Wife found my stash

[AlphaGenetics]

I had the same problem with my X wife.




Thats why shes my x.






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hey guys Havent been active for a while. My wife found my gear a several months ago and been dealing with a bunch of other BS. Anyway, I convinced her to let me finish my cycle and now I am just finishing up my PCT/time off. She has pretty much giving me an ultimatum to stop or we are done, even after I have spent hours explaining to her about Test or other gear and the proper use of it....she still thinks I am retarded for doing gear. Problem is I don't want too be done. I am in the best shape of my life and loving it and this lifestyle. Been married for 13 years and have 2 sons--12 and 10. My marriage was not the best to begin with for a while and I have have thought about leaving many times, but I feel this may just push me over the edge. not sure what to do. Any ideas on how to convince her to let me continue to do gear. OR any advice on how to handle spliting up? I am sure many of you have been through this b4....just looking for some advice. It sux.......

[V-ROID]

My wife found my stash too a while back. Well she knew about it already but hadn't opened "the drawer" in a while. She was amazed by the quantity of goodies. Not much juice though, mostly PCT and pins and such. I wish I had enough to amaze myself! To the OP, it's not worth splitting up over but it's not worth taking shit over either!

[Jessgirl]

day late and a dollar short. lol

never to late

[Hazard]

I'm going to be straight forward with you........I have two kids married for 13 years and divorced for three.I was always attracted to a muscle head,I was the one injecting each boyfriend before husband and as well as him.Each person is different while on cycle and it can cause major problems, you sometimes don't see the change in your mood or attitude.If your wife doesn't want you doing it for those reasons she is not wrong.Gear will make you feel the best and in your head you are probably thinking you can do better....it's not worth losing your family cause your going to snap back to reality and it will be to late.I don't know your situation or your wife but seriously think before you act on it.maybe you can compromise on something. Good luck !

If she entered the relationship and he was using steroids ..... then she has no room to bitch. If they were married first and this wasn't his "thing" then her gripes are legitamate.

OK Haz it seems you and I need to co author a Divorce self help book for men. Women have them. A buddy of mine found one and it was basically how to take everything you can and leave him with nothing or less.

yes we do..... lmao

~Haz~

[Bigdog99]

Thanks everyone for the solid advice. I think I will go try to muster up some tears and make sure my wife sees it. I am kidding, but it actually won't be too hard...I almost lost it this morning saying goodbye to my 12 year old as he left for school.

@ People posting and saying that we are ending this over the gear...... I would agree that would not be worth it.....however as I have said many times that this was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Our relationship has been rocky for years and we were never best friends. We loved each other and still do, but we have just grown apart too much over the years. Another big thing was moving her away to NC from her friends and family in PA last summer b/c my work wanted me to take over their SE Region and expand the business. I was traveling about 15 days or more out of the month, so she was left alone with the kids alot with no support. Plus all my travel made her insecure as she always accused me of cheating etc. She would route through my trash, cell phone, computer, look through my receipts etc. She didn’t work, has no friends down here and the kids are at school all day. Plus when I was at home……I worked from a home office so we were up in each others grill all day long. She had nothing to do to keep her busy except to obsess over stuff. Just wasn't a healthy relationship.

Anyway… Time to move forward…..life goes on.

HAZ---good luck with your divorce. Hope all goes well for you. This one so far has been easier than I excepted. We are not fighting and we have agreed easily on everything and my wife is being more reasonable than I have seen her in years. Weird.

[SEOINAGE]

Dang she sounds insecure, I feel bad for her feeling like that. But sometimes the ones worried about the other one cheating are the ones that would be the one cheating. Do your best to be there for your kids, divorce hurts and effects their lives the most!!!!!! My parents divorce really hurt our family, my two youngest brothers started smoking weed at 9 and 11, which led to other things, and have had huge issues ever since, the younger one is now almost 18 and finally wanting to improve his life. And they weren't the only ones hurt by it. I mean you will find someone that makes you happy and so will your wife, but your kids will be torn by it. Put it this way if it relates, 7 kids in the family, us older 3 all got college degrees, the younger 4 all dropped out of high school. And only one has gotten a GED since. I know a lot of it stems from the divorce, sure people would still have their problems, but i can guarantee it would have been a lot different.

As for the steroid use , getting on trt changes everything. My wife said she would never let me do steroids , I caught her starting HCG diet once, she tried to hide it, she stopped it was just the stupid liquid drop crap, not cause I made her but I said if she gets to do HCG I get to do Steroids. Anyways, I'm on trt now, and she will never know when I blast, because I will just start eating more and tell her I'm bulking.

[Hazard]

Thanks everyone for the solid advice. I think I will go try to muster up some tears and make sure my wife sees it. I am kidding, but it actually won't be too hard...I almost lost it this morning saying goodbye to my 12 year old as he left for school.

@ People posting and saying that we are ending this over the gear...... I would agree that would not be worth it.....however as I have said many times that this was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Our relationship has been rocky for years and we were never best friends. We loved each other and still do, but we have just grown apart too much over the years. Another big thing was moving her away to NC from her friends and family in PA last summer b/c my work wanted me to take over their SE Region and expand the business. I was traveling about 15 days or more out of the month, so she was left alone with the kids alot with no support. Plus all my travel made her insecure as she always accused me of cheating etc. She would route through my trash, cell phone, computer, look through my receipts etc. She didn’t work, has no friends down here and the kids are at school all day. Plus when I was at home……I worked from a home office so we were up in each others grill all day long. She had nothing to do to keep her busy except to obsess over stuff. Just wasn't a healthy relationship.

Anyway… Time to move forward…..life goes on.

HAZ---good luck with your divorce. Hope all goes well for you. This one so far has been easier than I excepted. We are not fighting and we have agreed easily on everything and my wife is being more reasonable than I have seen her in years. Weird.

My divorce is a piece of cake..... My wife fvcked up so bad that she has no say. I get full custody of my daughter..... in a state that typically rules against men.

Best of luck man!

~Haz~

[JR G lady]

I swear I don't understand women sometimes, an how ignorant they get when they hear the word steroids .
It's the same exact thing as when they are using make-up, breast implants, and other cosmetics.

I had to sit my fiancé down make her watch the bigger, stronger, faster film which was great. Also show her that I do my research EVERY single day about what I'm taking and how I'm taking. Now she understands which is great, she was just worried about me not getting an erection if I took gear. I explained everything to her and now she is cool with it.

I don't care if females get plastic surgery or use make up etc, if it makes you feel and look great f*ck it!!

[spywizard]

hey guys Havent been active for a while. My wife found my gear a several months ago and been dealing with a bunch of other BS. Anyway, I convinced her to let me finish my cycle and now I am just finishing up my PCT/time off. She has pretty much giving me an ultimatum to stop or we are done, even after I have spent hours explaining to her about Test or other gear and the proper use of it....she still thinks I am retarded for doing gear. Problem is I don't want too be done. I am in the best shape of my life and loving it and this lifestyle. Been married for 13 years and have 2 sons--12 and 10. My marriage was not the best to begin with for a while and I have have thought about leaving many times, but I feel this may just push me over the edge. not sure what to do. Any ideas on how to convince her to let me continue to do gear. OR any advice on how to handle spliting up? I am sure many of you have been through this b4....just looking for some advice. It sux.......

A divorce is like a family member dieing, there is a period of greif and mooring..

on the other side though it's sunshine and candy all day long...

Good luck bro..