wats acceptable for fuk buddies?

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 06:54 PM

ok.. i havent done that waiting game since i lost my virginity. i recently went out on a date. great time.. watched a couple movies, made out like kids, ate a pizza... it was awsum... guy kept tellin me he loved how hardcore i am coz i only cheat on my cheat days and i juice too. hes a popular bb in the area (judging my 1st show) so he thought i was pretty cool. now i wasnt looking to jump into anything too serious coz im leaving next year for school. i really just wanted the old fashion friends...with benefits . not just sum1 i fuk a couple n nvr see again... so the 1st date i thought hey we can chill... if i like him we will fuk later. so he said he wanted to call me the next day b4 he goes out with his buds, but i said i was wrking so he said he'd just send me a txt and i could call him.. he didnt txt and i didnt call... i thought hey he txt me all week we hung out.. imma let him hang with the boys n not bug him.. not like i need to talk to him everyday......the next day sent him a txt sayin i hope u had a good night.. no reply! n buddy was txting me ALL week non stop. so i txt him again the nxt saying sayin hey its kool if ur interested, i had fun anyways.. we can b friends cya around, txt me if u get a chance.

...nothing.. still nothing LOL

im not even pissed just confused and shocked LOL

like he even asked me to do sumthing with him friday coz he wanted to see me again.......and he wanted to call me! lke hes not interested hey cool.. im 22.. theres lots of guys out there... but y make plans? y tell me ur gonna call? i dont kno if sumthin happened.. i think maybe he met sum1 else that puts out sooner???? thats the only thing that makes sense.. it just sux...

i wa soo gonna give him a bday bj this week.. but i didnt even get the chance ...

**Shol'va** · 08-03-2010, 06:58 PM

Dont sweat it. It's his loss if he doesn't follow thru.

**HawaiianPride.** · 08-03-2010, 07:00 PM

His loss. If it were me, things would have been much different.

**Igifuno** · 08-03-2010, 07:01 PM

strange dk.. can you think of anything that went wrong during the date? how well do you know this guy? do you think maybe he's married?

**MACHINE5150** · 08-03-2010, 07:03 PM

your assumption is probably right.. or someone else he was talking to before called him again he didnt think was going to hear from again.. thus he was being honest when planning something with you but then something else came up. Ive done that before. don't sweat it though.. your HOT!!

**MACHINE5150** · 08-03-2010, 07:06 PM

There is also the posibility that he doesn't want a **** buddy but something more and the fact that you are leaving in less than a year makes him not want to even get involved with you because he is begining to like you too much and doessn't want to deal with the inevitable drama.. Ive been there before too

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:07 PM

lmao.. naw.. i dont care.. im just stunned....

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:10 PM

Originally Posted by Igifuno

strange dk.. can you think of anything that went wrong during the date? how well do you know this guy? do you think maybe he's married?

nop.. nvr married. i kno enough ppl that know him well in a way.... he's quiet popular in the bb world in ontario anyways..

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:12 PM

Originally Posted by MACHINE5150

There is also the posibility that he doesn't want a **** buddy but something more and the fact that you are leaving in less than a year makes him not want to even get involved with you because he is begining to like you too much and doessn't want to deal with the inevitable drama.. Ive been there before too

i wasnt sure if he just wanted to fuk n leave or if he did want sumthin a lil more. it was like a complete 180.... n just outta no where.

**Ricer** · 08-03-2010, 07:24 PM

He's gay.

**Vettester** · 08-03-2010, 07:27 PM

Yeah, it's a pretty sure sign that he's got something, or should I say "someone" else going on. Anymore, we all keep our cell phones attached like life support, so he's definitely getting the text messages, unless someone ripped his phone or something happened (hope not).

Usually it's the other way around where the guy is trying to make contact, but not getting the response from the girl. Kind of puzzling, huh?

**PC650** · 08-03-2010, 07:28 PM

well maybe he get a lot of attention from other girls, so he doesnt sweat only going for one girl. thats the only thing i can think of.

