...So I got a job as a gay stripper........

[lovbyts]

IT, Networking. Im doing what I swore I would never do 10 years ago, working with routers and a few other things. Most of it has to do with working for the right company, putting in your time (17yrs) and a lot of luck. That's 17 years out of 26. I originally got hired in 1986 but got laid off 2x and continued education to move up to the position I wanted. Even this job did not start out what it is now, it morphed into what it is. BTW tonight is my normal day/might off so it's all OT today, $55+ hr for the next 12hrs counting the 1hr+ I will be at the on site gym.

[Honkey_Kong]

what job is that?! where do i apply??

Yeah I want to get paid to surf the web. Shit, I'll probably just make a bot to do the surfing for me.

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I basically did all that. Some of them aren't just introverts. Some of them i think are afraid to reciprocate attention because its like "Oh no, here he comes..he wants tips, and I dont have any $1s" ...ya know...kinda like when a female stripper is fishin for tips, ya kinda turn away cuz ya dont wanna give the bitch any money. Oh well u dont cuz ur gay i guess, but the other guys get me.
I dont like givin them too much attention. I litteraly had one gay dude do the old trying to change the damaged stripper thing , he goes "Why you doing this?....You seem like a really good guy..you're better than this" LMAO, i told my lil bro this when i got home and he spit his drink he laughed so hard. Its interesting how our society mmakes you think someone must be damaged to take off their clothes for money. I will say though that my feeling is the majority of male stripper are probably better adjusted than female strippers. I have heard so many stories of dating female strippers and the shit they do. I even read a book on picking up strippers an the author said they are mostly damaged women. I think that's stupid that there aren't a significant amount of normal women who are confident enough to take their clothes off for in front of people.

you seem to be rather happy doing this, even trying to 'improve', to do it better. well, congrats, i guess.. for finding a job you're passionate about, and love doing. surely you're not looking for approval when you posted this thread. its more like a brag, isn't it?

so... any pics? of the chicks you're scored so far? or of the crowd you've gathered while on stage?

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i think we're all into BB for different versions of the same reason. we want others to stare at us/our bodies with dropped jaws. we want people to look at us with awe and admiration. or at least look at ourselves with satisfaction. whether its on the stage of a strip joint or the stage of a BB contest. its all different versions of the same reason.

but don't get me wrong. i myself definitely won't be on stage stripping, be it at a gay club or straight. maybe i am just conservative. but its fun/funny to read about someone else's experience, someone who is actually doing it.

[AD]

IT, Networking. Im doing what I swore I would never do 10 years ago, working with routers and a few other things. Most of it has to do with working for the right company, putting in your time (17yrs) and a lot of luck. That's 17 years out of 26. I originally got hired in 1986 but got laid off 2x and continued education to move up to the position I wanted. Even this job did not start out what it is now, it morphed into what it is. BTW tonight is my normal day/might off so it's all OT today, $55+ hr for the next 12hrs counting the 1hr+ I will be at the on site gym.

for a moment there, i thought you're paid by ar-r or buy roids.com to surf here and answer questions!! are the mods paid by admin?

[lovbyts]

for a moment there, i thought you're paid by ar-r or buy roids.com to surf here and answer questions!! are the mods paid by admin?

No, they get some perks once in a while but it's on a volunteer basis.

[AnabolicBoy1981]

admiration is ok, but i dont really care enough about what other ppl think to give that much of a shit about it.

BB and steroids have a very specific, defined purpose in my life.....to make me sexier so i can stick my face in more pretty girls butts, period.

[AnabolicBoy1981]

i think we're all into BB for different versions of the same reason. we want others to stare at us/our bodies with dropped jaws. we want people to look at us with awe and admiration. or at least look at ourselves with satisfaction. whether its on the stage of a strip joint or the stage of a BB contest. its all different versions of the same reason.

but don't get me wrong. i myself definitely won't be on stage stripping, be it at a gay club or straight. maybe i am just conservative. but its fun/funny to read about someone else's experience, someone who is actually doing it.

im not really passionate about gay stripping....just do it cuz it'll get me some easy chicks who go to these clubs with their gay friends, and make a lil moula while im at it

[JD250]

Its interesting how our society mmakes you think someone must be damaged to take off their clothes for money. I will say though that my feeling is the majority of male stripper are probably better adjusted than female strippers. I have heard so many stories of dating female strippers and the shit they do. I even read a book on picking up strippers an the author said they are mostly damaged women. I think that's stupid that there aren't a significant amount of normal women who are confident enough to take their clothes off for in front of people.

