Do you cheat/cheated on your GF/BF

**l2elapse** · 12-08-2011, 12:46 AM

How many of you cheat or have cheated on your gf/bf. How many do it regularly? How does it effect you?

**Razor** · 12-08-2011, 01:00 AM

Never cheated, never will. If I love the girl, I can love no other.

**l2elapse** · 12-08-2011, 01:06 AM

Originally Posted by Razr.;5827***

Never cheated, never will. If I love the girl, I can love no other.

Good for you..nice morals.

**xelnaga** · 12-08-2011, 01:19 AM

I had a serious gf make out with a guy at her college when we were doing the distance thing. I could get over the make out part; but when I found out all the lies that went with it things changed. I learned very early in life to look out for indications of character flaws; because when times get tough those flaws only getting more pronounced. I refuse to be the guys who worries about his chick cheating on him all the time; id rather f-ck myself.

**xelnaga** · 12-08-2011, 01:24 AM

And no I don't cheat. Sleezy way to operate and it's usually rooted in insecurity.

**slfmade** · 12-08-2011, 01:25 AM

Never cheated. Did once have a gf cheat on me with another girl though. To my suprise it really pissed me off!

**Razor** · 12-08-2011, 01:28 AM

I think girls cheat on guy more than guys cheat on girls. I had a girl tell me that as well.

**SexySweetheart** · 12-08-2011, 01:44 AM

nope never cheated,...but you didn't define cheating. lol

some chix think that just cuz she met a guy they are an item and he is not allowed to see other people.
Unless a guy says he wants to be incommittedted relationshiIMOimo, your not incommittedted relationship. I always made it clear to a person I was dating, that I was dating others and expect the same of him unless he wants to be incommittedted relationship.
Dating is just meeting strangers and learning if they are a person you want/can see your self with for the long haul, no commitment to a random person you have hung out with for a few months should just be implied.

Once your knowingly in a relationcheatingeeting to me is doing something with a person that your partner would be hurt over. Even if a couple is in an "open relationship" if 1 persons feelings are being hurt by it...its cheatingeeCheatingeeting the relationship out of all the love trust loyalcheated cheeted on when I was married... still effsensemy sence ojealousyealiousy to a degree today.awareer awear of girls that may be in my mans world

**l2elapse** · 12-08-2011, 01:52 AM

damn wheres the cheaters? come save me guys

**SexySweetheart** · 12-08-2011, 01:54 AM

^ baahahaha ... and THERE it is

**wmaousley** · 12-08-2011, 02:19 AM

Its not cheating unless your married, I have been with other women while I had girlfriends which is not a crime.

**wmaousley** · 12-08-2011, 02:20 AM

Originally Posted by Razr.;5827***

Never cheated, never will. If I love the girl, I can love no other.

Love is a 4 letter word like fvck and shlt, and who says you have to love to be able to fvck

**slfmade** · 12-08-2011, 02:23 AM

Originally Posted by wmaousley

Love is a 4 letter word like fvck and shlt, and who says you have to love to be able to fvck

So what happens when the girl you're in love with fvcks another man? 100.00 says you kick her to the curb....So not okay then?

**Xtrakt0r** · 12-08-2011, 03:51 AM

oh fine u pu$$ies, Ill be a man and come out with it.. I have cheated.

I wasn't proud or happy about it.. and the term "what goes around, comes around" came around hard for me..

Ps. I dont think I would do it again.

**Times Roman** · 12-08-2011, 04:16 AM

Originally Posted by wmaousley

Its not cheating unless your married, I have been with other women while I had girlfriends which is not a crime.

wrong answer. cheating is when you have an understanding with a partner to be monogamous, and you violate that understanding.

btw... never cheated in my life

**DSM4Life** · 12-08-2011, 06:04 AM

Never cheated, never will.

***G-1000*** · 12-08-2011, 08:07 AM

I have never cheated on anyone till after my ex cheated on me witch lead to divorce.

Now a days i just don't trust anyone and just do my own thing.

***G-1000*** · 12-08-2011, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by wmaousley

Its not cheating unless your married, I have been with other women while I had girlfriends which is not a crime.

True dat!!!

**Kawigirl** · 12-08-2011, 09:22 AM

Originally Posted by Xtrakt0r

oh fine u pu$$ies, Ill be a man and come out with it.. I have cheated.

I wasn't proud or happy about it.. and the term "what goes around, comes around" came around hard for me..

Ps. I dont think I would do it again.

Been there...and totally agree with karma!

**jimmyinkedup** · 12-08-2011, 09:40 AM

I have never pyshically cheated. I have betrayed a womans trust emotionally. To a woman - its the same thing- trust me on that. Made a decision thats not the kind of man/person i want to be. Havent done it since. Hopefully I will always remember that im better than that and no one deserves to be treated like that or have that done to them. So far - so good, live and learn.