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:34 PM

yea.. i kno its gotta be sum1 else.. but seriously not man enough to say hey.. sry not interested...?

**HawaiianPride.** · 08-03-2010, 07:44 PM

He didn't want to hurt your feelings because he assumed you'd beat his ass.

**jbm** · 08-03-2010, 07:44 PM

If a man says sorry not interested to a girl.... ouch!!!! on the part of the lady maybe he is not like that!

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:47 PM

Originally Posted by HawaiianPride.

He didn't want to hurt your feelings because he assumed you'd beat his ass.

lmao maybe LOL

**jbm** · 08-03-2010, 07:48 PM

I wish i can meet someone like you krys... lolol!

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:52 PM

lol u got kids... jeeeze

**jbm** · 08-03-2010, 07:54 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

lol u got kids... jeeeze

hehehe! just wishing..... lolol!

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 07:57 PM

lmao

**lovbyts** · 08-03-2010, 07:58 PM

He is gay and was considering turning back due to your hotness but after the make out session and going home he decided (wrong decision) to stay with his BF.

He is in the hospital due to a car accident because he was to turned on after you left and distracted. He is in a coma, phone was destroyed and will call you when he wakes up.

He is to intimidated by your looks and hotness (make out session) and is afraid to feel like a teenager in love again because last time he got his heart broken and is not man enough to talk to you YET. He will come around to his senses...

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

He is gay and was considering turning back due to your hotness but after the make out session and going home he decided (wrong decision) to stay with his BF.

He is in the hospital due to a car accident because he was to turned on after you left and distracted. He is in a coma, phone was destroyed and will call you when he wakes up.

He is to intimidated by your looks and hotness (make out session) and is afraid to feel like a teenager in love again because last time he got his heart broken and is not man enough to talk to you YET. He will come around to his senses...

maybe hes dead! lol

**lovbyts** · 08-03-2010, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

maybe hes dead! lol

I didnt want to go there because there really is that possibility. Stranger things have happened but it's a possible. .

**Stigmata101** · 08-03-2010, 08:03 PM

Did I read that correctly...your 22 and on juice?

Anyways his loss, sounds like he seen something he didn't like and doesn't have the balls to tell ya.

**Knockout_Power** · 08-03-2010, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

ok.. i havent done that waiting game since i lost my virginity. i recently went out on a date. great time.. watched a couple movies, made out like kids, ate a pizza... it was awsum... guy kept tellin me he loved how hardcore i am coz i only cheat on my cheat days and i juice too. hes a popular bb in the area (judging my 1st show) so he thought i was pretty cool. now i wasnt looking to jump into anything too serious coz im leaving next year for school. i really just wanted the old fashion friends...with benefits . not just sum1 i fuk a couple n nvr see again... so the 1st date i thought hey we can chill... if i like him we will fuk later. so he said he wanted to call me the next day b4 he goes out with his buds, but i said i was wrking so he said he'd just send me a txt and i could call him.. he didnt txt and i didnt call... i thought hey he txt me all week we hung out.. imma let him hang with the boys n not bug him.. not like i need to talk to him everyday......the next day sent him a txt sayin i hope u had a good night.. no reply! n buddy was txting me ALL week non stop. so i txt him again the nxt saying sayin hey its kool if ur interested, i had fun anyways.. we can b friends cya around, txt me if u get a chance.

...nothing.. still nothing LOL

im not even pissed just confused and shocked LOL

like he even asked me to do sumthing with him friday coz he wanted to see me again.......and he wanted to call me! lke hes not interested hey cool.. im 22.. theres lots of guys out there... but y make plans? y tell me ur gonna call? i dont kno if sumthin happened.. i think maybe he met sum1 else that puts out sooner???? thats the only thing that makes sense.. it just sux...

i wa soo gonna give him a bday bj this week.. but i didnt even get the chance ...

quick question... you didnt happen to mention your rendezvous with Donkey Schlong, I mean Kong, did you? That might scare a guy away if he thinks he has to follow up after Mandingo

**vanduhl** · 08-03-2010, 08:05 PM

hey diamond....looking at your pic and all....id say this man got in a huge fiery inferno of a car accident on the way home from your date..

