Man been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years now,and she decides she dont want to live in New Orleans anymore and is moveing back to Oklahoma with her mom.She tells me I'am welcome to come with her and we can stay with her mom untill we get on our feet.I have a good job here,and I'am already on my feet but i really love her and will loose her forever if I don't go.Now the real problem is I have a kid with another girl and I couldnt leave him.I love him way to much but she says we will come visit whenever.What should I do?