It's already started and you don't even know it, denial, being defensive, wanting to date male strippers, reading books about it...........It's OK to be gay really it is, we don't care that your gay so why do you make such a stink about it? Just go be gay and happy and stop pretending to like girls.

[AnabolicBoy1981]

It's already started and you don't even know it, denial, being defensive, wanting to date male strippers, reading books about it...........It's OK to be gay really it is, we don't care that your gay so why do you make such a stink about it? Just go be gay and happy and stop pretending to like girls.

No, the book was on female strippers. reread the post dude. the author said most are damaged WOMEN. idk if ur just jokin or what but ok

[JD250]

I did reread all your posts and what I see is a lonely person who likes men and is afraid to admit that he is gay, I'm merely trying to assure you that it's OK if you're gay and still like to do a sleazy gal at the gay bar from time to time. We're OK with you being gay, why aren't you OK with it?

[gixxerboy1]

I've hooked up with more strippers then you seen. Alot are fvcked up in the head. Some are the greatest people i have ever meet and have been friends with them for years.

I had friends that danced for guys that were straight. They all did it because they made 3x a much as dancing for girls. And they all had to get high as a kite to do it. It was purely for the money.

I said it before. if your doing it for the girls there is a hell of a lot easier ways then stripping for men. You said before you have trouble at regular clubs picking them up. Then start working on your game. Because your not going to want to be a gay stripper for ever and eventually you are going to need to learn.

[spywizard]

I did reread all your posts and what I see is a lonely person who likes men and is afraid to admit that he is gay, I'm merely trying to assure you that it's OK if you're gay and still like to do a sleazy gal at the gay bar from time to time. We're OK with you being gay, why aren't you OK with it?

we joke alot, but really this is true..

and if you have to most gay mean (sorry... many) will cross dress for you and pretend if that helps you get going..

[cyounger100]

I did reread all your posts and what I see is a lonely person who likes men and is afraid to admit that he is gay, I'm merely trying to assure you that it's OK if you're gay and still like to do a sleazy gal at the gay bar from time to time. We're OK with you being gay, why aren't you OK with it?

completly true couldnt of said it better its okay gay or bi we accept all on here

[AnabolicBoy1981]

I've hooked up with more strippers then you seen. Alot are fvcked up in the head. Some are the greatest people i have ever meet and have been friends with them for years.

I had friends that danced for guys that were straight. They all did it because they made 3x a much as dancing for girls. And they all had to get high as a kite to do it. It was purely for the money.

I said it before. if your doing it for the girls there is a hell of a lot easier ways then stripping for men. You said before you have trouble at regular clubs picking them up. Then start working on your game. Because your not going to want to be a gay stripper for ever and eventually you are going to need to learn.

That's great to know there are nice, real strippers out there.

I don't like clubs anyway, not a club guy. I usually leave pissed off and hating women. And usually some asshole wants to fight me cuz i hit on his girl, or the dumb cvnt gets him to try to. I prefer the grocery store...they're alone, i dont have to yell over loud music...no smoke...dont have to stay up late...and they're stupid cock blocky friends arent around to spoil it. I never understood why women LET their freinds cockblock. If my friend tryed to pull me from a chick i'd tell him to **** off!lol Granted, sometimes a chick is just chatting to be polite and the friend knows it or assumes it, or they communicate with subltle eye glances to "save me", but sometimes i really think a jealous friend spoils it for a weak girl.

I dont wanna gay strip forever. Working on my hip hop dance moves so i can move up to a non gay club one day. Need to get bigger, more ripped and more moves to dance for women. Maybe in a year or two, we'll see. That's the plan

[AnabolicBoy1981]

I did reread all your posts and what I see is a lonely person who likes men and is afraid to admit that he is gay, I'm merely trying to assure you that it's OK if you're gay and still like to do a sleazy gal at the gay bar from time to time. We're OK with you being gay, why aren't you OK with it?

i have nothin against gay. I just happen to be the type of person who is very comfortable with uncomfortable situations/awkward situations. My doctor friend took note of this once and made the comment "Brandon...I think you're one of the most socially comfortable people i've ever met" I thought that was an interesting term..socially comfortable. Alota people just have no balls, or they never challenge social norms of what's appropriate behavior or not. And everyone seems to care what other people think of them. I don't because that mindset is phony and screws up everything from politics to relations between the sexes. I hate politics...it's the biggest bunch of people pleasing elbow rubbing, pussifying filth. Look what politics did to Arnie. Made him a total puss. Went in conservative, came out a liberal moderate. I wish the next politician with a sex scandal just says at the press conferance "Yeah, i sent that girl a picture of my penis. She wanted it. And?" Like be a ****IN MAN!

