Girl of my Dreams @ the gym...has a BF, what should i do?

[sergio.x]

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[xelnaga]

Wait till she's not around him and strike up a conversation. Otherwise, you're a douche.

[sergio.x]

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[Razor]

Wait till she's not around him and strike up a conversation. Otherwise, you're a douche.

Hahaha

[songdog]

He may kick your ash

[Schmidty]

girls at the gym are on defence mood half th time. i usually would say be upfront and blunt but you might want to be a little more vauge and not come on quite as strong. I havent tryed to pull a girl from the gym in years just because they always seem to write you off. never has failed that i bring a girl to the gym that i havent liad yet i will after he gym for sure. idk if its a pheramone thing or them being turned on my being focused on when you help them trainor what but it never ever fails...

[Schmidty]

start by asking if you can work in with her and then start from that... dont be a pick correction guy thsat gives his workout insite when its not asked for or needed. that makes me want to crush sumbody s id imagine it to be a turn off for a girl.

[sergio.x]

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[wmaousley]

Q#1--- How did you determine she is the girl of your dreams???
Q#2--- Do you know her?
Q#3--- Do you know her BF?

I would walk away from this situation. If she knows you know she has a BF and you approach her like you want her she may feel disrespected. Their will be plenty more "Girl of your dream scenerio's" in your life.

[big_ron]

Hey Guys, so......Theres this girl at ive been seeing around at my gym. If I were to describe my perfect girl (kinda tall, brunette, nice tan, nice body, athletic) she would fit that category. I normally never stare at her but I see her checking me out, not to brag but I'm in decent shape.. Problem is she is usually working out with her boyfriend, but sometimes she is alone. I'm confident if I started to interact with her, I could make her leave her boyfriend within a month or two...(not that im trying to be a homewrecker)

So what do you guys think? Only thing holding me back from talking to her is her boyfriend...and it is at the gym.

Thanks guys

WTF is wrong with you?? make her leave her boyfriend? How about find a single girl, there are many out there! you cant make that statement and then say your not trying to be a home wrecker...because you are.
Leave it alone

[gearbox]

there is nothing wrong with talking to a girl. If you say something beyond friends I think you are being disrespectful to her and her bf. you would not want the same thing done to you. but talking and saying hi is legal and you may get to know if she really is the girl of your dreams.

[Schmidty]

or he should keep his bitch on a leash. if shes going to leave shes going to leave anyways wether it be fore him or sum other guy. i say go for it.

[Schmidty]

not like shes wearing a wedding ring

[sergio.x]

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[gearbox]

i agree with the ring. I just feel there is a certain level of respect that should be in order cause he KNOWS she has a bf.

[sergio.x]

or he should keep his bitch on a leash. if shes going to leave shes going to leave anyways wether it be fore him or sum other guy. i say go for it.

not like shes wearing a wedding ring

Well spoken.

[big_ron]

Well spoken.

You obviouosly know what you want to do anyway, so why ask for advice.

No its not well spoken, no shes not wearing a ring.

Keep his bitch on a leash? if thats not a joke than its just stupid.

Why create the opportunity and try to make her leave him. You will learn your lessons and develop your morals. My advice is just leave it. And if your such a player thinking you can get her to leave her bf then you should already have a bunch of single girls on the go, not being desperate or greedy trying for something thats not available so to speak.

[sergio.x]

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[sergio.x]

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[big_ron]

Maybe one day I will reach the likes of BigRon in terms of success with women.

Good job mate your a real winner! Hope everything goes well for you and the trouble that may come with it.

[Razor]

No way in hell that girl is going to leave her bf for you...are u nuts. Ron said it all..ur living in fantasy land. And if she does leave him for you she will do it to you.. but this is all high pie in the sky anyways.

Btw I like big ron's tits haha

[Schmidty]

i will say that if you are to take her from him that its not like she wont do it to you as well... Well big ron last time i checked when you ask a girl to be your gf you are not saying till death do we part like you do when you are married.

[big_ron]

i will say that if you are to take her from him that its not like she wont do it to you as well... Well big ron last time i checked when you ask a girl to be your gf you are not saying till death do we part like you do when you are married.

No im not saying that at all. they could break up anytime.. she maybe a whore and cheat...or she may be with him for a few years of how ever long... if she came up to him and said lets **** its another story, but to plot to take a mans girl is a bit different.

Basically most singles guys on there would say go for it and guys who are comminted will say dont, you think differently when your single. just expressing my opinion through my own experience.

For me there's no satisfaction in thinking i can get the girl to cheat or anything like that.

[Scabtree]

Kill him. Comfort her while she is mourning. Hide the body and take your trophy girl.

