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The wife packed her bags and left on Friday. She cleared out her clothes and things. I feel good and bad about this right now but honestly I am having alot of fun. My dilema is the moral question of whether I can bring a girl to my place at this point. She still has a key so theoretically she could randomly show up.
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your still married. its still her house too. I wouldnt. And it really messed up if you are planning on it a few days later. Maybe down the road but no its def fvcked up
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I`m only waiting on the divorce to help her out though.
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Yeah.. take some time for yourself. I'm not telling you that you can't date. But do rush them back to your house that your soon to be ex wife just moved out of. Change all locks. Redo the inside.
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Let's hope the fun doesn't settle down and you realize you made a mistake. Good luck
And yes your married, show some respect!
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Agreed that you shouldn't bring chicks to your place until you are officially divorced and ownership of the house is sorted out. Your marriage didn't work out, but you can still be a decent person. Give that girl some peace.
I think this is what you wanted, but you wanted her to do it rather than you dump her. Now that you have what you want, maybe make her life easier for a short period of time while the divorce works itself out.
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At this point, is it your morals that are holding you back? Or are you afraid that the ex will show up and ruin that special moment.
My suggestion is to do what you think is the right thing to do. Give that a try.
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I'm sorry man but you have to be the most selfish, thoughtless, immature, clueless 28 year old I have ever seen! sorry to be so harsh but have you listened to your self???? You are debating bringing a girl back to your and your wife's house? your not even split up yet!! you shouldn't even have to ask this question it should just be obvious that its a terrible idea! you are one of the guys who give the rest of us a bad name and I wouldn't be surprised if your wife wises up and takes you for everything you have....I'm not trying to be a dick I'm just giving you a dose of reality! and the thing is you probably deserve what ever it is you have coming to you! YOU got married, YOU chose to be with her, she did not force it on you and you seem to want to play the victim....wise up man, grow up, and get your shiitt together! If you don't want to be with her then man up and file for divorce but don't be a coward and wait for her to do it so you can blame her for everything! let the poor girl go before you damage her any more! sorry man but you really need to grow up!
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for once you need to not be selfish, man up and do the right thing.
didn't your mom and dad teach you the diffference between right and wrong? or do you simply choose to ignore their teachings?
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UUUUGH!!!! Redz, you have got to be posting this crap just to see what responses you get, nobody can be this retarded, can they?
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i dont think he is retarded, I honestly dont think he cares about his wife at all. He has no respect for her and def doesnt love her. So she really isnt a consideration more of a hassle to him. IMOOriginally Posted by JD250
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Congrats, now get out there and bang as many women as you can...
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Don`t know my brith father and my step dad left too.didn't your mom and dad teach you the diffference between right and wrong? or do you simply choose to ignore their teachings?
I get the not bringing the chick there, I sorta already did though Sat night but we didn`t have sex because my friend was there.UUUUGH!!!! Redz, you have got to be posting this crap just to see what responses you get, nobody can be this retarded, can they?
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I might be out of place by saying this but do you think there is a chance that you have issues that stem from not having a positive male role model while growing up? One of my best friends dad walked out on his mother when he was 2 and he also has horrible relationships! hes a very selfish boyfriend and is clueless on how a man should act, doesn't really understand the dynamics of a relationship and is some what like your self although not as bad I might say. Sadly its not your fault you think the way you do but you also must realize that your a 28 year old adult and so you must take responsibility for your life and stop making excuses....as an adult no one will feel bad for you so your on your own to fix your "baggage"! so man up and get some help!
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Do whatever you want, you do anyways. . . . Why not?
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The first time you took off your wedding ring should of been the time YOU moved out. Life would of been a lot easier on everyone IMO.
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This is the funny part. Everyone says this. But, I know people older than me that never grow up.
They just fvck around and do whatever they think is right that day.
Whatever works, it just doesn't work for me that way.
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Redz I'm not sure if you've ever been cheated on by someone you love, I have my ex wife. Let me tell you bro it's by far the most painful thing ever. Your wife may be acting tough on the outside but man I'm sure she's in pain. Show her a little respect. If your done with the marriage tell her and file for devorce.
