Originally Posted by
lovbyts
The problem is women get to have all these excuses for everything, hormones, emotions, physiological etc. If a guy used anything like that for an excuse he would be cruised. A woman can say she needs a personal day or it's just a woman thing and cant make it to work. If a guy did that he would be fired.
Tell her to get off her butt because it's getting to FAT. Tell her to buck up, live up to YOUR expectations and start being who she should be. Sorry I just hate all this equality stuff that is so one sided. If you want equality then live up to the expectations.
Now dont label me as someone who things all women are this way because I dont. I work with plenty of very good, productive and women who are equal as men in work, responsibility and pay. I have also worked with many who only use and abuse the system.
Really, what wrong with telling it like it is? Have I done it? yes. Does it always work out? No or at least not right away. I have had at least one breakup due to me calling a spade a spade but after about a year she came back apologizing and said I was 100% right. I said thank but I already knew that. LOL