[Razor]

Kill him. Comfort her while she is mourning. Hide the body and take your trophy girl.

Hahahah that's a great plan..

[gearbox]

I was surprised gixxer didn't say this option already.

[sergio.x]

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[Vettester]

Agree with Big Ron on this. The sea has lots of fish, but you're scoping in on the one that's taken. If it's meant not to workout with her and that other guy, then let that fate take it's course, but stay clear from being any influence in the matter. If you were proud to be working out with a GF at the gym, only to find that some dude is sitting in the shadows waiting for you to skip a day so he can move in to feel things out, you wouldn't be too happy with situation.

Anything you want to say to her, do it with him in front of you too. Yeah, that doesn't work too well either. Otherwise, if you see her coming there solo and it's obviously there's no more BF, then make your move. If she noticed you already at the gym, she will send you the "I'm free" look.

[sergio.x]

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[soulstealer]

Does he out weigh you by 100lbs or is a professional fighter.... If you said no to both of these.... try and get the *****!

[Taunka]

you should wear a ring so you can just think she's jealous of you.... just go to a bar with one on, and you'll see..

[SEOINAGE]

As much as I would hate someone taking my gf if I seriously cared about her I still think you may have a chance. You don't know what their relationship is like, but what you can do is be friendly and put it on the back burner, until you notice she is open to a change. Some women stay with guys for the comfort, and if she is willing to leave so easily its better for him anyways, find someone that truly cares. I would just take it slow and not make it obvious.

Reminds me of one time I stole a girl from her bf the night I met both of them. I'll share for fun, Went with some friends and met up with other friends at this big university sponsored party, anyways my friends friend had a gf their that was like 5'0" and 90 lbs, and smoking. So I was checking all the girls at the party, little later this girls bf had to leave because he was getting up early the next day. So I am hanging out with her other friend and I notice the one is missing, so I ask her where she is, and she outright said looking for guys. So I asked about her bf, and she said oh well basically doesn't matter. So I jumped on that opportunity, took them both back to my place, literally were only at the party a few minutes longer, had my fun with the one in the hot tub, and all that weekend she was their visiting. Turns out the dude thought he was going to propose to her. That was a fun weekend, and I never felt bad.

[DeadlyD]

She knows you know she's gotta BF, just leave it alone, but say hi and keep the eye contact going, so she knows your interested.... If its gonna happen, she'll come to you!!

[calgarian]

not like shes wearing a wedding ring

and that will stop you??? Never stopped me......

[spywizard]

issue is if you crash and burn will it become uncomfortable for either of you to go to that gym??

[gixxerboy1]

just saying alot of girls don't wear their ring to the gym. My wife doesn't. She doesn't want to fvck it up. If she is a fit as she says im sure she isny using just the treadmill.

[calgarian]

All jokes aside I will advise against it. There is a man code out there your intentions are to break it up with her boyfriend even if she didnt you become friends with her you will always be in the "friend that want to **** me" list and also then she will run coming to you for emotional support and then you will tell her everything that benefits you...I wouldnt go that route.
What if you loose interest after getting into her pants? she is screwed cause she cant go back to him and you dont want to keep her cause ur intentions are fulfilled. the thing that you have mentioned "checking you out" she most likely be thinking "thats the creep who keep eye fvcking me when I am alone" and honestly I am not trying to be funny. So i wouldnt go there also there are plenty of single girls out there.....dont screw something up for anybody.

[jasc]

the thing that you have mentioned "checking you out" she most likely be thinking "thats the creep who keep eye fvcking me when I am alone"

hahaha soo true

I hear girl friends complaining about this all the time

[jasc]

Better make sure you can handle the guy before you try to steal his girl... If you didn't know she was taken, that's 1 thing. But to try to line her up while her bf was there.. not smart. Not to mention she's probably said something to him already n if not, he's probably noticed...

Do what you will.. I can't be hypocritical n tell you to not do it, but be sure before you make your move.

You never know what he's capable of or who his friends are..

[gixxerboy1]

Better make sure you can handle the guy before you try to steal his girl... If you didn't know she was taken, that's 1 thing. But to try to line her up while her bf was there.. not smart. Not to mention she's probably said something to him already n if not, he's probably noticed...

Do what you will.. I can't be hypocritical n tell you to not do it, but be sure before you make your move.

You never know what he's capable of or who his friends are..

i agree. i never went after a girl that i knew was in a relationship but if they were down so was i. One girls bf was about 6'4 and 330lbs. If he ever caught me i would have been dead. And i used to hang out with her in their house. She would cook us dinner and leave him the left overs.