girlfriend hating

[jklipouse]

I was just wondering how you guys handle when you gf is constantly bitching about you spend to much time at the gym and so on! She tells me lol i dont know who you are anymore you dont care about nothing but working out ETC... mind you i use to smoke and party and get drunk all the time and she bitched about that now that i changed my life around she bitchs about the gym and me preparing food all the time...is it jealous or what

[gixxerboy1]

i dont have that issue. Wife is worse then i am.

You should be able to do things you enjoy. But you should have time for family and friends. If your not trying to compete there is no sense alienating everyone

[AXx]

I was just wondering how you guys handle when you gf is constantly bitching about you spend to much time at the gym and so on! She tells me lol i dont know who you are anymore you dont care about nothing but working out ETC... mind you i use to smoke and party and get drunk all the time and she bitched about that now that i changed my life around she bitches about the gym and me preparing food all the time...is it jealous or what

This sir is because she has a Vagin@

[jklipouse]

Lol wish she was worse thats the funny part...

[JWP806]

Lol wish she was worse thats the funny part...

Does she go to the gym at all?

[jklipouse]

Good point 3js

[JWP806]

If she doesnt go or doesnt have an interest in it, she might feel threatened by the fact that you are so dedicated to the gym and your appearance. Just a thought.

[Times Roman]

If your GF doesn't enhance your life, then change your GF. She's not your wife. You don't have kids together. This is an easy solution.

[jklipouse]

Does she go to the gym at all?

Use 2 but not really lol its funny than she'll be like u think iam fat dont you chicks crazy dude

[jklipouse]

[QUOTE="Times Roman"]If your GF doesn't enhance your life, then change your GF. She's not your wife. You don't have kids together. This is an easy solution.[/QUOTE

Its a little more difficult than that been wit her 4 years she has son turning 7 now so he was 2 when i meet her iam a father figure to him and i have a daughter that is attached to her and her son....but u never now...

[jklipouse]

If she doesnt go or doesnt have an interest in it, she might feel threatened by the fact that you are so dedicated to the gym and your appearance. Just a thought.

Good point and thats what i think it really boils down 2

[JWP806]

Yeah, my girl does the same kind of shit and she goes to the gym with me. Just bitches being bitches.

[gixxerboy1]

If she doesnt go or doesnt have an interest in it, she might feel threatened by the fact that you are so dedicated to the gym and your appearance. Just a thought.

that happens alot. I had a girlfriend for 4 years. She licked juiceheads. Never had an issue with me going to the gym. she would go but steadily. But she was always in shape and looked good not going. After we broke up she started dating some slob. I was shocked. She said when we were out people would always say we were a cute coupe or looked good together. Now they say what are you doing with him your to hot for him. All ego

[gearbox]

If your GF doesn't enhance your life, then change your GF. She's not your wife. You don't have kids together. This is an easy solution.

Agreed mine fully supports gym diet

[Times Roman]

[QUOTE=jklipouse;6128652]

If your GF doesn't enhance your life, then change your GF. She's not your wife. You don't have kids together. This is an easy solution.[/QUOTE

Its a little more difficult than that been wit her 4 years she has son turning 7 now so he was 2 when i meet her iam a father figure to him and i have a daughter that is attached to her and her son....but u never now...

The only thing difficult is your attachment to HER kids.

Some women just open their mouth and "bitching noises" comes out. You'd think that after you switched to a healthier lifestyle, she would have cut you some slack. But she hasn't, has she?

Here's the problem. You are not conforming to her expectations of what she wants out of a man. Her bitching is her attempt to try to get you to conform. The problem is she doesn't want you as you are, she wants you as something different. A healthy relationship is one where she is good with you the way you are. Your relationship, apparently, is not the healthiest.

You probably have some thinking to do.

You can either conform to her expectations
You can put up with the "bitching noises"
You can find another girlfriend.

Please do not try to change her, as she will resent it, the way you resent her bitching at you.

[jklipouse]

Dam i like that...

[red_hulk]

Some women just aren't happy unless they're bitching about something!!

[jklipouse]

Agreed mine fully supports gym diet

Any kids?

[gixxerboy1]

[QUOTE=Times Roman;6128671]

The only thing difficult is your attachment to HER kids.

Some women just open their mouth and "bitching noises" comes out. You'd think that after you switched to a healthier lifestyle, she would have cut you some slack. But she hasn't, has she?

