Should mentally challenged couples be allowed to have and raise children?
I'm aware that this is going to be somewhat controversial, but like I said, should a couple that are mentally challenged, mentally retarded, whatever you want to call it, be allowed to have children and more importantly, raise children?
The reason I bring this is up, is that about 10 months ago i found out that my brother in laws brother and his girlfriend were pregnant. Now His brother (called Danny) isn't all there, to cut it short, he's retarded. Likewise, his girlfriend isn't the full ticket either. When I found out the news I quietly told myself "how the Hell are they going to raise a child". They can't look after themselves", and they actually cant and usually get outside help on the grounds of special needs.
Well 5 weeks ago, they had a little boy. Amazingly, there is nothing wrong with the baby, a perfectly healthy, normal boy. Five weeks on and there is problems. My sister has been round and apparantly they aren't washing the baby, my sister says the poor thing stinks or crap and pee. It seems to constantly be crying. However this girl will not let my sister or Danny's mother anywhere near the baby. It really saddens, and infuriates me at the same time. If they aren't washing him, are they even feeding him properly? Giving him attention? Often my sister says they ring up at all hours, asking "what to do". The whole thing is just a mess.
I've been trying to call my sister. I'm going to suggest she calls Social Services. I personally feel that Danny getting his girlfriend pregnant was just the most irresponsible thing they could do. I don't think it's fair to the child at all and again, it makes me really sad and angry at the same time. All I keep thinking is reading in the paper, one of those stories where you find out a kid has starved to death or something's happened to him out of pure neglect. I know it's not intentional, but it's pure irresponsibility.
Thoughts?