf well which one? one drink beer like water espacially on friday saturday night, other gf only drinks when someone buy her drinks cheap bitch

**RuhlFreak55** · 04-20-2010, 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by JasonT

never, neither do i

that'd be my answer or said gf/wife wouldn't be with me

**calgarian** · 04-20-2010, 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

that'd be my answer or said gf/wife wouldn't be with me

so u dont drink alone thats what u r saying?

**redz** · 04-20-2010, 02:12 PM

Once a week is fine, my wife gets pretty freaky in bed when she is drunk. I don`t mind at all.

**PC650** · 04-20-2010, 02:23 PM

mine doesnt drink nearly as much as me

**Hard.On** · 04-20-2010, 02:29 PM

Who cares if your gf drinks.

You have chosen this life style,
Not her.

Dont be a party pooper. Once a week is nothing.
**** when Im not on a cycle me and mine kill a bottle or 2 of wine every time we see eachother.

**playboii** · 04-20-2010, 07:41 PM

me & my gf get shit faced every weekend =) mon-fri strict dieting & gym for me then weekend is party time

**PC650** · 04-20-2010, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by playboii

me & my gf get shit faced every weekend =) mon-fri strict dieting & gym for me then weekend is party time

agree 100%

**Chode Logan** · 04-21-2010, 12:07 AM

Tell her everytime she wants a drink, to drink your jizz instead, it's healthier.

**DSM4Life** · 04-21-2010, 04:39 AM

Dated a chick for 3 years that got blized every weekend. It gets old real fast.

**redz** · 04-21-2010, 08:46 AM

Dated a chick for 3 years that got blized every weekend. It gets old real fast.

You're bi?

**DSM4Life** · 04-21-2010, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by redz

You're bi?

If your asking if i sleep with women, then yes i have slept with many.

**Igifuno** · 04-21-2010, 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

If your asking if i sleep with women, then yes i have slept with many.

Stud.

**johnnyrv** · 04-22-2010, 01:43 PM

Originally Posted by AlphaGenetics

Dosent sound bad to me. My x wife drank 24/7. Was a living hell.

Yeah it sucks my girl and I have 2 kids and goes drinking 2 times. A week and dosent come home till the next mornindg,but that's it I plan on leaving her

**gixxerboy1** · 04-22-2010, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

If your asking if i sleep with women, then yes i have slept with many.

whore

**energizer bunny** · 04-22-2010, 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by johnnyrv

Yeah it sucks my girl and I have 2 kids and goes drinking 2 times. A week and dosent come home till the next mornindg,but that's it I plan on leaving her

Now that is what i call a problem! id be well angry if my girl did that!...fuk man were does she go,,,,thats bad shit when you have kids, wey bad shit full stop!.........Get rid of her quick mate? or atleast do some major partying of your own..

**ghettoboyd** · 04-22-2010, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Once a week is fine, my wife gets pretty freaky in bed when she is drunk. I don`t mind at all.

my wife dose whisky shots every sat and sun night (me too when not cycling) and proceed to have mad ,crazy,intense,olympic porn style sex.....i cant find the problem there....

**alexISthrowed** · 04-22-2010, 04:08 PM

Two of my gf's drink quite a bit, the other one only drinks on occasion.

**taiboxa** · 04-22-2010, 07:37 PM

not enough.. its kinda a double edge sword.. she is friskier/freakier when she drinks but she also gets SLEEPY.. its like.. an uber tease.. ><

**SwollenMooseKnuckle8** · 04-22-2010, 09:10 PM

Once a week isn't bad. If you don't like it, trade up. Think of it like a car lease lol

**breakbones** · 04-23-2010, 12:55 AM

Mine, every friday and sat. lol

**ModelInProgress** · 04-24-2010, 10:37 PM

She doesn't...LOL...I mean, I don't. In the grand scheme of things, once a week isn't "bad", but it seems like the real issue is that you two have different goals/viewpoints. Are you against drinking entirely, or just the frequency of her drinking?

**almostgone** · 04-24-2010, 11:31 PM

I think everyone needs the chance to blow off some steam once a week or so if possible.Personally, I wouldn't have a problem with her getting sloshed 1 night a week PROVIDED
1) She never puts her drinking ahead of taking care of the little one.
2) If it gets to the point that she is constantly getting totalized as and not able to maintain her some semblance of being semi-functional then she would either need to seek help or be escorted to a place that can help her.