Look...i remember reading one story where a guy got offered a strip job. He went to the place, and the other two strippers working that day were pre-madonna gay types who had daggers for him because he was bigger than them, but couldnt dance nearly ass well a them. He felt they were trying to out dance him and make him look bad in front of the three fat black chicks that were there. Then i think one of the chicks got grabby with him. Shortly after that he left, disenchanted.
My thoughts were: What an idiot! He let a couple of fruits make him uncomfortable cuz THEY DIDNT LIKE HIM and tried to OUT PERFORM him. Wow, apparently this guy never did any sports in highschool. I've had a couple guys on my wrestling team WHO DINT LIKE ME for whatever reason, and we had to PERFORM against each other for a spot on varsity. Like, didn't he have any adversity in his life? pff! And so what if some fat chciks grab ur wang. It's a woman grabbing your wang..while giving you dollar bills....is that trauma?! He made it seem like the worst thing. I just dont get it.

[BrownGirl]

Oh for heaven's sakes....I thought this really was an April Fools joke.

You know, I don't think grinding against your friends even as "horseplay" is normal. Sorry.

[gixxerboy1]

Oh for heaven's sakes....I thought this really was an April Fools joke.

You know, I don't think grinding against your friends even as "horseplay" is normal. Sorry.

i see no issue with you grinding on your girlfriends no disrespect to you our slfmade

[AnabolicBoy1981]

Oh for heaven's sakes....I thought this really was an April Fools joke.

You know, I don't think grinding against your friends even as "horseplay" is normal. Sorry.

OH PLEASE...like girls NEVER do that when they are out at the club with each other.

And you NEVER....kissed a girl when you were drunk?

[BrownGirl]

i see no issue with you grinding on your girlfriends no disrespect to you are slfmade

Hahhaha

OH PLEASE...like girls NEVER do that when they are out at the club with each other.

And you NEVER....kissed a girl when you were drunk?

Just because women do it doesn't make it okay for guys to do it!

So you've kissed a guy when YOU were drunk?

[GirlyGymRat]

i kissed a girl and i liked it

[gixxerboy1]

i kissed a girl and i liked it

what a coincidence me too

[Honkey_Kong]

i kissed a girl and i liked it

Pictures or it isn't true.

[GirlyGymRat]

heres a pic for ya!

[Honkey_Kong]

heres a pic for ya!

Awesome.... I used to love Rachel 18

[Times Roman]

Actually i can laugh with most of my buddies about what i do. It makes for some funny stories. I'm never ashamed of anything i do because im not gay. Sucking a dude would be gay....masturbated by a guy would be gay....getting fingered by a guy would be gay. Shaking my money maker in front of them, and maybe some breif contact, or jerking of by MYSELF with no dude touching me, would NOT be gay.
Slippery slope...really? Okay did you have any alcholic drinks this year? Have a cheat day with food that you ENJOY? Well..you better be careful because one drink turns to two, two turns to three....and the same with cheeseburgers and pizza. Why...if you dont stop having cheat days and occasional drinks....you could end up a 300lb alcoholic. I think you need an intervention.

Obviosly thats riduculous. You're saying its imppossible for anyone to say "when". If that were true everyone would be fat alcoholics. And that's with stuff you actually ENJOY. I dont actually ENJOY stripping for men, so how much easier is it to say enough is enough.

OK. so you're sitting there in front of a camera and other dudes rrunninjg the show, beating off for half an hour for a grand with other dudes watching. If you didn't enjoy it at some level, then how do you keep your wood?? At best, you would have to be neutral to it.

Same with stripping for other men. The point at some level is sexually arousing other men. If you take any pleasure in this, sexually arousing other men, even without touching them, then in my mind, your sexual orientation comes into question. In my mind, you don't have to have made it with a guy to be gay. So to say you are not gay because there is no contact seems bogus.

