Sorry to start another pretty useless thread, but if CherryDP and Times Roman get to, so do I!!!

, much love boys
Am I a jerk for this? Ive never had a bad break up... you know, yelling, screaming, name calling insulting, someone cheating etc... its always been pretty mature, we just knew things werent working so we parted ways. I still talk to most ex's a couple times a year and we can have supper and talk about shit and whatever...
But.... I like seeing that they've gained weight, dont look as hot as when we dated, maybe didnt get that high paying job they were hoping for, got dumped by there last boyfriend...
Is this normal or am I just sick in the head? We are supposed to be friends, you dont think this way about friends do you?
-KP