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    damm women

    Man been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years now,and she decides she dont want to live in New Orleans anymore and is moveing back to Oklahoma with her mom.She tells me I'am welcome to come with her and we can stay with her mom untill we get on our feet.I have a good job here,and I'am already on my feet but i really love her and will loose her forever if I don't go.Now the real problem is I have a kid with another girl and I couldnt leave him.I love him way to much but she says we will come visit whenever.What should I do?

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    your kid comes first man

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    So she's just getting up and moving to Oklamhoma? No reason? And don't leave your kid for a woman

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    And she's willing to move away from you that easily... I say dump the bitch, go out on top

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    Stay put bud. Leaving your kid will tear you two apart anyway because you will only see him a couple times a year and you'll blanevthat on her. Plus you don't want your kid thinking you ran out on him.

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    How far is it exacly? Do you have a custody agreement with your sons mom? And do you love your job or is it your career? I have a 10yr old son and that keeps me from moving away. his mom, my x-wife, says she will never keep him from me and I won't keep him from her. My dad took off for work when I was 12 and now I don't really know him just the little bit of things he has tought me(not much) so I will never move away from my boy. Unless I can make an ass load of money. And he can come with me or I can see him all the time. I always think what happens if he gets hurt or sick I MUST be there as a father and a daddy.... Man that's a tough one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54 View Post
    So she's just getting up and moving to Oklamhoma? No reason? And don't leave your kid for a woman
    Agreed!

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    Post some pics of her, that always helps us give better advice

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    yea you guys are right.I can't leave my boy.It's gonna be hard but I will just have to man it up and cut her loose.My dad went to prision from 5 untill i was 15 can't leave him like that.

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    [QUOTE=LegendKiller85;5181807]yea you guys are right.I can't leave my boy.It's gonna be hard but I will just have to man it up and cut her loose.My dad went to prision from 5 untill i was 15 can't leave him like that.[/QUOTE
    Good desision! You have chosen wisely.

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    Dont leave your boy. We shouldnt have to be telling you this but I understand women can fvck a mans head up pretty bad if shes got the goods.

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    well one good thing I can finally start dedicateing myself to the gym alot more(never stopped) but now I can go and stay as long as i want and don't have to hear you were at the gym for 2 hours.Plus I can plan a mean cycle with all the money I saved

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    Give up seeing your child and your current job to sleep with a girl at her mom's house??? **** THAT!!!!

    Stay put, tell that bitch to come see you!! If she doesnt, then you know she really doesnt love you in which case date some other girl! end of story.

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    good decision bro. theres plenty of chicks out there but you only have 1 son

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    good decision bro. theres plenty of chicks out there but you only have 1 son

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    Quote Originally Posted by powerliftmike View Post
    Give up seeing your child and your current job to sleep with a girl at her mom's house??? **** THAT!!!!

    Stay put, tell that bitch to come see you!! If she doesnt, then you know she really doesnt love you in which case date some other girl! end of story.
    Fvck that is right.

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    Still waiting on those pics...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54 View Post
    And she's willing to move away from you that easily... I say dump the bitch, go out on top
    i second that

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    Perfect opurtunity to find someone new. Tell her OK, cya and wish her well. Dont make a big deal over it. 90% of the time she will change her mind and change. Most of the time it's just another way women try to control us. DONT let it happen because she will dump you later for being a puss and not a man and standing up for yourself.

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    Your son comes first!! Without a doubt, no questions asked!!

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    Now find yourself a couple of gutter hags to play around with and you'll be past it before you know it. And you'll be there for your boy.

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    hell yea u guys are right f*ck her

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    it just sounds a little too fishy. she just wants to pick up and leave.

    just like that, when she knows you have a lot more to lose than her with your kid.

    for her to put you in that position to choose, seems like she doesnt really care.

    why care for someone doesnt love you or care the same way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by warchild View Post
    your kid comes first man
    Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
    Stay put bud. Leaving your kid will tear you two apart anyway because you will only see him a couple times a year and you'll blanevthat on her. Plus you don't want your kid thinking you ran out on him.
    what they said plus let me get it str8 u want to leave ur own blood for a pvssy that u can get dime a dozen? did that answer ur question?

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    don't leave your kid bro...

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    is this her?


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    Quote Originally Posted by jbm View Post
    is this her?

    still my kid come first

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