Maybe I'm outta line here. I'm old school, and I'd be at a loss to explain what I do in front of a class on father son day at school. You say you are not ashamed. Does this mean you would tell a class room full of young children you dance for other men?

See, I believe in integrity. If you are 100% cool with everything you do, then rock on. I'd just be at a huge loss of words explaining to people that I strip for men, or I jerk off for gay videos.

[chopzall]

i kissed a girl and i liked it

i can think of someone who didn't OP

[Awesome_Archy]

admiration is ok, but i dont really care enough about what other ppl think to give that much of a shit about it.

BB and steroids have a very specific, defined purpose in my life.....to make me sexier so i can stick my face in more pretty girls butts, period.

I would have gone with girls vaginas, but hey I'm not surprised you went with butts.

[lovbyts]

I would have gone with girls vaginas, but hey I'm not surprised you went with butts.

It's funny how there are so many little clues like or slips of the tongue so to speak throughout this thread starting with the title how he calls himself a GAY stripper.

[Honkey_Kong]

It's funny how there are so many little clues like or slips of the tongue so to speak throughout this thread starting with the title how he calls himself a GAY stripper.

The old Freudian slip.

[JD250]

i have nothin against gay. I just happen to be the type of person who is very comfortable with uncomfortable situations/awkward situations. My doctor friend took note of this once and made the comment "Brandon...I think you're one of the most socially comfortable people i've ever met" I thought that was an interesting term..socially comfortable. Alota people just have no balls, or they never challenge social norms of what's appropriate behavior or not. And everyone seems to care what other people think of them. I don't because that mindset is phony and screws up everything from politics to relations between the sexes. I hate politics...it's the biggest bunch of people pleasing elbow rubbing, pussifying filth. Look what politics did to Arnie. Made him a total puss. Went in conservative, came out a liberal moderate. I wish the next politician with a sex scandal just says at the press conferance "Yeah, i sent that girl a picture of my penis. She wanted it. And?" Like be a ****IN MAN!

Yea, that's what I said, you're gay.......even your friend that you play doctor with says your gay.......why are you so homophobic? Just come out and be happy.

Look...i remember reading one story where a guy got offered a strip job. He went to the place, and the other two strippers working that day were pre-madonna gay types who had daggers for him because he was bigger than them, but couldnt dance nearly ass well a them. He felt they were trying to out dance him and make him look bad in front of the three fat black chicks that were there. Then i think one of the chicks got grabby with him. Shortly after that he left, disenchanted.
My thoughts were: What an idiot! He let a couple of fruits make him uncomfortable cuz THEY DIDNT LIKE HIM and tried to OUT PERFORM him. Wow, apparently this guy never did any sports in highschool. I've had a couple guys on my wrestling team WHO DINT LIKE ME for whatever reason, and we had to PERFORM against each other for a spot on varsity. Like, didn't he have any adversity in his life? pff! And so what if some fat chciks grab ur wang. It's a woman grabbing your wang..while giving you dollar bills....is that trauma?! He made it seem like the worst thing. I just dont get it.

I think I saw that episode of SNL back in the day, wasn't that the one with Chris Farley and Patrick Swazey.


Listen bro, you're gay and it's OK, really.

[0tolerance]

at the end of the day dude, lying to yourself hurts you the most.
You dont have to admit that your Straight Gay or Bi to anyone but as long as you know for sure in your own mind which way you feel then thats fine.
But if your trying to lie to yourself, your going to have a hell of a hard time later in life.

I have alot of gay friends, but thats not uncommon for people in this day and age and just the way your seam to talk about and treat women and have these extremely macho stories it really reminds me of a friend dave who was very obviously gay and he was just terribly afraid and didnt want to be gay at the time.
he'd tell me things like " i went down the bottle shop to buy alcohol and the girl was closing up, so i grabbed her by the arm pulled her into me started making out with her and went down on her behind the beer promotional display just so i could get you guys these drinks"

sounds very similar to your grocery store story where you force them to kiss you and then you take your pants off.
in todays society a very small group of women would walk over and sit down in your car with you and they are usually the ones your paying to do so, all the rest have watched too many movies about being raped abducted and murdered to not have it cross their minds.

good luck with your life.

