Not JUST a mom....1 lady exposed

[SexySweetheart]

ummmm can u say coffee = a moms form of crack lol
esp love how she puts the kid on the stove top for a few to get her "fix" lol

[SexySweetheart]

5. I can honestly say I have meet incredible women here and consider at least 1 a dear friend helping her stay motivated has helped me stay motivated more than she will ever know ... so that’s why I’m starting this retarded thread lmao.

So feel free to respond /make fun of/ rant at or support /give your take or questions with a lady you love that’s let herself go/or how to help her ...and whatever girly shizzel I post, again I have 2 teenage boys ~ whatever you dish out: I’ve seen/heard worse and can take it: D Just know that what’s posted here will be mom, gf/wifey chix trying to maintain what lill sanity is remaining on the trex towards dropping a @ss load of weight and re-sexy-ifying herself.

I do get bored of the same old stuff pretty quickly, so post will prob flux from bombarding to sporadic to abandoned to bombarding some more... but if I do loose interest in this after a while, I’m sure whatever is posted will help other chix feel more comfy with their voice on the site

I do get bored of the same old stuff pretty quickly, so post will prob flux from bombarding to sparatic to abandoned to bombarding some more... but if I do loose interrset in this after a while, Im sure what ever is posted will help other chix feel more comfy with there voice on the site

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After January the foster teen will have successfully been transitioned from his behavioral school that he has been in since elementary, to a reg normal High school (due to MUCH work from us...and he) so Nov and Dec will remain a bit chaotic with stupid school and team meetings, trainings for me blah de blah blah but the plan here at home is to get us all on some sort of reg schedule again DEC 3 (when my man’s schedule starts a normal shift for a 4week block and our 2nd vehicle is fixed) of gym and jazzercise with diets.

I honestly don’t have much faith in the situation being more than me nagging (awesome, lol oh how I look over playing the nagging women *sigh*) the guys to get away from the video games/TV/computer so we can go to the gym and throwing junk food out that seem to materialize in the pantry or bedroom. Hopefully I’m wrong.....that’s a BIG hope.

Regardless, after Jan if they don’t get/stay on board with the program I’m just going to do it without them. (yes, said before...lol not unlike many of the women you know of I’m sure) but have to at least try to set limits and if I can’t keep them....h3ll, I have to reset them lol

I have been maintaining my stretches and DVD work outs with lots of mountain biking but my food has slowly reverted to what is brought in the house and then I seem to seek out and buy similar crop.

Ideally I wanna restart my low carb/sugar/cal diet with some IF, cardio 2x week min and weights 5x week...I have done this before with AWSOME results and maintained for a few months...trick is making it a life style while my style of life revolves around these #$%^&%$# lmao <~ummm, all said with love and a teeny tiniest bit of resentment lol
Ultimately its my prob and my @ss that has to get with the program…excuses are def. not helpful and it seems always playing the nice guy isn’t either…a few weeks of clearing yuk food outta house again and step up my work outs than I may need to embrace my inner beatch on Dec 3 lol I just hope I don’t end up hot and single cuz all I care about is me and my fitness lmao…to be continued

[SexySweetheart]

[SexySweetheart]

Im not sure why the vidios are all messed up...and whan I tried to edit/fix them...I realized ther is no edit button anymore ...? or deleate button...?

[lovbyts]

So what did the mom do besides drink coffee and watch the kids? She didn't even interact, play, do anything with the kids, only watching them. I think she was in her robe all day... Yeah she needs coffee because she is doing so little without any stimulation she would fall asleep. If she would interact with the kids, play with them, go out, do something she would not need all that coffee.

You sound like a supermom Sexy4mySweatheart with a full plate. I know we always think we can/could do more but we for the most part try to do what we can and what is right for all of us involved.

[SexySweetheart]

^ lol rite?! and she let the kiddos drink coffee too! sorry but that’s a BIG no no in my book...ummm its an addictive drug HELLLOOOOO with more adverse side effects than positive attributes...esp. if your a developing mind/body of a toddler...funny thing is, I’m sure she the hyper vigilant germ natzi type mom that’s disinfecting everything all day yet feeding crap to her kid lol.

thanks for the compliment lovbyts, supermom is def. a relative term but the basics of a good mom, I think I cover nicely

After talking with some ladyz from the site I just truly noticed a huge trend...and saw it in myself as well.....loosing myself in someone they love.
Not like they or I are the submissive whinny types...I’m fiercely independent, vocal, uninhibited to speak whatever re-re thing pops in my head, clear strong standards on most topics yet open to evaluation other options/opinions, very active, very much aware of what I eat and the amount...and then WHAM mr perfect is in my life and I morph into a chix that just wants to cuddle with him on the couch all day that will eat whatever whenever ...yea I’m in shape ~ but now the shape is round lol...we don’t like round! lol

...and then with me anyway, a new foster kiddo usually equals a LOT of work and time getting med/school/ yadda yadda up to date/correct/ fair ...and then I loose myself to all that, so I just thought that if I throw my voice and experiences on the board other ladyz may feel more comfy here, even if it is just the stalkers that are not members. (all the test here can be intimidating for some, plus alot of ladys have bf/hubbyz that are members on the site and so they hold back ALOT so they dont embarrase their man ~ I on the other hand, know that my man is fully awear of my idiot ways, stupid opinions and eagerness to throw them out to who ever when ever I please lmao, altho I do appolojize to him regularly )

After all, fitness is a mindset...and for a lot of ladyz talking threw obstacles helps them give their mind freedom to look at the other issues that could be in the way of success towards their weightloss goals
I mean most of us here have body issues, and that’s why we seek improvement /perfection ...but for ladyz it helps to work through the issues that cause the body issues.

[SexySweetheart]

So me and the Mr went mountain biking alllll over Nashua yesterday and biked to store got sushi for lunch ate at the park and he wanted to bike to Dairy Queen for ice cream....I went, he ordered a peanut butter blast thing, I did not order anything...had several bits of his though bad sexy, bad!
over all great day! made some health chooses, stood my ground but then caved some...

Biked today I ALOT and even to College, protein shake for lunch...man I forgot how much I love these things, and so easy as a meal...to think I used to basically live off of them and now it felt weird reaching for 1.

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[SexySweetheart]

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this turkey day my teen will be with his dad's family, my man is working, my other teen is with his family...so just me home alone on thanks giving (could go to my folks BUT i wanna actualy enjoy my day lol)

sooo there will be me, wine, a bunch of girly movies, pedi & mani, long bubble bath, and some seared tuna mmmmmm, not very traditional but def a day to be THANKFUL for !