**SexySweetheart** · 12-08-2011, 10:18 AM

* what the hell man. my post is all jumbled up..it wasnt last night...? and I cant edit/fix it cuz the edit button is still mia *

**Big hammer** · 12-08-2011, 10:26 AM

I lost the love of my life due to cheating. She never could get over it and it drove a wedge between us that eventually led to our fallout. I've learned the hard way. It might be fun at the time, but it's def not worth the consequences. Just my thoughts.

**warchild** · 12-08-2011, 11:12 AM

would never cheat on my girl. i love her

**JohnnyVegas** · 12-08-2011, 11:22 AM

I cheated on a GF that was going to school out of state. Old habits. My car broke and I knew my ex had tools in her trunk. We were still distant friends, so I called her for help. Took her to dinner to say thanks with no ill intent. It was the reminiscing that got us. We talked about when things were great, blah, blah, blah.

I only talk about it openly because it happened 25 years ago.

No screw ups since then. I have no problem being loyal to my wife even when my Test levels are up. I look at women, but becoming involved just seems...idiotic.

**cherrydrpepper** · 12-08-2011, 12:38 PM

Never cheated and often confused about why people do it. Just break up with whoever your with and fk who you want imo. Not going to pretend it has never crossed my mind to cheat though.

**Shol'va** · 12-08-2011, 01:02 PM

I've never cheated but I've been cheated, been mistreated, when will I be loved...sorry was thinking of that Linda Rondstat song...

**redz** · 12-08-2011, 01:32 PM

Never cheated and often confused about why people do it. Just break up with whoever your with and fk who you want imo. Not going to pretend it has never crossed my mind to cheat though.

Not always that clear cut, I had a stage 5 clinger once that was pretty scary and I tried to break up but she hung around over and over and it was tough to just end it, I was younger at the time and I honestly can`t remember how many girls I did something with while she was supposidly my gf. She enabled me anyways, she knew I hooked up with this one super hot chick while she went away and still got back together with me. Then while I was on vacation with a buddy I had more action in that week than I ever thought possible with different chicks and the gf found out and still it wasn`t over. The only thing I miss from her was the incredible bj's lol.

**ajordana** · 12-08-2011, 01:34 PM

yeah, i have. but on the other hand ive never been close to being in love, lol

**-Ender-** · 12-08-2011, 03:17 PM

Never cheated. I expect my woman and any guy that would be interested in her to understand and act as I do with regard to the subject also.

A failure or to treat the situation any differently would result in cut hamstrings and severe burns before death.

.....I can still fit under a bed unnoticed.

**Nooomoto** · 12-08-2011, 04:37 PM

I have before with exes, although the relationships had already taken a nose dive at that point so I didn't really care any more. I haven't with my current gf. She's a good girl and doesn't deserve that. The times I did it before were mostly out of spite.

**Standby** · 12-08-2011, 10:32 PM

so L2 did you cheat is that what this is??

i banged another girl in dominican while i was "seeing" a girl. thats all

**DSM4Life** · 12-09-2011, 06:08 AM

Originally Posted by G-1000

I have never cheated on anyone till after my ex cheated on me witch lead to divorce.

Now a days i just don't trust anyone and just do my own thing.

Don't let the poor decision of one person change who you are.

**Coozan** · 12-09-2011, 06:27 AM

Originally Posted by slfmade

Never cheated. Did once have a gf cheat on me with another girl though. To my suprise it really pissed me off!

Been there! MY buddies thought it was awesome. I was pissed right off!

**nik1603** · 12-09-2011, 06:48 AM

Never cheated and often confused about why people do it. Just break up with whoever your with and fk who you want imo. Not going to pretend it has never crossed my mind to cheat though.

Couldnt agree more

**nik1603** · 12-09-2011, 06:49 AM

.....I can still fit under a bed unnoticed.

Thats a little creepy :-/

**calgarian** · 12-09-2011, 08:29 AM

Originally Posted by Standby

so L2 did you cheat is that what this is??

i banged another girl in dominican while i was "seeing" a girl. thats all

No If I remember correctly she was seeing you....you were just banging her.....

**dec11** · 12-09-2011, 11:40 AM

i did before when i was younger but the reason was that i just didnt want to be with the one i was with anymore. as i matured and got to understand my own feelings i didnt do it anymore and certainly wouldnt now.

i believe that all men are programmed to seek and sow but that short burst of pleasure isnt worth destroying someone's life for, and your own.

**JohnnyVegas** · 12-09-2011, 12:50 PM

It was easy to be faithful when my Test levels where in the crapper. I have learned a lot about myself in the past year (since TRT) dealing with libido that is through the roof. I notice hot women everywhere now, and I am thankful that I have the maturity now to have zero problems. This is doubly helpful now that women notice me more since getting back in shape.

**dec11** · 12-09-2011, 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas

It was easy to be faithful when my Test levels where in the crapper. I have learned a lot about myself in the past year (since TRT) dealing with libido that is through the roof. I notice hot women everywhere now, and I am thankful that I have the maturity now to have zero problems. This is doubly helpful now that women notice me more since getting back in shape.

we all like that man, its just our human nature and its totally natural to look. society and psychology dictates monogamy.