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01-05-2011, 08:56 PM #1
I feel like I got played by like a f#$%^& fiddle
I'm just going to post the short version since I'm about to head to the gym. If anyone is curious I'll post the longer version when I get back.
I'm turning 25 pretty soon, and I dated a 43 year old for about nine months. During the last few months, she seemed more distant. December roles around and she just up and quits talking to me. No calls, no texts, nothing. This was mid December when she stopped talking to me. Now I hear that she's ****ing a different guy around my age. I thought older women were more mature than this. I guess this shows how much I know about them.
This sucks because I really did love her. But oh well, shit happens.
Bojangle, feel free to rip me another asshole since you probably saw this coming before I did.
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01-05-2011, 09:12 PM #2
This is a blessing in disguise...
I wouldn't want to be with someone that cheated on me, ever. Also, look into women your own age. It really can be alot better.
I'm turning 30 in a little bit, I could never see myself dating a 50 year old let alone staying with her for the rest of my life.
Don't worry buddy, $#!t happens its how you react that counts.
Good luck man.
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01-05-2011, 09:18 PM #3
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01-05-2011, 09:37 PM #4Banned
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Who the fvck cares?? Every older woman ive EVER been involved with was purely based on sex. Why would you want to settle down with a woman 20yrs older?? Fvck her, get your nut and do your thing. Dont fall in love for christs sake, i mean did I mention shes 20 YEARS older?? You seem to have forgotten that part.
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01-05-2011, 09:39 PM #5
sorry to hear your heart got broken......age and maturity have nothing to do with each other; and it is not maturity actually but principals and ethics. I bet she was like this at 25 or even 18 which is probably why she appealed to you in the first place in an odd sort of way....maybe?
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01-05-2011, 09:43 PM #6
sucks but tomorrow still comes, try to look at it as a learning experience
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01-05-2011, 09:45 PM #7
It sucks to get your heartbroken so sorry for that.
The thing is would you really want to settle down with someone that much older or for that matter somebody who would just brush you off like that?
As a poster said age and maturity have nothing to do with one another and on a lighter note chances are there isn't to much tread left on her tire, so do things that make you feel better and move on.
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01-05-2011, 09:46 PM #8
double post.
Last edited by Hunter; 01-05-2011 at 10:07 PM.
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01-05-2011, 10:05 PM #9
youre young dude, try and let it go(easier said than done) but live life! dont waste the best years of YOUR life.
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01-05-2011, 10:11 PM #10
Why would you try to have a serious relationship with someone 18 years older than you? Have you heard the term cougar? She wanted sex and you should have realized that. You made her feel young and wanted.
Im gonna bet there's a huge age difference in your parents or you grew up without motherly figure.Last edited by stack_it; 01-05-2011 at 10:29 PM.
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01-05-2011, 10:23 PM #11
i remember when i thought i was in love. then it ended and i thought i was in love all over again a month later.
if your the kind of guy that "needs" to be in love then find another one man its all you can do. but id suggest not trying to find love anymore. leave it have fun if it comes around again then it comes around again
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01-05-2011, 10:34 PM #12
she left you cause you loved her....
its simple
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01-05-2011, 11:09 PM #13
If a woman broke your heart, try dating men.
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01-05-2011, 11:38 PM #14
Dude you weren't in love with her. You were in love with the p*ssy!!! That 43yr old, probably f*cked you like a porn star and turned you out! I don't know of any older women f*cking a man 20yrs her junior that wants to marry said man...just sayin.
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01-06-2011, 12:20 AM #15
Thanks for the harsh love, I needed it!!! For real though I'm alright. In fact, I plan on going cougar hunting this weekend!!
It started off as us just hanging out and ****ing and we both just got attached to each other. Neither of us planned on getting married or anything like that. We just enjoyed spending time with each other.
I guess I saw this coming. For one, the age difference, two, she has been shady these past couple of months. I'm not going to bitch anymore about this. Emotions have clouded my judgement, nuff said.
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01-06-2011, 12:22 AM #16
Just focus on other things in your life that make you happy..maybe set some new goals for yourself. If you're the type of guy that has to be with someone, you have to be able to be happy "alone." Not sure if that's the case but I was in the same position awhile back and once I realized it things have been much better.
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01-06-2011, 01:05 AM #17
I've set some new goals for myself. For one, I'm going to the gym more and am in the process of cutting down to at least 10% bf. I plan on going with some buddies of mine to PCB for spring break. After spring break I plan on starting my first cycle and I may be starting grad school for Exercise Science and Nutrition this coming august. Depends if I get a job or get accepted into a Dietetic Internship.
Just an fyi, I'm not one of those guys that needs to be in love or need to be with someone. I never expected for us to develop strong feelings for each other, it just happened.
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01-06-2011, 01:08 AM #18Anabolic Member
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Keep your head up bro. I got played like a fvcking fiddle tonight too....Waiting for thie bitch to call or text back is like waiting for a train to arrive at a fvcking bus stop....Move on
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01-06-2011, 01:23 AM #19
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01-06-2011, 03:24 AM #20
By the chick with the boyfriend who lives around my way? If so, coulda told u that was coming......Lol, hit me up bro....
Anyway, to the OP......screw feelings dude, you dont need a chick, no matter how young or old to be happy. If someone makes the choice to not be in your life, I view it as their loss unless you're some kind of degenerate, which I doubt. So chin up, both of you *****s....lol
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01-06-2011, 04:05 AM #21
It sucks to have someone cheat on you. Your best bet is to move on from here.
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01-06-2011, 08:03 AM #22
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01-06-2011, 08:20 AM #23
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01-06-2011, 10:08 AM #25
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01-06-2011, 10:16 AM #26
^^lmao
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01-06-2011, 11:05 AM #28
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You left teethmarks on my junk and trunk !
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01-06-2011, 11:23 AM #30
chicks are fd in the head better to be single and fvck em all
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01-06-2011, 01:48 PM #31Anabolic Member
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01-06-2011, 05:42 PM #32
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01-06-2011, 05:48 PM #33
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01-06-2011, 08:37 PM #34
She used to take me out for drinks, clubbing, sushi dinners, sake, then I'd nail her in the back of my car, or on top of a stack of crates out back by the club. We'd do this atleast 3 times a week. Then I'd stay at her place, she'd cook for me then I'd nail her in the shower in the morning, and every night. Then there's getting a bj from her whenever I wanted. She swallowed every time. So I'm pretty sure I was doing something right.
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01-06-2011, 08:43 PM #35
and what about matters of the heart? what did she do for that?
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01-06-2011, 08:45 PM #36
She crushed it.
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01-06-2011, 08:46 PM #37
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