Girlfriend keeping in touch with diks in jars

**cherrydrpepper** · 11-29-2011, 10:48 PM

Short version cause im tired. Girl is good girl. Girl is trustworthy. Girl wants to someday marry me. If I cant trust this girl then theyre all bitches. Girl likes to keep in touch with every dik shes had which shes 30 and been with 9 guys so I guess its not a lot add in some fingerbanging heroes and whatnot.

Ok she hangs with this one dude on the regular lets call him Joe. Joe fingerbanged her a few years back but she never let it go any farther cause hes an old ugly sob and shes vain she only likes cute boys like me. She hangs out with this dude Joe about twice a week. Even though I believe they never had intercourse and nothing is going on considering she tells me when they are hanging out it just bugs the shit out of me.

Ok then there is this dude Tim. Tim is some dude she banged years ago she worked with. He likes to hang out with her when hes in town. She claims no sex in many years and just friends. Tim likes to tell her he jacks off while he thinks about her.

Then there is this dude John. John was the high school sweet heart. John likes to call her up and shoot the shit and tell her he still jacks off while he thinks about her. John I believe had a repeat offender status, he got to tap that ass a few years after they broke up on a whim while she was single. I give this a pass because I did the same with my high school sweet heart and still jack off while I think about my high school sweet heart.. and my high school sweetheart's mom.. which.. is wierd considering she probably doesn't look as I remember her.. but .. anyway

Now come to find out about Ray. Ray called her tonight after going through a breakup (this is really common for her.. guys go through tough patches with their girlfriend and call her to see if theres a chance they could hit it). Asked her direct if she had sex with Ray. She was very evasive and would not give a straight answer. Perception is no sex, but he fingerbanged her, possibly blowjob at the worst but doubtful.

This girl is crazy about me and lets me blast in all 3 holes but this is starting to get to me. Have told her how I feel many times; she says well im 30 and so this is normal its not like we're kids. The tren is not helping.. But fk if I think I have it bad. My buddy best friend is thinking about getting engaged to a girl who to me and the world she is not a good girl type. She may play a good hand at making it look like she is, but honestly, not a good girl type. I guess what I'm saying is this girl really is a hang-out-with-mom-and-dad go-to-church type girl so maybe some of this shit is normal with all girls. Really starting to bother me though. Feeling irrational desire to cheat. Have never cheated in my whole life; don't see the point. My perverse sexual style is I enjoy hearing a girl orgasm a lot and so I get the satisfaction from fking one girls brains out. I like to make this girl come all three ways when I can (lick, vag, ass) cause im a sick bastard who lives for that. So anyway no not really a cheater at all don't see the point. Not sure how to handle this situation. And again.. the tren.. mother****..

**Standby** · 11-29-2011, 10:56 PM

lmfao man your stories are so funny. i dont know what to tell you. id personally try to just get over it until some real sh*t comes up and then you can hide the body

**Bryan2** · 11-29-2011, 10:59 PM

There has always been a dick before you man. Get over it this shit is all your own insecurity has nothing to do with her whatsoever.

That shit isn't cool with the old dudes telling her they jerk it to her still though, thats messed up and you have grounds to tell her not to talk to those guys anymore. But you have no right to tell another person don't talk to someone that they had a connection with in life because it makes 'you' insecure if she has no intention of ever doing anything with them and has no feelings for them anymore.

**xelnaga** · 11-29-2011, 11:04 PM

The urge to cheat seems to have little to do with your sex drive. It has more to do with an increased level of insecurity relating to all her male companions. I dont blame you, that roster of hers is pretty outrageous. There's an old saying that a boy that's just a "friend" is a boyfriend in waiting.

**jimmyinkedup** · 11-29-2011, 11:42 PM

Just start hanging out with your ex's and telling her they are all just your friends. Oh and be sure to tell her a fgew details about what you did with this one and that one.