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I dont know how this applies to this thread unless you yelled out leroy jenkins while you were on that 5 day bender getting lap dances and macking on hoes
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redz can i have her number
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I can't believe your happy hand loving life with your wife moving out man, good women are hard to come by and you sound like you have a great girl, and your throwing it all away.. Double tap on the brakes man and don't lose your wife in a divorce cause you party too much..you be that old guy sitting at the bar when's he's fifty with all your glory days behind you but nothing to show for it but a few good laughs and some fancy shoes you were wearing, get your wife back man
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Seems you are only concerned about your personal gains and not the feelings of others. Narcistic 100%
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You might as well go bring broads back and bang them. You didn't care enough to save your marriage. So technically it's just a piece of paper. The guys in here are saying to wait until your divorce is in. Your marriage was over the second your heart wasn't in to it. It's a shame really.
You might want to be discreet about this shit so she doesn't find a lawyer and say you're cheating on her.
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Well I'm sure you get the idea from all the other post so no need for me to rip into you also.
spend the next few years having fun, playing and getting things out of your system. DONT get involved with anyone until you are 110% sure you are done being selfish and self centered so you dont ruin another persons life.
Dont bother reflecting on life now and figuring out what you want; you should have done that before the wife left so now since you got what you want it's time to enjoy your time I guess.
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Only advice I can give you... Change all your house locks. I've learned from experience that you should not trust your own wife when she's out of the house. She will raid your house when you are not there. Also depending on circumstances and if you guys broke up harshly you don't want her to come stab you in the throat in the middle of the night
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Whatever about anything else, hope it all works out for you, keep your head on your shoulders, suitations similar to yours have been the downfall of many a good man
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technically if they are still married its still her house to. doesnt matter if she isnt staying there
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Chances are he will get stuck with the next girl he bangs, likely he will end up an emotional wreck from the divorce, he will stick with this new girl who will be half the woman his ex wife was, he will stick with her this time, he will get old and fat and be miserable. This new girl will constantly nag him and have complete control over his life. He won't ever party again either because this new girl would be the type that would slit his throat.
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Hahahahaha 1:23 Leroy Jenkins is a mad cvnt! How the heck do u find this shit CDrP???
Leeeeeeeeroooooooyyyyyyyy Jennkkinnnnsss
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Haha wtf?
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I never wore my wdding ring, I can`t lift weights wearing one.The first time you took off your wedding ring should of been the time YOU moved out. Life would of been a lot easier on everyone IMO.
This I can guarantee will not happen. I care more now than I did before my wife thought I worked out too much and was getting too big. My bf is at a 2 year low point right now and I am confident I can take care of myself. The only really bad thing is that I have taken up smoking.he will get old and fat and be miserable
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We are done, I sponsored her parents to come to Canada and if we get a divorce then that could be affected. I can`t do it now, I may be an asshole but I`m not a ****ing asshole.Redz I'm not sure if you've ever been cheated on by someone you love, I have my ex wife. Let me tell you bro it's by far the most painful thing ever. Your wife may be acting tough on the outside but man I'm sure she's in pain. Show her a little respect. If your done with the marriage tell her and file for devorce.
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Where is she and her parents from?
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I've been thru the same situation, good luck bud, be happy and have fun, and thank god you guys didn't have kids!
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She is Colombian
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lmao keep telling your self that ...
anyway ... can you not spear the 50.00 for hotel room? oh wait , Im sure you didnt tell the new gal you plan too eff over that your still married and share a home lol and thats why you dont wanna go to a hotel room/ she thinks your single ~ awsome
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I haven`t hidden anything, she sees my facebook and it's all thereanyway ... can you not spear the 50.00 for hotel room? oh wait , Im sure you didnt tell the new gal you plan too eff over that your still married and share a home lol and thats why you dont wanna go to a hotel room/ she thinks your single ~ awsome
I'd sign now personally but her parents immigration case could be affectedlmao keep telling your self that ...
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