**PC650** · 08-03-2010, 08:09 PM

wait steroids enlarges the womens clitoris........... maybe thats why??

**Shol'va** · 08-03-2010, 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

maybe hes dead! lol

Must be from the neck up. If I was straight I'd date you, but then I'd probably just spend time with you shopping for new clothes. lol

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 08:14 PM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

quick question... you didnt happen to mention your rendezvous with Donkey Schlong, I mean Kong, did you? That might scare a guy away if he thinks he has to follow up after Mandingo

lmao.. no i didnt tell him that story....

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by PC650

wait steroids enlarges the womens clitoris........... maybe thats why??

we didnt make it that far...

**HawaiianPride.** · 08-03-2010, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Must be from the neck up. If I was straight I'd date you, but then I'd probably just spend time with you shopping for new clothes. lol

If I were gay, I'd still date her.

**PC650** · 08-03-2010, 08:16 PM

Oo...... well maybe thats why then lol

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 08:17 PM

Originally Posted by PC650

Oo...... well maybe thats why then lol

that was my 1st thought.. but fuk.. y not atemtp to see if i would put out on the 2nd date???

**Knockout_Power** · 08-03-2010, 08:18 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

lmao.. no i didnt tell him that story....

with that variable out of the way, just assume he's an insecure jerk... I sersiously doubt he was thoughtful enough to keep distance due to future judging especially seeins how if he was that righteous he could have at least explained himself instead of being chicken shit...

TO's a big place, NEXT!!!

funny thing, small world, met an Italian girl from TO over my holidays in Kelowna... imagine that, a wop from the GTA.... must be something in the water there, she tasted amazing.

**Shol'va** · 08-03-2010, 08:20 PM

Originally Posted by HawaiianPride.

If I were gay, I'd still date her.

According to the gay rule book, page 103 section 4, thats a no no. lol

**Diamond*K** · 08-03-2010, 08:22 PM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

with that variable out of the way, just assume he's an insecure jerk... I sersiously doubt he was thoughtful enough to keep distance due to future judging especially seeins how if he was that righteous he could have at least explained himself instead of being chicken shit...

TO's a big place, NEXT!!!

funny thing, small world, met an Italian girl from TO over my holidays in Kelowna... imagine that, a wop from the GTA.... must be something in the water there, she tasted amazing.

when were u here?? where was my pm??

**Knockout_Power** · 08-03-2010, 08:24 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

that was my 1st thought.. but fuk.. y not atemtp to see if i would put out on the 2nd date???

thats such a horrible way to look at it... he's just an idiot and if he found someone else to spread on the first date then good for him... wtf is with the world nowadays, next you'll have to be fcuking before the appetizers come out on your first date dinner for it to be an acceptable date.

No wonder I never get laid if thats what girls expect.

**gixxerboy1** · 08-03-2010, 08:24 PM

well he went outy with the boys anything could have happened, could be tired, hung over or hooked up. You said it yourself you have no reltaionship yet. So its no biggie he didnt call or text for 1 day.

I would bet if it was something simple you scared him of with your "if your not interested its cool"

**Knockout_Power** · 08-03-2010, 08:25 PM

Originally Posted by diamond-krys

when were u here?? where was my pm??

heh, re-read my post... I was in Kelowna, she was there with friends on holidays as well... they were staying at the same waterfront condos we were...

she made me cook in the nude...

**Shol'va** · 08-03-2010, 08:26 PM

Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

thats such a horrible way to look at it... he's just an idiot and if he found someone else to spread on the first date then good for him... wtf is with the world nowadays, next you'll have to be fcuking before the appetizers come out on your first date dinner for it to be an acceptable date.

No wonder I never get laid if thats what girls expect.

After all these years of not getting laid they expect that your gay, or a booger eater.