**Macon_Bacon** · 11-29-2011, 11:53 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

I give this a pass because I did the same with my high school sweet heart and still jack off while I think about my high school sweet heart.. and my high school sweetheart's mom.. which.. is wierd considering she probably doesn't look as I remember her.. but .. anyway

Really starting to bother me though. Feeling irrational desire to cheat. Have never cheated in my whole life; don't see the point. My perverse sexual style is I enjoy hearing a girl orgasm a lot and so I get the satisfaction from fking one girls brains out. I like to make this girl come all three ways when I can (lick, vag, ass) cause im a sick bastard who lives for that. So anyway no not really a cheater at all don't see the point.

First, these quotes are awesome! Hopefully you can sort things out. I try not to give people advice on relationships because everyone has different standards. My .02 is make sure you're happy with who you're with. It's that simple. If you aren't, get the f*ck out.

**slfmade** · 11-29-2011, 11:54 PM

Ah hell no. I would kick that ----- to the curb. I'm really not the jealous type either, but it's about respect...I don't hang out with my ex's. I know she would be worried and why make your partner uneasy if you can avoid it. Not to mention why the hell would she want to put herself or you in that situation. Shit happens and can happen before you know it...then you regret it but the damage is done. I do actually hang out with one of my ex's, but my current ladyfriend is always there and they're friends too. All sounds like a bad idea to me...especially if you're thinking about marrying this chick.

**SexySweetheart** · 11-30-2011, 12:59 AM

I would be a jealious mess!

I used to stay friends with my X's...but they allways seem to get weird and than at some point I have to tell the we cant be friends cuz they keep crossing the line.
Only my X husband and 1 x bf were normal (lol) after I broke up with them. The x hubby has to be in my life cuz we have a kid, and we ar friendly..the X bf was a real tuffy for Tiger and altho he tried and even hung out with us several times...it was harsh to see Tiger struggle so I cut the X bf loose. I still get lame stalker X bf calls/emails every now and than and allways tell Tiger RITE away....the love of life is not worth loosing for some looser that 1.cant get over me or 2. wasnt good enuff to keep

I should also mention that the same situation played out with Tigers X es....and he cut all of his loose for me as well.

For us it just came to a solid truth....is a person that was too good for you or not good enuff for you~worth hurting or jepordizing the 1 person on the planet you have finaly found worthy to spend all the rest of your days with? ... and why wouldnt a person that loved you ...honor your request?

**spywizard** · 11-30-2011, 01:03 AM

cool.. you can hang with your old girlfriends... if you don't have any you keep in touch with... just say you are and go out for a few hours, hang with the boys or whatever..

see if she likes that feeling..

**Times Roman** · 11-30-2011, 02:44 AM

Well, if she starts hanging out with the neighbors St. Bernard, then you might have a problem.

.....don't do anything until after the tren , when you've got a clear head and can think things through. BTW... is this the same lass you were thinking of marrying?

**DanB** · 11-30-2011, 06:53 AM

Originally Posted by spywizard

cool.. you can hang with your old girlfriends... if you don't have any you keep in touch with... just say you are and go out for a few hours, hang with the boys or whatever..

see if she likes that feeling..

x2 . . .

**cherrydrpepper** · 11-30-2011, 07:10 AM

Yeah this is that girl I was debating marrying. I dont think I want to get married not necessarilly because of this stuff just not feeling marriage. Great responses thanks for all the input. Its nice to get a girl's thought on this too. As a man, I will fk any ex that I can if there are no moral obligations (i.e. Im not seeing someone). I tried to make her understand this, that these men are not just "friends" they are friends looking for the right opportunity to fk her, but she wants to live in candyland and ride the chocolate bullshit slide. So yeah its great to have a woman validate my perception of the situation.

As far as course of action.. I'm going to get really fkn jacked like I was when I met this girl (people would openly ask me what I was on), hit the clubs, not fk anything til Ive made a decision about what I want, but feel out my options. Also I am thinking of putting a nanny cam in her room but think this might be a step too far. She told me one time I could tape us doing it as long as I didn't tell her I was taping so I consider that consent lolllll

**Nooomoto** · 11-30-2011, 09:17 AM

Women love to play innocent and pretend they have no idea that every guy they know is trying to **** them. She knows exactly why they still talk to her, and is more than happy to tow the line.

