Heathly relationships of all forms in 2012.

[SexySweetheart]

I just read this, agree 100% and pretty much practice already at home, BUT I noticed that its great to be reminded sometimes of the little things that can make a big difference, cuz life does trip us up sometime and counter productive tiny habbit emerge over time.
I read and notice I need to tweek a few things I am doing/saying... there is always room for improvment
You may find helpfull as well ~ enjoy


RELATIONSHIP TIPS FOR A STRESS-FREE 2012 (or as close as possible!)

January 2, 2012 By Dr. Kevin Leman


Tips for parenting:
1. Watch your expectations, make sure they are positive and not negative!

2. Make sure your kids get enough Vitamin E (encouragement) and some very essential Vitamin N which is No! Remember, if you love your child, you will disciple them

3. Rules are important but not the only thing that is important, relationships matter most!

4. Have fun with your kids, laugh at yourself, use the words, “I am sorry”

5. Finally, to put it bluntly do not take any disrespectful act from your son or daughter without significant consequences


Tips for your marriage:
1. Ladies, remember he is the SIMPLE one! As I have said many times, think of him as a four year old that shaves! His needs are simple. He needs to be needed and wanted by YOU!

2.Guys, understand that your wife majors in relationships and communication. She has the need to hear from you. She wants to know your feelings that you have about, well… almost everything in life! She needs to feel like your lovingly affectionate at all times!

3. We spend money on everything under the sun, I wonder how many of us invest our time and our money in our marriage? Want to do something for your family this year, take time to be a couple, enjoy a date night, consider joining next year’s Couples of Promise Cruise! Those kind of investments play dividends for generations.

4. Do your marriage a great favor and make sure that your spouse and your relationship take precedence.

Tips for relationships (including those of you you are single!):

1. Don’t “should” on yourself

2. If you have a critical eye– that is to say that you can spot a flaw, especially in the ones you love, in less than 10 seconds…. give it a rest! And rather than pull up the negatives, look for the positives and use the words, “Good job!” “Nice going” and “I bet that makes you feel good inside!”

3. One more thing, if you want to see a relationship with someone you love improve dramatically, in less than 48 hours, stop asking questions! It’s like magic. On that note, tuck the “why” word away and watch the relationship change before your eyes!

[songdog]

I needed to read that about 30yrs ago I learned the hard way

[BrownGirl]

Good tips!

[SlimmerMe]

Excellent Sexy. And love the no questions part. Very interesting. Very very interesting.

[SexySweetheart]

lol...today I found myself ready to say something, than stopping to think of a way to rephrase so it was not in question form....needless to say ~ very difficult for a chix that’s used to blurting out everything on my mind (can you say verbal diarrhea? lol) and I know totally get the reasoning behind getting g ride of the "why", asking why is almost like asking a person to justify something and for some people it can be intimating or put them in defensive mode... that’s my take on it any way

[Times Roman]

Both my kids came out great, despite all my worst efforts! =)

[lovbyts]

lol...today I found myself ready to say something, than stopping to think of a way to rephrase so it was not in question form....needless to say ~ very difficult for a chix that’s used to blurting out everything on my mind (can you say verbal diarrhea? lol) and I know totally get the reasoning behind getting g ride of the "why", asking why is almost like asking a person to justify something and for some people it can be intimating or put them in defensive mode... that’s my take on it any way

You are right on with that point. Guys dont like to justify every little thing. We like to fix things and keep it simple but dont typically like to explain why we do everything the way we do it especially if the other person is not really listening to the logic but focusing on the emotional or feeling of it.

[domeyeahaigh]

yeah dude..my girl is always "why this that" im just thinking man I wish it was babylon so I could SHUT YOU THE F UP

anyways here is a tip for you boys who can muster up the butter to get the deed done

if you have a wife or a girl who you actually care about and want to be with here is a simple tip

bang the living daylights out of her every morning and tell her you care about her

youll be more relaxed throughout the day and not worry so much if your girl is getting her tubes touched up by an intruder.

good luck soldiers.

[cherrydrpepper]

Agree. If I really care about a relationship I will usually bang a girl until she says she can't take anymore. In my current relationship, I will sometimes switch holes to give her coochie or ass a rest. I dont really have to worry about cheating with this system.

[SexySweetheart]

dedicate to cherry and domey...
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[SexySweetheart]

^sarcasum....we love it!