Cant get it up with new gf

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 03:59 PM

Aight guys, dont bash to hard lol, just wondered if any other guys have delt with this. I just started dating this girl recently (2 weeks). And everytime we try to be intimate or start fooling around i cant get hard. This same sorta thing happened in my last relationship and i dont get it. Am i thinking about it to much? Its just weird bc being on a cycle and b4 me and her met id want to pound everything i see and would have to masterbate daily or id go nuts. I am running tren to so i thought maybe that had something to do with it, but i can still get hard when i jack off, just not when im with her. And shes like amazingly hott, and dont really know why she's so into me. Any ideas or help please.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 04:04 PM

bro, this is pretty natural... you start over thinking things and worrying about whether it will happen again... erections are 90% mental.. try some V or C if it becomes a problem or start by going down on her and let herself get turned on... help yourself if you need

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 04:06 PM

thanks. its just driving me nuts. like i said she beautiful as hell. so its like whats the problem. i dont know if my feelings get into it or what. idk just weird.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 04:09 PM

its even worse if they are super hot... then you're worried about what they are thinking.

**Standby** · 07-22-2010, 04:29 PM

so your life is like KPs no sex, just you got the girl so i guess its worse haha

**Shol'va** · 07-22-2010, 04:30 PM

Not to stress mate. DSM is our in house sex therapist, and he will get you "UP" and "Cumming" in no time. Right after he gets to your Bottom of your problem.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 04:30 PM

Originally Posted by Standby

so your life is like KPs no sex, just you got the girl so i guess its worse haha

Bingo, there are worse situations than mine.

OP, sorry to put you there.

**Nooomoto** · 07-22-2010, 04:32 PM

This has happened to me. I quit jerking off, and that did the trick. I was beating it like 3x a day and then trying to have sex and it just wasn't happening. I'd lose erection in the middle of it. After I quit jerking it I was hitting it at least 1-2x a day.

Perhaps this should be moved to the AAS Q&A section?

**Matt** · 07-22-2010, 04:33 PM

Tell her to shave, a beard and mustache on a female will kill any boner...

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 04:33 PM

lol its all good

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 04:34 PM

test enanthate . but like i said i have no problems with erections when she's not around.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 04:37 PM

Originally Posted by OhioMuscle22

test enanthate. but like i said i have no problems with erections when she's not around.

I tried viagra once to see if it was actually better.. I felt like my face would explode I had such bad sinus congestion so I never tried boner meds again, Im hard all the time and 4x as much on cycle.

the one sure fire method for me is to drink a dozen or 2 vodka and redbull and you want to fcuk very aggressively.

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 04:43 PM

i read nooomto's question wrong. i thought he asked me what i was running with the tren . my bad. i think im going nuts. ya believe me i definetly thought about taking it, but didnt know if it would help since i dont have ED.

**Nooomoto** · 07-22-2010, 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by OhioMuscle22

i read nooomto's question wrong. i thought he asked me what i was running with the tren. my bad. i think im going nuts. ya believe me i definetly thought about taking it, but didnt know if it would help since i dont have ED.

I was asking what you are taking with the tren ...but yeah. Try not jerking off. I know it's hard being on test and all, but you'll probably see a difference when shes around if you haven't already blown a few loads that day.

**Standby** · 07-22-2010, 04:58 PM

your scaring me, i feel bad for you. maybe its the female part? just throwing it out there. im jk. id try the whole not beating it thing, i remember with my ex when i was about to get my first bj from her i rubbed one out right before leaving to go to her house and i couldnt finish, i stayed 100% hard but just couldnt finish. i think it was her fault tho i dont think she could blow up a paper bag...

**Standby** · 07-22-2010, 05:00 PM

oh another question, have you ever actually finished the deed with her?

**Times Roman** · 07-22-2010, 05:02 PM

Mate, how old are you?
I got to a point that I have to do cardio with arginine regular to make things better. I can really tell when I skip the cardio for a week due to vacation.

**BuffBuffalo** · 07-22-2010, 05:04 PM

Man I have problems with this everytime I sleep with a new female, unless I've dated her for awhile and have developed feelings already. If not, a Viagra/Cialis cocktail usually does the trick for me. I say give that a try.

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:10 PM

no i havent finished the deed yet. thats why its driving me nuts. im 24.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 05:12 PM

had one hell of a time my first outting, but I found the best way was to go down on her and having her get off got me so hard it was time to lay the lumber to her.

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:12 PM

its like our relationship is like at a stand still right now waiting for this dick to work lol. It happened with the last gf to, but that was also due to ED bc of tren , but as soon as that went away i put it to her hard for a year and made her wish i still had ED.

