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    Wife says NO SEX until I get a vasectomy..

    The wife is holding out on me and it's been about a month now. I didn't think she could do it but so far she seems serious. This blows. I don't mind getting one.. and I'll do it, but won't be done w/ my cycle til the end of May and don't want to do it beforehand.

    Rubbers suck - I hate them.

    Anyone get the big "V" done? How long before you can go full throttle in the gym?

    Igi

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    Why doesnt your wife take the pill?
    Or just man up and wear protection, its pretty sucky that she would hold back sex from you, ITS ****ED. i hate the thought of women doing that sort of thing.

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    She says she feels bloated and uncomfortable on the pill.. she took it for years. There were some other sides she got toward the end of the last time she was taking them as well but can't remember what they were. I seriously can't stand wearing rubbers.. takes so much away from it. We fooled around a little today and I thought I had her weakened but nope. So she'll still fool around and we'll get off or whatever, but no sex.

    I'm 35, she just turned 36. So the thought of having another kid scares her to death (two kids 13 and 9 already)

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    Well its a fair enough concern of hers. And good that shes completely not holding back on sexual things, so it just maybe shes scared of another child.

    Its crazy the things girls go through when on the pill. i dont think they really get told how much it can mess up their bodys, the same with us and AAS i guess.

    Sorry i cant be any help with info on a vasectomy. Good luck tho!

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    thx ron..

    Yea she's not trying to punish me, she's just really freaked out about having another one. Doesn't want to have a 5 year old when she's 40.. lol. I personally wouldn't mind another one but it takes two right?

    bump for vasectomy veterans!!

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    she cant get pregnant doing anal
    If people can't tell your on steroids then your doing them wrong

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    omg were you totally in the room with us today? haha.. that was my exact quote..

    She's never been into that either.. only a few times ever. But if this keeps us I may have more fuel for my fire.

    I like the way you think gixx

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    she can't cut you off from sex if she doesn't know where you're getting it from..

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    she cant get pregnant doing anal
    lmao!!

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    Just get the vasectomy. I had one two years ago - you're in and out in 20 minutes. They give you an AWESOME anesthetic. I was out running 3 days later. Never used the Vicodin once.
    You will have a dull soreness for several months, but it's nothing that will bother you.

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    Trouble is - just cuz you GET one, doesn't mean you can have sex right away. It takes a while to clear the last 'lil sperm dudes out... And then they will want to test you at 3 and 6 months to make sure it worked.
    I hear Astroglide is the best lube for anal.

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    if she could,she would probably opt for a hysterectomy....just sayin

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    Quote Originally Posted by oatmeal69 View Post
    Trouble is - just cuz you GET one, doesn't mean you can have sex right away. It takes a while to clear the last 'lil sperm dudes out... And then they will want to test you at 3 and 6 months to make sure it worked.
    I hear Astroglide is the best lube for anal.
    Thx for the feedback.. I heard about the post op test, etc. Never heard about the long term dull pain though.. not too excited about that, but good to know you were active within a week. I don't mind taking a week off from the gym. Probably need to.

    Quote Originally Posted by girlgymrat View Post
    if she could,she would probably opt for a hysterectomy....just sayin
    No way.. would never ask her to do that. I heard that they hysterectomy is hell compared to the "v". Sounds like it's a breeze so I'll get it done.

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    Gixx you read my mind

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    Could always poke her in the tonsils too

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    if she won't do you there are plenty of women that will..

    and she can't get prego with oral or anal..
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    whats the big deal about your cycle and waiting?
    like whats the dif in doing it now?
    anyway you will need a visit or two before they actualy cut you, so you could start the process now...

    not much recover time...unless you have complications lol (inside joke) ...anywho there are some perks to a V ~ like better taste IMO

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    It's not bad had it done at 10am went to the movies that evening.. Work back in 3 days and I lifted 50-60 pounds!! Just go home and ice after

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixxerboy1 View Post
    she cant get pregnant doing anal
    Or giving head.

    If you want it bad enough you will wear a rain coat.

    There are V that are less invasive now days I hear. Check out Dr. Snip, I think that is one of them or google no cut vasectomy.
    Last edited by lovbyts; 04-23-2012 at 10:34 PM.

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    Easy, painless, not a big deal at all. Just do it, I wish I'd done it years ago, but I wasn't 100% sure I didn't want kids.

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    well shes gonna have to learn to like anal. I would also use this as an excuse to start tryin all kinds a weird kinky shiit. get the BDSM rope out baby!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    Or giving head.

    If you want it bad enough you will wear a rain coat.

    There are V that are less invasive now days I hear. Check out Dr. Snip, I think that is one of them or google no cut vasectomy.
    I had the no cut vasectomy

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    Oh Brother........and your point is what? u r not getting any???? I am sorry who r u and what u did with tony? Anal wont get her prego.....

