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    being harassed on facebook

    my best friend is being harassed on face book and email....

    anyone have exp with getting an IP address and finding out who this person is..

    its getting pretty bad and ruining his marriage



    please if you can help with the solution listed above.. dont want cops involved

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    I've got a great idea. One that is so complex that I'm not sure a normal person could think of it.








    DELETE the FVCKING facebook and change your email! How is having a facebook so important that you'll chance it ruining a marriage. People act like they can't live without twitter and facebook. Facebook is the devil.

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    ^x2 agree! I had this young thing chasing after me a few years back, and she convinced me I needed to do face book. Primarily so she could email me. But then she said my page was too plain. needed some pics. So i give her the password so she can play house and spruce things up. next time i go in there, i see pics and wall paper and if i'm not mistaken there were flowers in the vase next to the window and a goddam roast in the oven! My point is, i just wanted to see the email. So I close the whole thing down and walk away. It aint worth all the hassle!!!

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    facebook is poison given by the devil. fvck that website im addicted to it but every day i think about deleting it

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    I don't have it and neither does my wife. I have stayed in contact with everyone that is important to me.

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    Agree with all of the above.

    If deleting facebook is not an option you can block them, also you can stop people posting on your wall etc so nobody can see what is being said

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    I deleted facebook six months ago and have never looked back. I agree delete it and move on with your life.

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    I think its important to see people in person and if not see them then call them its much more personal. My friends and family know I care because I take the time out to call them if I can't drop by to see them. Just delete it.

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    I like facebook. I have moved around a lot in the past and have found it great catching up with old friends.

    I can't see how it would ever effect my marriage....

    Can you report the issue to FB?

    Can you block people?

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    its simple...block the person

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    Quote Originally Posted by l2elapse View Post
    its simple...block the person
    More than likely he doesn't know who it is.

    But yeah, if its tearing your relationship up, DELETE THE FVCKING ACCOUNT.

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    the recipe for the solution- add one pair testicles...simmer

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    I recall the same conversation about cell phones, wcable Tv. Hell even just plan tv back when we only go 3 stations and that was only If I held the bunny ears on my feet and stood on my head.

    ForgetAboutIt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasRenegade View Post
    I recall the same conversation about cell phones, wcable Tv. Hell even just plan tv back when we only go 3 stations and that was only If I held the bunny ears on my feet and stood on my head.

    ForgetAboutIt.


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    ok well I used email and facebook as a source where to get the ip address.
    It goes further to mail(IN MAILBOX) , phone calls and leaving shit on his doorstep.

    so thanks for the suggestion... but it aint going to work...

    I have been trying to look it up on google but i cannot find how to get the ip address. I know you can and then find out their home address is.

    I was hoping there were some hackers on juice..lol

    any hackers>>?? pm me maybe....

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    move to facebook of sex...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brewster View Post
    ok well I used email and facebook as a source where to get the ip address.
    It goes further to mail(IN MAILBOX) , phone calls and leaving shit on his doorstep.

    so thanks for the suggestion... but it aint going to work...

    I have been trying to look it up on google but i cannot find how to get the ip address. I know you can and then find out their home address is.

    I was hoping there were some hackers on juice..lol

    any hackers>>?? pm me maybe....
    Sounds like you're about to make a bad decision and get yourself arrested. Why not just involve the police if it's that serious? I guarantee if you show up on this persons door step then police will be involved and you will not be justified.

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    Facebook help center is where you can go to report harrassment, etc.
    http://www.facebook.com/help/?page=1020

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brewster View Post
    ok well I used email and facebook as a source where to get the ip address.
    It goes further to mail(IN MAILBOX) , phone calls and leaving shit on his doorstep.

    so thanks for the suggestion... but it aint going to work...

    I have been trying to look it up on google but i cannot find how to get the ip address. I know you can and then find out their home address is.

