Sick of meeting 'piece of shit' women

[Gaspari1255]

I'm 22 years old and I am pretty convinced that every female in my age group is either a) complete party girl/lush/rec. drug user b) total whore c) mind game-playing attention wanting douchebag or d) all of the above.

Where the fvck am I supposed to meet some quality women at? I bounce part time at a bunch of clubs and all I meet is these fvcking crumbs. The Godfather and I were having this discussion today. I think its almost impossible to find a keeper at a club/lounge/bar. What other options are out there----the town library, starbucks, the park??

Sorry for my mini rant...I'm aggravated, pissed off, depressed and have to go inject.

[gixxerboy1]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

[terraj]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Don't...really don't

[gixxerboy1]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

fvck your crazy. people change so much at your age. Why rush it? if it is meant to be it still will be in a few years

[gixxerboy1]

I'm 22 years old and I am pretty convinced that every female in my age group is either a) complete party girl/lush/rec. drug user b) total whore c) mind game-playing attention wanting douchebag or d) all of the above.

Where the fvck am I supposed to meet some quality women at? I bounce part time at a bunch of clubs and all I meet is these fvcking crumbs. The Godfather and I were having this discussion today. I think its almost impossible to find a keeper at a club/lounge/bar. What other options are out there----the town library, starbucks, the park??

Sorry for my mini rant...I'm aggravated, pissed off, depressed and have to go inject.

also i've from the same area as you. I wouldnt judge by how you see them in the club. Our shore house we used to get in avalon was a mess. If you would be there you would think everyone was a disaster. But every single person during the week had over 100k a year jobs and are very well education and responsible. They just let go hard

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

[Gaspari1255]

lol im 19 and about to propose. Been together for over 3 years now

for the love of goddddddd..........noooooooooooooooooooooooo!

[Rockin Z28]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

at 19? you crazy son!!

[Gaspari1255]

also i've from the same area as you. I wouldnt judge by how you see them in the club. Our shore house we used to get in avalon was a mess. If you would be there you would think everyone was a disaster. But every single person during the week had over 100k a year jobs and are very well education and responsible. They just let go hard

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

[gixxerboy1]

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

lol. its that age too. I was a crackhead in my early 20's also. Also just cause a girl parties doesnt mean she fvcks everyone and you cant trust her.

goto more upscale lounges in NYC. where the girls are out but not a mess

[Gaspari1255]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

I'm very content with one woman. I don't need multiple to make me happy. Taking home a different broad every other night gets old...sick of the slobs..I'm a lot more mature than the average guy in their early 20s

[calgarian]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

oh thought you were self proclaimed sex expert.....turn out to be another pvssy whipped

Sorry couldnt resist.....

[terraj]

yeah some parties are very successful people. I just can't trust a party girl. Out every night, fvcking drunk, or on E..surrounded by other dudes. it's a nightmare. being a single respectful male in NJ means you are automatically fvcked when it comes to dating.

sounds like all the girls you meet are doing what all 22 years olds should be doing....

Target older girls then, bars, internet, social groups

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

oh thought you were self proclaimed sex expert.....turn out to be another pvssy whipped

Sorry couldnt resist.....

lmfao!!!!!! both be true!!!! and dont you forget it! lol

[gixxerboy1]

lmfao!!!!!! both be true!!!! and dont you forget it! lol

how are you going to compete when you loose your balls

[Windex]

I'm very content with one woman. I don't need multiple to make me happy. Taking home a different broad every other night gets old...sick of the slobs..I'm a lot more mature than the average guy in their early 20s

I know exactly how you feel. Canadian women are worse bro, be thankful you don't live up north. The worse is the women from Calgary, sneaky little vixens, and most only look 5/10 AFTER some shots.

[songdog]

Funny I hear women say the same thing about men all the time.You just need to relax.At your age you should be just havin a good time.And you need find when you are lookin.And Butterman Talk to me in 10 years.At your age you dont have a clue wats up.People change so much at that age.You couldnt give me a boat load of 20 yr old girls.

[oscarjones]

Most club women turn into playettes after a few drinks. They are easy to approach and get involved with, but yeah who wants to date a playette? Too much work!

[gixxerboy1]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

hall of shame post?

[calgarian]

hall of shame post?

nah just tell him to post pic of his balls after she chopped it off

[stevey_6t9]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

This is only because you knocked her up right?

[gixxerboy1]

This is only because you knocked her up right?

or she is rich

[Times Roman]

alot of people meet women at work. The women you meet at work probably don't have the mind set to give you what you want. (Consider the environment).

But then again, and no disrespect intended, but your job (and possibly your lifestyle) is probably not very attractive to a woman that is squared away.

Think about it. Put yourself in the shoes of a good looking professional woman.

She, in all likelyhood, works days. You work nights, right? Bummer for her, right?

You probably have ample opportunity to screw around, meeting many women. This would make many "squard away" women uncomfortable, possibly even insecure.

I would say the type of women you attract is conducive to you and your lifestyle.

If you want to attract a different type of woman, then you need to change your bait.

Get yourself squared away first to attract squared away women.

I'm thinking maybe even college? More women than men go to college. Plenty of opportuntiy to meet squared away women there.

But face it. You work in a party environment, yet complain about how only party girls seem to be available.

That's like a guy bouncing at a strip club complaining he only gets to meet strippers. Or at a whore house and only gets to meet whores.

So, you are 22 and still very young. Either don't change anything about yourself and just deal with what comes your way, our change you and your environment to attract a better quality of woman.

