Another chance for trouble............

[redz]

So today I got invited by a girl I work with to go to a party at her house this Saturday (It's her bday). She is a bit younger and is having a whole bunch of her friends over for drinks for a few hours then hitting the clubs later, looks like it is going to be almost all hot university chicks there which is obvious trouble yet I find myself still thinking about it. She even told me to tell my wife I was having a night out with the boys. So far it looks like it will be a 5-1 ratio of girls to guys which makes it even harder to turn down. She told me how dis-appointed she was that I wasn`t coming to her party and really tried hard to get me to go.

The level of temptation is tough, yet I know this is all wrong.

[lovbyts]

No, no, no or just do the right thing and get a divorce....

[Hazard]

It is COMPLETELY the wrong decision to goto this party..... completely irresponsible and wrong of you as a husband..... but I'd prolly still go lol.

If you do go..... you can't make a thread on here about how your wife got pissed and wants to leave you lol

~Haz~

[redz]

It's tough to pass up, I will put a few days thought into this. I wouldn`t complain if she wanted to leave me, We have been pretty close to the end several times recently so there is no shock to that end. I have tried hard but I guess not for that long, I have gave her massages every day. I even spent my 3 days off over the weekend helping her friend put in new floor in their house they just bought. She still sends mixed confusing signals, she told me to give her one friend a back massage? I didn`t at first then she insisted so I did it for a minute then stopped. Seriously weird stuff.... I still think maybe Colombians are just different with that stuff like they don't think it matters or something.

[Razor]

Just make sure you post pics of the chicks

[redz]

Which the friend I gave a back massage? or the chicks at the party?

[lovbyts]

It only matter when they want it to matter. They can tell you to do something but if you do it it's still your fault. Welcome to the wonderful world of women. Don't ever try to figure them out. You just have to decide if you want to deal with it/them or not.

Since you are still married I would suggest skipping the party, you will have chances later when it cant be used against you unless you are OK with the extra drama.

[JD250]

^^^^yes

[FONZY007]

What about taking the wife with you to the party?

[Hazard]

What about taking the wife with you to the party?

^^^^AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHA^^^^

*DEEP BREATH*

AAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHA



~Haz~

[FONZY007]

^^^^AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHA^^^^

*DEEP BREATH*

AAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHA

~Haz~

Hey I was just throwing it out there, the girl is just a co worker right he didn't say he wanted to fvck her like the wife's best friend

[wmaousley]

the only way I would go to that party is with the wife in tow

[JD250]

The girl already suggested that you lie to your wife, she wants to fvck you plain and simple, the only question you need to answer is "are you going to cheat on your wife"?

[S&S_ShovelHead]

Last time I did something like this, the gf really didnt want me to go. She was right not to, a little alcohol and we do some stupid shit. It almost cost me my relationship, luckily I stopped before going too far, but still far enough that she almost dumped my ass.

[Super-Chump]

All you do is make threads about you wanting to cheat on your wife. Are you seeking everyone's approval before you finally decide to do it?

Just get a divorce and have some fun if that's what you really want, no need to tell everyone about it

[ghettoboyd]

the only thing we have in life to resist is temptation... be a real man and stay away from the party bro or as others have said do the right thing and cut the wife loose and do as you please...good luck...

[TBrah]

maybe your wife is doing the same thing

[DSM4Life]

Maybe they just want to play twister.

[cherrydrpepper]

You should go to the party and plow the shit out of this girl then say 10 hail marys and spank yourself with a wooden paddle and your good

[stpete]

Would you care if your wife did it to you? That would be the first thing i'd ask myself.

[AD]

You should go to the party and plow the shit out of this girl then say 10 hail marys and spank yourself with a wooden paddle and your good

fully agree!! lmao

[jasc]

Would you care if your wife did it to you? That would be the first thing i'd ask myself.

^^^ Exactly what I was thinkin..

Would you get mad if a young guy that your wife worked with insisted she lie to you and come to a party with mostly all other college guys where they were all gonna get fvcked up and go to the club? knowing that your wife wanted to go, has already been doing some borderline shit, and has been considering cheating?

[SEOINAGE]

The girl already suggested that you lie to your wife, she wants to fvck you plain and simple, the only question you need to answer is "are you going to cheat on your wife"?

Yeah that's the honest truth, and don't plan on it being any of her friends either, she will get mad and might turn this around on you and get you in trouble anyways. Stop being a dumb ass is my advice.

[Dukkit]

Have an orgy.

Use a condom.

Wash your nuts before going home.

Just saying....

[Skyrinegt]

It's always tempting but seriously EVERY chick has some way that she causes headaches there's no one better then another haha the only way I'd do is if the wife wasn't put out then it's free game

[redz]

Maybe they just want to play twister.

I was already thinking of bringing it......

^^^ Exactly what I was thinkin..

Would you get mad if a young guy that your wife worked with insisted she lie to you and come to a party with mostly all other college guys where they were all gonna get fvcked up and go to the club? knowing that your wife wanted to go, has already been doing some borderline shit, and has been considering cheating?