    I was hoping there were some hackers on juice..lol

    any hackers>>?? pm me maybe....
    I watched my buddy an IT geek, track IP addresses before, can be done.....find a geek

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brewster View Post
    ok well I used email and facebook as a source where to get the ip address.
    It goes further to mail(IN MAILBOX) , phone calls and leaving shit on his doorstep.

    so thanks for the suggestion... but it aint going to work...

    I have been trying to look it up on google but i cannot find how to get the ip address. I know you can and then find out their home address is.

    I was hoping there were some hackers on juice..lol

    any hackers>>?? pm me maybe....
    Yes there are ways. You can even send denial of service attacks and cause all kinds of mayhem using multiple anonymous IP Addresses bouncing all over eastern europe. I wont go into it here. The best I'll say is check out some hacker forums. If it is doable, which it is, you should find what you need there. However, with that said be aware internet laws are changing daily, especially in regards to online harrassing. And be careful of some of the email crack programs you may have to download as they could be booby trapped. It's best to find someone you know and trust to find this info for you.

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    Just delete the Facebook account and get a new email. Problem solved.

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    Brewster - call the police they will solve your problem. What this person is doing is against the law. The last thing you want to do is come home one night and have some guy waiting in your house.

    "It goes further to mail(IN MAILBOX) , phone calls and leaving shit on his doorstep" ILLEGAL

    As Tiger said get a new e-mail and if you have to have facebook set the privacy settings so only your friends can see anything. This is really easy to accomplish.

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    It's pretty easy to live with out it.


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    let me guess "your buddy" is getting herrased by the ex bf of his current GF? or the husband of the woman found out that ur "buddy" is banging his wife? y wanna tell us the whole story cause u r being criptic about is to why he is being harrased???

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    Im pretty good with finding out who people are. I have had to make a couple ..... unscheduled visits to tough guys lol... PM me if you want some help. I will need as much info as you have, Screen names, email etc. No promises! But people are not aware of the trails they leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
    I've got a great idea. One that is so complex that I'm not sure a normal person could think of it.








    DELETE the FVCKING facebook and change your email! How is having a facebook so important that you'll chance it ruining a marriage. People act like they can't live without twitter and facebook. Facebook is the devil.
    Oh snizzel

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    snizzel....lol thats a new one

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    Quote Originally Posted by lil_herc81 View Post
    snizzel....lol thats a new one
    Because you aren't wigger thug like me.


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    Lmaorotf...hahahahahha

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    Quote Originally Posted by lil_herc81 View Post
    snizzel....lol thats a new one
    my thoughts exactly.....might have to use this one myself sometime!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SlimmerMe View Post
    my thoughts exactly.....might have to use this one myself sometime!
    well dont its a Secret Gay code.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    well dont its a Secret Gay code.....
    Darnit Cal you could have at least waited till they used it before telling them this. lol

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    for the snizzle 

    is now spinning stars in your head 

    and they're flashing and splashing 

    a dizzy, bright red 

    and you draw back your lips 

    like you've sucked sour plums 

    and out in the air 

    an explosion just comes

    that shatters and splatters
    the air like a rocket - and where is that hanky 

    that’s deep in your pocket!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shol'va View Post
    Darnit Cal you could have at least waited till they used it before telling them this. lol
    I thought I should Warn Slimmer before she categorized with a "wrong" crowd...sorry

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    fyi just in case:
    on facebook there are 2 things: deactivate or delete.....

    deactivate: keeps the page alive but not visible and available and ready to renew
    delete: means gone

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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    let me guess "your buddy" is getting herrased by the ex bf of his current GF? or the husband of the woman found out that ur "buddy" is banging his wife? y wanna tell us the whole story cause u r being criptic about is to why he is being harrased???
    Yeah, this isn't a Facebook problem. This is a real life problem, and Facebook is just one of the ways of getting in touch with your friend.

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    cant you trace where the harrassing phone call came from or where the mail in the mailbox came from?

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