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    my lass dose not respect me any more what should i do.

    my lass dose not respect me any more(at all) so what should i do .
    i dont whant to knock the fk out of her Thu. and i still love her !
    it winds me up so much.

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    Are you talking about your dog or your wife? Damn Brits and their lingo....

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    my wife too be

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    Is she the one your pic?

    What do you mean she doesn't respect you? Give some examples...

    A woman that doesn't respect a man, is a woman that will cheat

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    say i do something wrong she will call me fking prick etc. but dose it quit often.
    what dose that matter about the pic. yeah shes realley nice looking. and in the pic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by B*R*A*D UK View Post
    say i do something wrong she will call me fking prick etc. but dose it quit often.
    what dose that matter about the pic. yeah shes realley nice looking. and in the pic.
    Well she is a looker, if the sex has not decreased noticeably she isn't cheating.

    But in order to establish dominance you don't do it through violence or your yelling that show's weakness. You establish dominance through a calm stern tone, tell her to watch her mouth and treat you with respect. As long as you don't degrade her and call her names she shouldn't do it to you either.

    Has this always been happening or just recently?

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    pm you

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    B*R*A*D UK,
    She probably doesn't respect you because you can't type to save your life.

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    Get yourself some typing lessons, then go from there.

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    ok thanks for that.

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    Better! But "ok" should have a capitol "O". Being that is is the start of a sentence.

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    any instances that you can say she doesn't respect you?

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    Immortal Soldiers suggestions were very good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by clemont51 View Post
    Immortal Soldiers suggestions were very good.
    yes immortal soldiers very good

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    there are two types of women in general

    1) OK with who you are
    2) Want to change you to fit their needs

    Sounds like you have a #2

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    there are two types of women in general

    1) OK with who you are
    2) Want to change you to fit their needs

    Sounds like you have a #2
    Excactly!
    Thing is, they are pretty much all #2, like 99,99%
    You, may think you have found #1, but most likely u just happened to fit her mold.

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    Quote Originally Posted by First Timer 42 View Post
    Excactly!
    Thing is, they are pretty much all #2, like 99,99%
    You, may think you have found #1, but most likely u just happened to fit her mold. (For now)
    Eventually they all try to change you into who they think you should/could be and of course all the = better for THEM. lol
    Recently mine started some of that's sh*t. Didn't last to long after I told her without any reserve she needed to go find Mr. Right because I am who I am and no amount of nagging is going to do anything but find me packing her bags.

    I then proceeded to let her know what she had been slacking on lately. Not how she needed to do more but how she had been doing LESS than originally. I made it clear that it was far from unfair for her to expect ME to do more, improve myself when in fact she was doing less than originally. Got to keep them in line and if they wont then stand your ground and move on because it will only get worse after you get married. Once they realize you have no backbone they will push you until they get bored because no matter how you change, what you do for them or how perfect you become they will eventually leave due to no challenge.

    Best thing you can do is tell her straight up she does not respect you so you have no respect for her. She can either become your whore, suck your d*ck at command, bend over then get out or just get out; otherwise she needs to show you the respect you deserve and you will do likewise.

    I had one girlfriend who was being a b*tch off and on for a while get upset and tell me (yell at me) she wanted someone who adored her. I told her then she needs to learn how to be adorable and not a b*tch because how she is being treated is a direct reflection of how she is acting. LOL

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    knock her out bro, like a boss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevey_6t9 View Post
    knock her out bro, like a boss.
    dont think so. real men dont hit women.
    Last edited by B*R*A*D UK; 06-12-2011 at 07:01 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevey_6t9 View Post
    knock her out bro, like a boss.
    You make a thread about how someone your age can handle himself better, then you make an idiot post like that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg View Post
    You make a thread about how someone your age can handle himself better, then you make an idiot post like that
    Hes just joking.
    Just got a little fired up, watching another Zyzz Utube vid., and cracked a little....

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    hope he is joking

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    find a new one

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1;5666***
    find a new one
    no!! i love her too much. think i need to just talk to her.

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    Maybe you guys should take some marriage counseling before you get married

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    Remember this bro if the shit is hitting the fan now, it will be much worst later.

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    Man your in trouble, woman should know and show respect and know who is the leader, the man is headship and women should always be the follower, if you want to marry this bird you gotta get some mentoring all some shit cause if a women shows no respect to her husband and the man becomes the follower then you'll be in for shit marriage and no doubt divorce will be on the cards.

    But aswell bro, i loved plenty of other women too before i found my wife, thought id never get over it, thought it was the end of the world, but you always do, dont always look at the downside be positive, this is what you may need to move on find someone else who shows a little respect without asking for it? you'll be a much happier man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by B*R*A*D UK View Post
    dont think so. real men dont hit women.
    You mean like this? Look at 3:10 into the clip. LOL

    Last edited by lovbyts; 06-13-2011 at 03:30 AM.

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    ^ What clip

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    Quote Originally Posted by wmaousley View Post
    ^ What clip
    fixed.

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    thx sir...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg View Post
    You make a thread about how someone your age can handle himself better, then you make an idiot post like that
    have a cry its a joke

    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    You mean like this? Look at 3:10 into the clip. LOL

    hahahaha laughed, espec with the music

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    So bro have you beat your "lass's" ass, joking hopefully she will come around and conform or you have to release her back into the wild.

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    Quote Originally Posted by B*R*A*D UK View Post
    my lass dose not respect me any more(at all) so what should i do .
    i dont whant to knock the fk out of her Thu. and i still love her !
    it winds me up so much.
    stop using words like "lass" and she will respect you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zimmy View Post
    stop using words like "lass" and she will respect you.
    Its not THAT disrespectful, Its English slang, a bit like honey, flower or darling.

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    I am not sure how you can love someone that doesn't treat you well. My advice: don't marry someone that you are not HIGHLY compatible with. Someone that makes you happy every day. Someone that doesn't frustrate you...and isn't frustrated by the things you do.

    I know this seams like an issue of "respect", but to me it sounds like she doesn't even try to be polite. Her impoliteness hurts your feelings...therefor, you are incompatible. Don't try to change her, as you would not like it if she tried to change you...just find someone that you ARE compatible with.

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    I was engaged to a girl that was as smoking hot as they come. She was so shallow and rude to me all the time and it hurt my feelings (weird that big guys have feelings right?) anyway I had to call it off once I got honest with myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas View Post
    I am not sure how you can love someone that doesn't treat you well. My advice: don't marry someone that you are not HIGHLY compatible with. Someone that makes you happy every day. Someone that doesn't frustrate you...and isn't frustrated by the things you do.

    I know this seams like an issue of "respect", but to me it sounds like she doesn't even try to be polite. Her impoliteness hurts your feelings...therefor, you are incompatible. Don't try to change her, as you would not like it if she tried to change you...just find someone that you ARE compatible with.
    really good thanks for advice .
    lovebyts LOL.
    buffgator your right in away.
    i give up so much for this woman.

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