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    that's why greek families only have 1-2 kids tops..

    if Catholic girls would do more oral ( i know they do plenty ) and anal, the large families would be much smaller.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard View Post
    if she won't do you there are plenty of women that will..

    and she can't get prego with oral or anal..
    I know but.. I have moral issues (shut up Cal)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart View Post
    whats the big deal about your cycle and waiting?
    like whats the dif in doing it now?
    anyway you will need a visit or two before they actualy cut you, so you could start the process now...

    not much recover time...unless you have complications lol (inside joke) ...anywho there are some perks to a V ~ like better taste IMO
    Lol.. I didn't want to do it during cycle due to the needed time off afterward. I know it's not a lot of time, but if I'm going to take a week off, I'd prefer doing it while off cycle. Does it really taste better after the v??? I'm gullible.. haha

    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian;598***6
    Oh Brother........and your point is what? u r not getting any???? I am sorry who r u and what u did with tony? Anal wont get her prego.....
    I'm getting what I need I guess but no sex.. I'll tell her you're disappointed in her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igifuno View Post
    I know but.. I have moral issues (shut up Cal)



    Lol.. I didn't want to do it during cycle due to the needed time off afterward. I know it's not a lot of time, but if I'm going to take a week off, I'd prefer doing it while off cycle. Does it really taste better after the v??? I'm gullible.. haha



    I'm getting what I need I guess but no sex.. I'll tell her you're disappointed in her.
    What I didnt even said anything........ Morals my ass

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    sounds like a huge sacrafice but tell her if it has to be oral....

    ...then it is what it is!

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    Ever mention the Pull-n-pray method to her? I hear it's pretty effective

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    Ever mention the Pull-n-pray method to her? I hear it's pretty effective
    is that why Catholic families traditionally are fairly large?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    Ever mention the Pull-n-pray method to her? I hear it's pretty effective
    the 1 aspirin a day always works(put it between her knees) .. which is what you are now doing with her..

    the real issue is..

    what would she do if you said...

    "I will withhold love and acceptance from you until you _____________________"

    cause that's what she is doing to you..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman

    is that why Catholic families traditionally are fairly large?
    those are the ones who didn't pray hard enough

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    those are the ones who didn't pray hard enough
    lol!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    Ever mention the Pull-n-pray method to her? I hear it's pretty effective
    hell yea man I've been doing that with her for 15 years and only messed up twice.. haha

    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard View Post
    the 1 aspirin a day always works(put it between her knees) .. which is what you are now doing with her..

    the real issue is..

    what would she do if you said...

    "I will withhold love and acceptance from you until you _____________________"

    cause that's what she is doing to you..
    I hear you.. I've had that conversation with her.. bottom line, she could give a rats a$s what I say becuase she doesn't want any more kids. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Igifuno

    hell yea man I've been doing that with her for 15 years and only messed up twice.. haha
    rofl!
    that's pretty good odds..

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    Had it done at lunchtime, went back to work straight after, bit black n blue for a few days after, no great biggie.

    Was scared to hell that it would not work the same after, something like 4 days climbed back on the gf.

    Took about a month to convince myself that it all works the same, that was a year and a half ago.

    Never looked back!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnabolicBoy1981 View Post
    well shes gonna have to learn to like anal. I would also use this as an excuse to start tryin all kinds a weird kinky shiit. get the BDSM rope out baby!
    Are you speaking from your experiences at the gay strip club here?

    OP, I think you and her need to sit down and have a long chat. Specifically about having more kids and then together decide on the course of action. That way it's not her telling you to get a V, if you decide it, it's both of you agreeing on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fit N Fun View Post
    Had it done at lunchtime, went back to work straight after, bit black n blue for a few days after, no great biggie.

    Was scared to hell that it would not work the same after, something like 4 days climbed back on the gf.

    Took about a month to convince myself that it all works the same, that was a year and a half ago.

    Never looked back!!!!!
    That's insane.. you went back to work? Didn't the anesthesia screw with you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong View Post
    Are you speaking from your experiences at the gay strip club here?

    OP, I think you and her need to sit down and have a long chat. Specifically about having more kids and then together decide on the course of action. That way it's not her telling you to get a V, if you decide it, it's both of you agreeing on it.
    Yup.. I think that's part of the thing honestly. I wouldn't mind having another but she is done. I've agreed to having it done and I will. She really is pushing me to do it NOW though.. and I don't want to do it just yet so her answer is no sex lol. I called my insurance company today to inquire and I'm covered. Looks like it will only cost about $3-4k total. Does that sound about right?

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    Do you want me to talk to her?????

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