Put yourself in their shoes. Why would you hit up an ex from high-school? Would you bother if there was no chance at getting laid? I wouldn't.

Now ask yourself how a 30 year old woman with a resume like that doesn't know what's up? She's full of shit.

**redz** · 11-30-2011, 09:28 AM

ATM her then tell her it's over.

**paulzane** · 11-30-2011, 10:40 AM

I think I'll have a jerk thinking aout her!

**SexySweetheart** · 11-30-2011, 10:56 AM

lol omg CHERRY!
NO no no lol, if you allready have the mind set and are debating actions to take IF or for WHEN your gonna brake up with her..than its a sign that you emotionaly cutting her loose and with that any relationship would be doomed to fail

Work out if it makes you feel good or better about you. Nooooo feeling out options lol. No matter what you look like there are options, and the "good girls" see rite threw shinny packages and only bother with guys with substance anyway. If you want to nany cam cuz you dont trust her in situations than its DEF a huge problem she needs to stop down playing your feelings.

You say you already talked with her...maybe she needs to see just how much this is or would effect your relationship? If she thinks you will deal or get over the people she spends time with, a reality check that this is and will ruine what yall have, maybe in ordor? if she says to pound sand and stop being jealious~ well that would be an answear to me. That Im not her priority, and for me anyway...I need to be my partners priority lol

**JohnnyVegas** · 11-30-2011, 11:16 AM

Don't date a girl you are incompatible with. I have been with my now-wife for eight years and have never had an issue that even approaches the ridiculous stuff you talk about. There are a hundred girls you could be dating. If you want to get married some day, you should start dating a girl that is worth marrying. I am not saying she is a bad person...this isn't about "good" and "bad", it is about compatibility and nothing else.

Still, I am afraid that if you end up happy with some girl that gives you no drama, well, we will all suffer from a lack of good stories.

**cherrydrpepper** · 11-30-2011, 05:24 PM

HAHA you guys are cracking me up

OH and this was over the top funny:

Originally Posted by paulzane

I think I'll have a jerk thinking aout her!

LMFAO

Good shit.. part of me hopes this ends.. so I can make..

CHERRYDRPEPPER IS GONNA GET LAID .. PART 2 THE REDEMPTION

HADDUKKKEEN

**BigBadWolf** · 11-30-2011, 05:31 PM

Originally Posted by jimmyinkedup

Just start hanging out with your ex's and telling her they are all just your friends. Oh and be sure to tell her a fgew details about what you did with this one and that one.

^^^^ great minds think alike !!!!

**BigBadWolf** · 11-30-2011, 05:34 PM

This is what you call a good girl?? I would f her sister and her mom if moms do-able. Then confess.

**lovbyts** · 12-04-2011, 03:42 AM

Originally Posted by jimmyinkedup

Just start hanging out with your ex's and telling her they are all just your friends. Oh and be sure to tell her a fgew details about what you did with this one and that one.

x4. Only problem is with female logic it's not the same thing. LOL Eventually it does get the point across or she just lies to you about seeing him.

No it's not cool because you as a guy know the only reason HE is hanging around is he wants to tap it.

You know what may work, talk to him straight up. I was friends with an old GF. I'm one of the 1 in a million who would not have hit it because she was married but when I found out her husband was having problems with it I said no problem and that was that. I have not seen her in the last 10 years except in passing with him. If he is only friends with her then he will go away and not want to cause her any problems.

**Xtrakt0r** · 12-04-2011, 04:27 AM

Dude the whole thing sounds very dubious, I would never trust such a girl..

From my own experience with a similar type of girl (which I also though was a very good girl and considered as marriage material). My girl also hanged with ex diks from her past, and always told me that nothing ever happened rah rah.. She kept on saying how I got too jealous and she hated it etc. But if I ever talked or hanged with an ex gf of mine, she would lose it at me. So this kept on going on until I got on her fb one night and found a nice little snippet of her talking to one of her gfs telling her that she banged an ex of hers during our time together.. And this is where it all ended.

