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  1. 06-20-2011, 01:21 PM #1
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    new relationship...?

    ok so i've taken some time alone in the past year. no serious relationships for 2 years. i've been talking to this guy for over a year and usually just flirting here and there. we made out long time ago.. nothing else really happened. NOW he's planning on moving back to twn bcoz last year he left out west. well me and him been talking more bcoz i get to see him and what ever. at 1st i thought ok we're just gonna hook up n thats it bcoz he was originally supposed to just come on vacation in seot. but then he said he wanted to move back in november... then 1 day i was joking n asked him that if moved dwn he should live with me. a week goes by ( and i didnt really msg him much) he msged me and said "hey r u still moving out in sept?.. coz i was thinking i could just move down then n we can live together" LOL so now we're lookiong at houses to rent n hes gettina job lined up here n hes saving up to help pay for rent...

    we're obviously gonna be hooking up. does this sound like he wants to be my bf. or could this still be on fuk buddy terms??

    like part of me is excited coz i can get laid everyday. n save money lol.
    but part of me is scared...
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    Sounds like your an option to save money..get ahead...and move on. IMO
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    Sounds like your an option to save money..get ahead...and move on. IMO
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    well,
    he my think the some thing,
    get laid everyday and save money,
    until hell break loose.
    Make sure the lease is on his name, not yours, anything happens, move out.
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    I'm having problems with quoting you but this part..........
    like part of me is excited coz i can get laid everyday. n save money lol.
    but part of me is scared...
    He is prob thinking the same thing
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    maybe scared is strong. nervous.. like its exciting but im still nervous... not coz of him. hes great!! hes amazing, GREAT friend.

    but im more nervous IF he wants something serious. i dont mind... but its been so long. kno wat im say?

    the problem isnt movin in with him. its how do i take it. as friends or as a couple...?
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    plus i have no problem supporting myself n living on my own. so if it does end or wat ever it is ends... i'd gladly stay and pay the rent.
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    are you getting a 1 bedroom or 2?
    Honestly its a bad idea to move in with someone your jsut starting to date.
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    whole thing sounds trashy as usual to me.

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    i think that yall two need to sit down and talk this out. you both need to be on the same page about the relationship no matter which way it may be, fvck buddies or a couple. get it all figured out before you move in together or whatever yall plan to do. just my two cents.
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    lol dnt hate. btw nice pic BG :P
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    you have gotten a lot of solid advice here so far. I would not move in at all with someone that you just started dating.
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    yea thats wat i was thinking.. like living with him is one thing, but it makes me nervous to jump that far into sumthing serious. like its kinda nice when he msges me and calls me babe and says i miss you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea thats wat i was thinking.. like living with him is one thing, but it makes me nervous to jump that far into sumthing serious. like its kinda nice when he msges me and calls me babe and says i miss you.
    not to mean but that isnt a reason to move in. Sounds like you just like the attention. I say that to just about every girl i talk to
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea thats wat i was thinking.. like living with him is one thing, but it makes me nervous to jump that far into sumthing serious. like its kinda nice when he msges me and calls me babe and says i miss you.

    Game...and your being well played...

    All I can say is...Danger!
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    yea maybe movin in with him is no good. ..... i rather kinda live on my own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea maybe movin in with him is no good. ..... i rather kinda live on my own.
    This is the smartest thing in this thread so far!!!

    Good choice
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    move to so cal! ha
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    lol i wish. im moving to go to school. plus i cant deal living with my family.
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    Agreed. Danger!

    If you get a place together, don't get one that you cannot afford to pay for on your own when he meets another girl and moves out. Seriously. Or, make him sign the lease on his own so that he is the one on the hook.

    Having said that, I had a friend go away to school, graduate, work for a few years and then say they wanted to move back to Vegas. I said she could have the downstairs of my house until she found another place. We have now been together for eight years...married for six. So, you never know what will happen, but your relationship doesn't seem to have the base that mine did.

    Good luck...be careful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea maybe movin in with him is no good. ..... i rather kinda live on my own.
    Case closed!
    ----and the lounge has solved yet another situation....and very possibly, prevented another disaster.
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    Quote Originally Posted by First Timer 42 View Post
    Case closed!
    ----and the lounge has solved yet another situation....and very possibly, prevented another disaster.
    x2 Lets look at the past. If it looks to good to be true...... yup, it is. I still have an extra room I will rent you though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    x2 Lets look at the past. If it looks to good to be true...... yup, it is. I still have an extra room I will rent you though.
    eh....I have room for free.
    And it comes with a view, and breakfast every morning.
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    I agree with Kawi 100% Some people will say anything to get wat they want.Set your standards higher make that person earn the right.And not with words.Dont move in with him.NO!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BG View Post
    whole thing sounds trashy as usual to me.
    bahahahaahha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawigirl View Post
    Game...and your being well played...

    All I can say is...Danger!
    hey baby girl i miss u.......
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    Diamond.....kiddo all u have is trouble in the past with relationship and you seems to get in that direction again....after this guess what happen....u will be taking another cpl of yrs off....do you see where I am going with this?
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    yea i kkno what u mean cal. but rolls are kinda reversed in this situation. hes more gun hoe about being in a relationship with me than i am. HE'S been talking to me for over a year . i hardly initiate a convo, its all him. lol and i dont care if this ends, like yea im thinking of giving it a go... but if i get bored hes out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea i kkno what u mean cal. but rolls are kinda reversed in this situation. hes more gun hoe about being in a relationship with me than i am. HE'S been talking to me for over a year . i hardly initiate a convo, its all him. lol and i dont care if this ends, like yea im thinking of giving it a go... but if i get bored hes out.

    IF you get bored? You need to sort out some stuff on your own.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    x2 Lets look at the past. If it looks to good to be true...... yup, it is. I still have an extra room I will rent you though.
    lately things have taken a switch. things are they way they were b4 ...MIKE.... lol. its weird the last few months ive been trying to just wrk and save for skool. nothing but men throwi ng themselves at me.

    EVEN my friends wont leave me alone...ive nvr had to put my cell on silent b4 just to get sum est or a day off...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamond*K View Post
    yea i kkno what u mean cal. but rolls are kinda reversed in this situation. hes more gun hoe about being in a relationship with me than i am. HE'S been talking to me for over a year . i hardly initiate a convo, its all him. lol and i dont care if this ends, like yea im thinking of giving it a go... but if i get bored hes out.
    its easier said then done..........all we can say is tell you what we think is right...its advise its free doesnt cost you anything......what you choose to do with it its up to you.
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    yea i can understand not moving in with him... but sum ppl are thinking i shouldnt date him at all ....lol...

    hes been my friend and we've been talking for over a year about it. i think each of us deserve that chance to give it a go. if it doesnt wrk...hey.. at least we tried n kno...


    so anyways ..THATS not even the advise i was looking for. but thanx for the input on the renting thing.
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    did you took an oath to speak the truth and nothing but the truth?
    cause u r bang on twice in one day...
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