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I grew up in Philadelphia and yes i have had some scary $hit happen to be. Nothing like cursing someone off to have a gun pulled and put in your face. You think it doesn't happen a lot maybe just not where you are from. Fair fights are a thing of the past. We will just agree to disagree.
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Like I said i have no issues with my kid fighting. I will teach him how to beat someone up but my issues is being there at the time of the fight and "promoting." Being there and not breaking it up is promoting. If my kid comes home all bloody and he tells me what he did i would clean him off and pat him on the back.
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04-21-2011, 01:26 PM #43
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04-21-2011, 02:03 PM #44
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04-21-2011, 02:19 PM #45
Yes DSM, agree to disagree. But I've been shot, shot at, and had both my girlfriend (now wife) and my house shot up. Fair fights still do exist though. I was bullied (I was the only black kid in an all white school), handled my business and wasn't bullied anymore. The incident I described with my son was with a bunch of wanna-be-suburban gang bangers. Plus now that I do what I do with inner city kids here in Vegas, I see everything you are talking about. But from my experience, gun play doesn't happen as a result of bullying (in the inner city, I'm referring to), gun play comes into play because of drugs and money. Your experience may differ, but the 4 kids that I've coached in the last couple years, who are now dead wasn't a result of bullying but because of drug deals gone wrong.
BTW, I know S. Philly pretty well, I spend many summers there, my uncle owned a barbershop there and I'm sure you know about black barbershops! LOL!
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04-22-2011, 11:29 AM #46
Sorry, I disagree with the bold. I do agree about the 'pussification of kids' (great George Carlin bit btw), but a line has to be drawn. Teaching your kid to stand up for himself, an eye for an eye etc. is great IMO. This father didn't 'adamantly' encourage his son on how to beat a bullies ass; he gave his son instructions that were potentially fatal and extremely irresponsible. Let's reverse the role; your child is in a fight (congrats again btw!) - a basic fair one on one - and the other father is instructing his kid to smash your kids head on the concrete. The kid does it. Your kid now has brain damage (GOD FORBID, you know i'm making a hypothetical point here) - do you still agree with this kind of 'coaching'? I'm all for the kid's father getting involved (therefore I disagree with DSM's position on this), but in so doing, and being an ADULT and the parent of one of these kids, has a responsibility to give responsible advice, OR just STFU and make sure all is fair.
All that said, I again reiterate that I completely disagree with the judges - the punishment FAR outweighs the crime - in fact, I really saw no actual crime take place. Words were spoken, that's about it. I'm not sure how I would have dealt with this were I in the position of a judge, but I guess that's why i'm not.
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04-22-2011, 11:46 AM #47
Like I say this is what kills me about our judges. They will throw the book at someone who has never been in trouble before, who made an error in judgement, then turn around and release a repeat rapist or killer back onto the streets.
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04-24-2011, 02:47 AM #48
That's how our wonderful system works. If you are a typical hard working class citizen and you get caught making a judgment error you will be racked over the coals. First time DUI offenders if you are a typical 30 something male will cost you plenty. If you are a repeat offender typically nothing or very little will be done until you kill someone.
I have said it before and will continue saying, the system is fvcked. It's stacked against the typical working class citizen.
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