Good luck

[Times Roman]

lol im not rushing it tho lol im more then happy and in love with her and every thing is exactly how i want it in life (except for my own house) because i already have my dream job as a personnal trainer, already have 22 clients but enough about me, talk to OP bout him.

on the one hand, i was about to say too young. but then on the other hand, if she feels the same about you as you do about her, then I would suggest to go with your heart. There is no magic number for proposing that is optimal. If marriage feels like a natural evolutionary extension of a very good relationship that has withstood the test of time (3 years), and if neither of you is secretly wanting more experience with other people, then go for it.

19 is a tough age, there is still so much to do (college, etc.)

On the one hand, I'm glad you have 22 clients. On the other, I personally don't see this as a long term career. Obviously, I could be wrong. But for you, it seems this is a passion you need to explore. And even if it doesn't turn into a long term thing, who cares? I've had plenty of jobs that last only a year or so.

I wish you much luck my friend!

I see by your avi i cant call you butternutts anymore, I'll just call you BG from now on.

-----Roman (old fukker to you!)

[stack_it]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Wait til she hits 21 and watch how much she changes. I'd wait til after that before popping the question.

[bjpennnn]

at 22 i would be having fun with the club girls. Why are you looking for something serious?

sounds like all the girls you meet are doing what all 22 years olds should be doing....

Target older girls then, bars, internet, social groups

I agree with all this. dont take this the wrong way but raise your standards if your always dating skanks its cause your picking em bro. They are cool to bang but if your looking for a good chick if there is any red flags move on.

[wmaousley]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Your out of your Fvcking mind do propose, mush less be tied down @ 19years old. Dude play the field until your 30. Enjoy life to the max. I was married @ 26 and to me I was to young, but I am still married.


Statistically a 19yo getting married will have a 68% chance of divorce within the first 4 years.

[Standby]

wait till she turns 21 and she meets bronzer as he is bouncing the club she goes to. then we will see how married she is

[brad herschel]

Times Roman's overview is correct as to looking in all the wrong places. Do you
really expect to find anything better then a gum-snapper at sleazy clubs?

[Standby]

hahah gum snapper

[calgarian]

Wait til she hits 21 and watch how much she changes. I'd wait til after that before popping the question.

if he doesnt listen (and he wont) wait till create the thread called "i want out"

[RaginCajun]

hahah gum snapper

yeah i like that one as well! i am 29 and just found a good girl, so i think. i was a party goer at 22 and wasn't even thinking of finding a mate at that time. i actually dated older women at this point in time, and was with a 29 year old with an 11 year old! yeah, what the F was i thinking! i wasn't! i agree what the old fukker said above and that if you want to find a mate, you have to venture out to other social places. maybe go sign up for some event, social club/organization, professional society, or go to church if you want to find a good woman!

[Kawigirl]

Quality Woman...^^^right here! Hi! Now you met one!

[calgarian]

Quality Woman...^^^right here! Hi! Now you met one!

sometimes you make it too hard for me to not to say anything

[Kawigirl]

sometimes you make it too hard for me to not to say anything

I'm a quality woman cause I haven't been tainted by YOU

[Shol'va]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Well I absolutely refuse to jump on the your crazy for marrying at 19 bandwagon, but your crazy for marrying at 19..lol
No if you are that secure and mentally ready for it, go for it. My great grandmother got married when she was 14 but then that was like 1902.

[calgarian]

I'm a quality woman cause I haven't been tainted by YOU

is that what you believe? thats y I tell GB to made movie last time ......

[Kawigirl]

is that what you believe? thats y I tell GB to made movie last time ......

Hey...what you do with GB on your time is your business...I'm not judging...lol

[awms]

Imo in order to have a normal, healthy relationship in todays world you must come to grasp with a few things or you willl be doomed.

One thing you must understand about women today (unforchantly) is that 99.9% of them are whores...its mostly a cultural thing which says its ok to sleep around...its in music, t.v, movies ect ect. If you plan on dating an attractive women you kinda just have to accept her past and only worry about what she does while shes with you or it will drive you crazy and ruin a relationship! I am willing to bet that by the age of 20 the avg north american women had slept with atleast 10-15 guys and thats just the avg....there are many women out there who have slept with 50 plus guys by that time.

The next thing you must understand is that alot of women today have serious bagage and or "daddy issues" this can lead to big problems!! unless you know how to handle somone like this...you really must learn about how women think and act in order to change somone...some will say "you dont need to change somone" but that B.S! If you really like a girl and she is your idel women but has some issues she need to work through then help her and in the end she will realize how much you have changed her in a positive way....If you make a women feel good about her self and become more responsible, respectable, and confident she will realize that you reallt care about her and she will have nothing but respect for you! BUT....most guys have no idea how to do this, most guys get whipped by this type of women and they **** everything up! Try to study some pick up artist material, also pick up some books on how women think and how men think...you will learn how to pick up on little things that women do in order to test you or how to deal with their emotions.

I met my gf when she was 19, she was a knock out! beautiful and fun to be around but had a total case of daddy issues! really low self esteem, and she was just messed up haha at the time I was a pick up artist and I was lucky enouph to understand why she acted the way she did...she went from being a highschool drop out, with a shitty job, partying every night and sleeping around to now going to college, having a great job!, and she is the best gf I could ever ask for!

No one is perfect and people can change if they really want to...problem is most guys are pussies and dont know what women really want.