
Originally Posted by
Sexy4mySweetheart
Wow! gawd i hate people sometimes ~ they gross me out
no such thing as being over educated, esp. in this IMO... I also have the sex reg site favorited on my laptop and check out/ show the kid’s reg where to avoid... while educating them that most all offenders are the ones that wanna get to know you or already do know you.
we talk a lot about "grooming" behaviors to be aware of and that no grown man should ever touch or pop your personal space bubble ever ( a fist pump is all that’s ever acceptable touch for an adult to give a 16/ 17 year old, all else is man handling or grooming).
my kid grew up knowing about boundaries and to always fight back...my foster kid we think has already been victimized and in this last year we believe places himself to be re-victimized (sadly) we have had some shady issues with this.
however it is also true that our kids are safer now than they ever have been (according to the stats) and I believe fearing something is more detrimental than feeling empowered, they are just people that are damaged/ they don’t have super powers and I never gave my kid the impression to fear them, just to be awear of personal safety
My teen knows all the city bus routes and takes the bus ever where, comes and goes as he please while texting me where he is, I know I have shown him to be safe/responsible and to explore his environment ....the scared/ timid/ unsecure kids are usually targeted and are usually the ones to see an adult as a safety net