Need some single guys input

[40plusnewbie]

So I'm married but am in counseling with my wife and not sure how things will turn out, we are still living together and up until very recently still banging.

But I was talking to this girl, she's pretty hot and 23 and I"m 43 and things seemed to be going along at a decent pace. We flirt pretty heavily together and she has several tattoo's and piercings so I figure she is a pretty free spirit or whatever. It got to the point that she told me she hasn't had sex in 2 months and that she "loves humping". So I chime in with I"m on testosterone and can't get enough, needing it 4 times a day.
Then she's like "what, your a juice head?"! "I know about that and it's dangerous and my brother studies nutrition and I learned from him it's dangerous." Then I try to explain to her that it's not dangerous and has she ever heard of testosterone replacement therapy, I care about my health, etc. But it was a major fvck up because of her preconceived notions. Go figure, some chick with several tat's and piercings and she wigs out about this.

So do you single guys tell different chicks that you use steroids? How do you handle this? I don't have the physique that someone might think or assume I use them (yet) but I think I missed out on some good humping which sucks. I haven't been single in 8 years, before that i was a one night stand commando. Not sure where things are going with the wife but we had a big fight this morning and I told her I want a divorce again. We had been getting along much better the past couple months, and no, she doesn't know about the chick.

[gixxerboy1]

where i was from girls pretty much knew who was on. I never announced it. But i really wouldn't deny it either.

[aPlinker]

So do you single guys tell different chicks that you use steroids?

Havent used steroids yet but No, I wouldnt.

[big_ron]

I dont tell them, its simpler, if they ask its a different story, depending on the type of girl she maybe i might so no

[Ernst]

Moral of the story: at least wait until after you've banged them.

[Standby]

ya i think when my time comes that i cross over i wont be telling ppl. if anyone asks my bestfriends ill let them know. a girl depending on her purpose if she is just a toy for alittle nah she can mind her own business. if i had plans for her to be around id get a feeling for what she thinks about it then tell her so i could have an idea if she would be leaving or not

[Standby]

Moral of the story: at least wait until after you've banged them.

yes 100% agree here

[big_ron]

yes 100% agree here

Best advice that could be given. you live and learn

[40plusnewbie]

I firgured I was green lit when she said she loved humping so let the horses out of the gate.... live and learn

[Standby]

so is she really gone? you couldnt save it?

[40plusnewbie]

I'm back in the game! I wasn't gonna be the one to pursue after that but she called me tonight, saweeeet!

[40plusnewbie]

23, I can't friggin wait hahaha

[desizon]

23, I can't friggin wait hahaha

dibs seconds.

[morty]

If I caught you around my daughter I would probably break your legs so you wouldn't prey on young girls again

[paulzane]

That was far too early to tell her ....... It is like her telling you she is a crackhead! That is how some people perceive steroid use.

[SomeRandomGuy]

I believe I've learned to trust no one, and tell no one. Better things seem to happen as a result. Besides, she doesn't need to know. Just say you were kidding.

That was far too early to tell her ....... It is like her telling you she is a crackhead! That is how some people perceive steroid use.

Yes, exactly! Who cares whose fault it is that people have been bombarded with bullshit from the media. They're still gonna think it, so why even say anything.

[ReX357]

If I caught you around my daughter I would probably break your legs so you wouldn't prey on young girls again

He's not exactly preying on a young girl. She's 23, she's old enough to make her own choices.

[big_ron]

He's not exactly preying on a young girl. She's 23, she's old enough to make her own choices.

Yeah, you aint braking no ones legs internet thug :P

[jojomcgo]

He's not exactly preying on a young girl. She's 23, she's old enough to make her own choices.

Agreed! WTF talking about a 23 female like she's twelve lol im married so just look don't touch but if i was in a sh!tty marriage and free.. hell i would love to get with a 23 year old ...

[LGM]

If I caught you around my daughter I would probably break your legs so you wouldn't prey on young girls again

Yeah, you're gonna fit right in here.... lol

OP; keep your mouth closed about gear usage. I'd eventually tell her, like, if we ever got married. My current gf knows, but is also aware of how it's used, etc. since her ex used them as well.

[DSM4Life]

Whisper it to her while giving her anal. Then if she ever finds out you can say "I told you about this before! "

[40plusnewbie]

Morty is a troll fan boy of mine who i have on ignore btw

[Dfour]

Been single for a year after a 8 year relationship

I haven't done gear (yet) but either way I'd deny to every chick.

Do describe this tatted up 23 yr old more please

[lovbyts]

Tell her to go talk to her mother and most other women who are over 50 who had gone through menopause and had testosterone therapy and see if they are juice heads? Then ask her if she is just some insecure hippy chick and that's why she has the tats? They why is she pre judging?

[40plusnewbie]

She chilled about that and is fine with it now. She just said "It's your choice what you put in your own body" in a neutral way without judgment (after I talked to her about whether or not ppl judge her for having piercings and tattoo's). I haven't tapped it yet and she is starting to show her drama/baggage so I might be blowing her off soon. I don't want to be her parent (unless it's in bed and she's calling me Daddy lol - I have no kids btw)

[MaNiCC]

Never tell someone you are just "banging", maybe tell someone if its getting serious, even still thats only maybe