[AnabolicBoy1981]

at the end of the day dude, lying to yourself hurts you the most.
You dont have to admit that your Straight Gay or Bi to anyone but as long as you know for sure in your own mind which way you feel then thats fine.
But if your trying to lie to yourself, your going to have a hell of a hard time later in life.

I have alot of gay friends, but thats not uncommon for people in this day and age and just the way your seam to talk about and treat women and have these extremely macho stories it really reminds me of a friend dave who was very obviously gay and he was just terribly afraid and didnt want to be gay at the time.
he'd tell me things like " i went down the bottle shop to buy alcohol and the girl was closing up, so i grabbed her by the arm pulled her into me started making out with her and went down on her behind the beer promotional display just so i could get you guys these drinks"

sounds very similar to your grocery store story where you force them to kiss you and then you take your pants off.
in todays society a very small group of women would walk over and sit down in your car with you and they are usually the ones your paying to do so, all the rest have watched too many movies about being raped abducted and murdered to not have it cross their minds.

good luck with your life.

really? Maybe you should TRY i before you call it bullcrap. Yes Women DO get raped and killed from doing such things.....THAT'S exactly how they get raped and killed.....so you think you cant modify it for sex?

ANd in "todays society" women are more susceptable to this than in 1955. Things only get easier sexually as time goes on....as women like sexy4mysweetheart say "we are like ANIMALs" the women are more liberated today

[AnabolicBoy1981]

OK. so you're sitting there in front of a camera and other dudes rrunninjg the show, beating off for half an hour for a grand with other dudes watching. If you didn't enjoy it at some level, then how do you keep your wood?? At best, you would have to be neutral to it.

Same with stripping for other men. The point at some level is sexually arousing other men. If you take any pleasure in this, sexually arousing other men, even without touching them, then in my mind, your sexual orientation comes into question. In my mind, you don't have to have made it with a guy to be gay. So to say you are not gay because there is no contact seems bogus.

Maybe I'm outta line here. I'm old school, and I'd be at a loss to explain what I do in front of a class on father son day at school. You say you are not ashamed. Does this mean you would tell a class room full of young children you dance for other men?

See, I believe in integrity. If you are 100% cool with everything you do, then rock on. I'd just be at a huge loss of words explaining to people that I strip for men, or I jerk off for gay videos.

Ok Mr. Integrity...would you walk into a class room full of young children and tell then you stuck your penis in a girls vagina and then came all over her belly? Now you just sound stupid. I wouldnt tell a class full of kids that i stripped for women either. What the heck are you talking about?

As as far as jerking off in front of a camera......ever jerk off in your room as a teen with no porn? See... Back in my day....(maybe im a little older than you son.)...but back in my day....porn was scarcer than today...we didnt have all this high technology...so we had to use our IMAGINATION. Yes sir that's right. Got purdy good at it too. Imagined up all those nice buttcheeks, hooters, and vaginers...yes indeed we did.

And ya know what? as good as technology is...even with high resolution/HD whatever....no matter how real i look on camera to those gays....i BETCHA i wont FEEL them jerkin off to me...i just BETCHA

[BigBadWolf]

Ok Mr. Integrity...would you walk into a class room full of young children and tell then you stuck your penis in a girls vagina and then came all over her belly? Now you just sound stupid. I wouldnt tell a class full of kids that i stripped for women either. What the heck are you talking about?

As as far as jerking off in front of a camera......ever jerk off in your room as a teen with no porn? See... Back in my day....(maybe im a little older than you son.)...but back in my day....porn was scarcer than today...we didnt have all this high technology...so we had to use our IMAGINATION. Yes sir that's right. Got purdy good at it too. Imagined up all those nice buttcheeks, hooters, and vaginers...yes indeed we did.

And ya know what? as good as technology is...even with high resolution/HD whatever....no matter how real i look on camera to those gays....i BETCHA i wont FEEL them jerkin off to me...i just BETCHA

I don't like you. Not cause your gay, cause your stupid.

[Shol'va]

[GirlyGymRat]

another gay stripper thread had no idea there were so many gay strippers

[Shol'va]

another gay stripper thread had no idea there were so many gay strippers

[Shol'va]

Gay Strippers On The NYC Busses making some dough...

[Honkey_Kong]

Shol'va, did Anabolicboy give you permission to post those pics of him?