IMO if you really like this girl, and you can see yourself in the future with her, then confront her about the whole thing and tell her it bothers you. And most importantly, get some answers as to what she has to gain out of hanging out with old, ex diks! And if she really is into you and wants to be with you and only you, then she will take it into account and cut all the dubious diks out of her life. If not, there are plenty of other fish in the sea!

**DSM4Life** · 12-04-2011, 07:37 AM

She really likes getting fingerbanged.

**paulzane** · 12-04-2011, 09:54 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

She really likes getting fingerbanged.

Don't you DSM?

**Hoggage_54** · 12-04-2011, 10:22 AM

pics?

**HitIt** · 12-04-2011, 11:55 AM

sound like she wants to have her cock and eat it too....

cake, i mean cake and eat it too..

**Xtrakt0r** · 12-04-2011, 06:50 PM

Originally Posted by HitIt

sound like she wants to have her cock and eat it too....

cake, i mean cake and eat it too..

Loll

**lovbyts** · 12-04-2011, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

She really likes getting fingerbanged.

That just sounds so teenage. Who does just that once they have had sex? I have never heard of anyone going just part way, heavy petting, fingering who was past the age of 16-18??? Just sounds very immature.

Another thing, any girl who only goes that far is a big tease and likes control but more than likely she just gave him head. lol

How old did you say she is?

**cherrydrpepper** · 12-05-2011, 07:11 PM

Ok I got to blast in all her holes this weekend and want to forget this thread for a while til some other dik drama or fingerbang drama starts again

**lovbyts** · 12-03-2012, 03:02 AM

This one is only 1 yr old, betting better.

**wh1spa** · 12-05-2012, 05:09 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

This one is only 1 yr old, betting better.

lmao, i just press the "Page 500 Button" and read the threads either side.

**thegodfather** · 12-05-2012, 07:09 PM

I'm pretty much of the mind set that men and women cannot be friends, at least not for any substantial amount of time before one or the other, or both, develop feeling, attraction, or the urge to bone the shit out of each other. Thus, where there was once already a planted seed (no pun intended, haha), I would definitely not be ok with my chick walking through the fields where Johnny Appleseed is ready to start a motherfuc*in apple farm again. It's one thing to have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with, which, refer to the aforementioned part of my post, I still don't think its cool or can last for any period of time, but its a totally different ball game for someone whos already plowed the field to be hanging around their old stomping grounds, a lot of times 'feelings' get remembered, and sometimes people want a taste. This happened with an ex of mine who cheated on me, and left me for another dude. 6 months later, and in a full blown relationship with the dude she left me for, she hit me up one night, and had me bone the ****ing shit out of her, because she 'missed how I made her feel when I fuc*ed her', and all I freakin did was run into her out one night and then exchange a few facebook messages over the next two or three days before she hit me up at midnight to get railed. So, ixnay on the angingh outnay.

**Rwy** · 12-05-2012, 07:18 PM

I agree. I have pretty much ****ed every girl I have ever been friends with.

I am sure there are some guys out there that could keep it their pants but def not me.

**wh1spa** · 12-05-2012, 07:20 PM

Originally Posted by thegodfather

I'm pretty much of the mind set that men and women cannot be friends, at least not for any substantial amount of time before one or the other, or both, develop feeling, attraction, or the urge to bone the shit out of each other. Thus, where there was once already a planted seed (no pun intended, haha), I would definitely not be ok with my chick walking through the fields where Johnny Appleseed is ready to start a motherfuc*in apple farm again. It's one thing to have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with, which, refer to the aforementioned part of my post, I still don't think its cool or can last for any period of time, but its a totally different ball game for someone whos already plowed the field to be hanging around their old stomping grounds, a lot of times 'feelings' get remembered, and sometimes people want a taste. This happened with an ex of mine who cheated on me, and left me for another dude. 6 months later, and in a full blown relationship with the dude she left me for, she hit me up one night, and had me bone the ****ing shit out of her, because she 'missed how I made her feel when I fuc*ed her', and all I freakin did was run into her out one night and then exchange a few facebook messages over the next two or three days before she hit me up at midnight to get railed. So, ixnay on the angingh outnay.

I love it. lmao, you sound so classy