I guess maybe I`m just looking for the excuse to end things. I know that is backwards and in the past I once did it just to put an end to a relationship.

It's tough when we are not on the same page for anything, I suggested a trip anywhere in the world and she said she would rather stay home and renovate our 4 year old house?!?

[GetItHot]

I say dont go. There will prolly be a bunch of her punk ass guy friends there and you WILL want to fight their dumb asses.

Temptation only has to be resisted if you dont have your freedom....

[AlphaGenetics]

Its not wrong if you dont get caught. If you decide not to go hook me up!! Last time I went out I ended up with two strippers! No risk no reward!!

So today I got invited by a girl I work with to go to a party at her house this Saturday (It's her bday). She is a bit younger and is having a whole bunch of her friends over for drinks for a few hours then hitting the clubs later, looks like it is going to be almost all hot university chicks there which is obvious trouble yet I find myself still thinking about it. She even told me to tell my wife I was having a night out with the boys. So far it looks like it will be a 5-1 ratio of girls to guys which makes it even harder to turn down. She told me how dis-appointed she was that I wasn`t coming to her party and really tried hard to get me to go.

The level of temptation is tough, yet I know this is all wrong.

[redz]

I say dont go. There will prolly be a bunch of her punk ass guy friends there and you WILL want to fight their dumb asses.

Temptation only has to be resisted if you dont have your freedom....

I saw the invite list, it's like 25 girls and 5 guys and so far there are only 2 guys going. None the less still you never know with young people and booze.

I know I shouldn`t be going but I haven`t made up my mind yet.

[GetItHot]

Another thing you may want to consider if you do go, this generation is glued to their cell phones. That means pics and videos, so expect no privacy. Hell, this bitch may be trying to blackmail you.

She works with you??? DONT GET YOUR MEAT WHERE YOU GET YOUR BREAD!

[JP-MAN]

Redz, if u want to end it with wife, dont give her amunition. why give her a reason to take u for everything.

stay away from this party, this will not end well....

[gixxerboy1]

So your wife will be home with the kids again and your going to a party.
Ever think that you are considering this is why you and your wife are having issues.

[redz]

I don`t have any kids....

She goes out partying too, In fact for months I did not drink at all or party at all and she regularily was going to friends places twice per week to get drunk.

[FONZY007]

Maybe they just want to play twister.

Lol ass

[gixxerboy1]

I don`t have any kids....

She goes out partying too, In fact for months I did not drink at all or party at all and she regularily was going to friends places twice per week to get drunk.

sorry i thought you had kids

[FONZY007]

Well personally don't shit where you sleep.. I cheated with a coworker and the girl promised to keep it between us, fvcked her 3 times... She went crazy didn't like being the thing on the side wanted me to fvck her more and after i cut her off she started to run her mouth... My fault end of story...

[FONZY007]

Well personally don't shit where you sleep.. I cheated with a coworker and the girl promised to keep it between us, fvcked her 3 times... She went crazy didn't like being the thing on the side wanted me to fvck her more and after i cut her off she started to run her mouth... My fault end of story...

Oh i was off of work for 7 months due to knee and shoulder surgery told her 1 week before going out, leave me alone your crazy and I don't want to talk to you no more.. I come back and she says she needs closer what the fvck just gave you 7 months worth of closer lol

[Vettester]

Sounds like the same advise and comments from the previous threads you wrote about all of this stuff. I thought I read on the other thread where you and your wife were talking some things through and things were positive? ...

History just keeps repeating itself here! Show some leadership and make a decision. If you're in, go ALL in and give it 100% to make it work with her. If you're out, then nut up and tell her it's time to move on, then you can go have your fun with these other chicks! Pandering is weak, Redz, and I know you're not weak, so don't get caught up in it!

Also, on the note of her going out and partying too ... Then put it on the table that she agrees, and you agree that this is an open relationship. That way when she tells you about the 3-way she had with some horny guys won't be an issue. You will also have plenty of cake stories to share, and everyone will be just peachy!

[AlphaGenetics]

If your woman really loves you she will understand that it is not healthy for a man to only have one sexual partner.

[redz]

. Sounds like the same advise and comments from the previous threads you wrote about all of this stuff. I thought I read on the other thread where you and your wife were talking some things through and things were positive? ...

History just keeps repeating itself here! Show some leadership and make a decision. If you're in, go ALL in and give it 100% to make it work with her. If you're out, then nut up and tell her it's time to move on, then you can go have your fun with these other chicks! Pandering is weak, Redz, and I know you're not weak, so don't get caught up in it!

Also, on the note of her going out and partying too ... Then put it on the table that she agrees, and you agree that this is an open relationship. That way when she tells you about the 3-way she had with some horny guys won't be an issue. You will also have plenty of cake stories to share, and everyone will be just peachy!

She doesn`t believe in that stuff, she is a daddy's girl and 100% believes in family and would never cheat or anything. But hey you never know I guess. Things were heading in the right direction but ultimately I am the one putting all the effort, why does she get massages every day? I have had sex once in the last week and a half or so, tough to feel positive some times I guess.