OK first thing first.
Stats?
Age
Height
Weight
Body fat
DIET?????
Workout experience
How long working out consistently 4-5x a week
OK now back to your question; You sound slightly irritable. Are you getting enough fiber in your diet? Maybe you are constipated?
One of your points was maybe they cant have a body builders diet? If not then they should NOT consider using gear.
What's the use of putting 120 octane gas into a 1970 stock Vega? You will just burn holes in the pistons and it wont go very fast. Now if you have a V8 vega with 12/1 pistons, Crane comp cam, Holly 750 double pumper etc the 120 octane gas is going to do a LOT more good than running low octane gas.
Everyone has an excuse and everyone thinks they are the exception to the rule. All the hard gainers have small bones, hyper metabolism and not matter what they eat they just CANT gain weight. Only problem is all they eat is junk and empty calories ones the truth comes out.... I know, I was one of them. If I would have had
1/2 a clue in my 20s I could have easily gained 40+ lbs of solid muscle but instead I was a skinny fvck most of my 20s and NO, I did not turn to gear.
Sorry if you are tired of hearing about diet but it has been proven over and over and over that diet is the key. ALL natural BB will contest to that and any of the AAS users who have learned how to use gear and maintain the gains.