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:14 PM

tried that KP lol. Ok so she leaves the room to go to the bathroom. I start jerking off a little bit. Its started to get hard. She comes back in the room almost completely naked, gets on top of me than starts giving me head. than guess what happens. dick so soft. AHHHHHHHHHHHH are you f'in serious.

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:14 PM

goes soft

**gixxerboy1** · 07-22-2010, 05:15 PM

Originally Posted by BuffBuffalo

Man I have problems with this everytime I sleep with a new female, unless I've dated her for awhile and have developed feelings already. If not, a Viagra/Cialis cocktail usually does the trick for me. I say give that a try.

the 2 of you need to man up. You need feeling first to be able to get an erection?

The OP your psyching yourself out. Have some balls. You keep saying how hot she is and dont get why she is into you. Girls like confidence and between your attitude and problem you will be gone soon.

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 05:15 PM

hmmm, does she have big hands... that can be a real mind blow...

**Knockout_Power** · 07-22-2010, 05:15 PM

yah, try talking dirty to her... ok, maybe not, Im just a fukken pig

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:17 PM

gixxer u r right man. i just think its gonna come with time

**zimmy** · 07-22-2010, 05:17 PM

dude...it's all in you rmind. I have always had trouble with girls the first time ...i start over thinking it. I bought some liquid assistance from here and all it did was help me not worry about it or think about it. Turn into a meat head for the night and don't think about her or how beautiful she is...just have fun :P

**OhioMuscle22** · 07-22-2010, 05:19 PM

zimmy- thats the problem. i care bout the girl so in my mind i dont want think of her like a slut, etc. but that would work. bc i love sluts

**Standby** · 07-22-2010, 05:21 PM

see im one of those ppl that over thinks everything too, but a girl just has to look at me for a second and its hard lol no problems there. and so you know she maybe hot but there is someone hotter out there your not special.

(that last line was to try and help you out lol)

**Times Roman** · 07-22-2010, 05:36 PM

I used to get that when I was your age with new GF's AND doing a little smokeage... like I had the shy turtle or something?!

**Abominator** · 07-22-2010, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by OhioMuscle22

Aight guys, dont bash to hard lol, just wondered if any other guys have delt with this. I just started dating this girl recently (2 weeks). And everytime we try to be intimate or start fooling around i cant get hard. This same sorta thing happened in my last relationship and i dont get it. Am i thinking about it to much? Its just weird bc being on a cycle and b4 me and her met id want to pound everything i see and would have to masterbate daily or id go nuts. I am running tren to so i thought maybe that had something to do with it, but i can still get hard when i jack off, just not when im with her. And shes like amazingly hott, and dont really know why she's so into me. Any ideas or help please.

If you can spring a boner alone then I'm guessing your problem's purely psychological.

**gixxerboy1** · 07-22-2010, 05:43 PM

Originally Posted by OhioMuscle22

zimmy- thats the problem. i care bout the girl so in my mind i dont want think of her like a slut, etc. but that would work. bc i love sluts

man it really amazes me the difference's between guys.

**alexISthrowed** · 07-22-2010, 05:49 PM

Originally Posted by Abominator

If you can spring a boner alone then I'm guessing your problem's purely psychological.

Hows the cash flow?

**Shol'va** · 07-22-2010, 05:50 PM

Must be a straight boy thing as I don't have any problems in that area. As a matter of fact the guys I fvck don't either as they know what to expect comming from me. but I was a slut back then.

**BuffBuffalo** · 07-22-2010, 05:51 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

the 2 of you need to man up. You need feeling first to be able to get an erection?

The OP your psyching yourself out. Have some balls. You keep saying how hot she is and dont get why she is into you. Girls like confidence and between your attitude and problem you will be gone soon.

I couldn't agree with you more bro. The thing is I know for a fact the reason it always happens is bc I psych myself out..the reason it doesn't really happen with girls who I've developed feelings for is obviously because the comfort level is so much higher. And yeah it's easy to say "man up" but trust me bro if it were that simple that's def what I'd do. It's 100% mental though.

**gixxerboy1** · 07-22-2010, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by BuffBuffalo

I couldn't agree with you more bro. The thing is I know for a fact the reason it always happens is bc I psych myself out..the reason it doesn't really happen with girls who I've developed feelings for is obviously because the comfort level is so much higher. And yeah it's easy to say "man up" but trust me bro if it were that simple that's def what I'd do. It's 100% mental though.

lol. I understand its easier said then done.

That why i said in my other post it amazes me the differences between guys.

Some need feelings. I dont even need her name

**MaNiCC** · 07-22-2010, 06:17 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

lol. I understand its easier said then done.

That why i said in my other post it amazes me the differences between guys.

Some need feelings. I dont even need her name

Filthy Bastard