Here's the problem. You are not conforming to her expectations of what she wants out of a man. Her bitching is her attempt to try to get you to conform. The problem is she doesn't want you as you are, she wants you as something different. A healthy relationship is one where she is good with you the way you are. Your relationship, apparently, is not the healthiest.

You probably have some thinking to do.

You can either conform to her expectations
You can put up with the "bitching noises"
You can find another girlfriend.

Please do not try to change her, as she will resent it, the way you resent her bitching at you.

i do agree TR, but it could possible to that she has a legit reason. He is slacking on responsibilities to make food or goto the gym then she is justified

[jklipouse]

Slacking on responsibles no i cook every meal for every 1 clean house and dishes cutting grass etc what do you mean by that?

[Times Roman]

Slacking on responsibles no i cook every meal for every 1 clean house and dishes cutting grass etc what do you mean by that?

just going through the list of possibilities mate.

obviously nobody here really knows you.

[jklipouse]

just going through the list of possibilities mate.

obviously nobody here really knows you.

Yea i just wonted to see how many people are in the boat as me

[Times Roman]

Yea i just wonted to see how many people are in the boat as me

I think it's a fairly safe bet to say that we all have been in a similar boat at one point or another.

I had this GF once, almost married her. within one week of the wedding, and called it off.

she was smoking hot. knew her since she was a young girl. family friend. I went in the army, she was a young teenager. I came out of the army, and she tracked me down in my garage when i was polishing the chrome on my harley. she was wearing a leopard skin jumpsuit, and she said she wanted to go for a ride. it was drizzling. so i put my exhaust pipes back on, suited up and off we went. she wanted us to do some drinking, and so i got what she wanted.... black berry brandy. after awhile, she was getting sick, and it was still drizzling, so she was wet. i broke into this car on the side of a gas station, and we slept it off til the rain subsided.

that was our first date.

the long and the short of it is that she was quite the handful, and i didn't need the headache. so i dumped her. a week before the wedding. smartest fukkin thing i ever did in my life.

there is a moral to the story in here somewhere....

[AdrenalineJunkie]

Yea my girl is worse and more strict than I am.

Its almost like a competition for her. I have nothing to worry about. Sometimes I think she needs to chill out even ha

[Lunk1]

This sir is because she has a Vagin@

This made me laugh the whole time I read the rest of the posts. You my friend have a healthy relashionship!

[QUOTE=gixxerboy1;6128706]

i do agree TR, but it could possible to that she has a legit reason. He is slacking on responsibilities to make food or goto the gym then she is justified

agreed^^^^^

Slacking on responsibles no i cook every meal for every 1 clean house and dishes cutting grass etc what do you mean by that?

There are many more responsabilities in a marraige than chores around the house young Jedi. Women (and men) have emotional needs that must be met and in order to be in a healthy relationship it is each of our duties to fulfill those needs to the best of our abilities, as long as they do not cause a failure of our own needs to me met.

I am sure she appreciates having a man who looks good but what good does that do her if she can't be taken out and treated like a queen by her Greek God. If you have 2 young kids between the two of you the emotianal needs may not be being met because of all the time spent working, kids, household duties, gym time, diet and so on. Just a thought.

[Lunk1]

I think it's a fairly safe bet to say that we all have been in a similar boat at one point or another.

I had this GF once, almost married her. within one week of the wedding, and called it off.

she was smoking hot. knew her since she was a young girl. family friend. I went in the army, she was a young teenager. I came out of the army, and she tracked me down in my garage when i was polishing the chrome on my harley. she was wearing a leopard skin jumpsuit, and she said she wanted to go for a ride. it was drizzling. so i put my exhaust pipes back on, suited up and off we went. she wanted us to do some drinking, and so i got what she wanted.... black berry brandy. after awhile, she was getting sick, and it was still drizzling, so she was wet. i broke into this car on the side of a gas station, and we slept it off til the rain subsided.

that was our first date.

the long and the short of it is that she was quite the handful, and i didn't need the headache. so i dumped her. a week before the wedding. smartest fukkin thing i ever did in my life.

there is a moral to the story in here somewhere....

MORAL...never date a women in a leopard skin jumpsuit lmao.

[gearbox]

[QUOTE="jklipouse"]

Any kids?[/QUOTE

No sir.

[gearbox]

Ones that bitch are not happy with their life. That is not your fault. Doesn't matter what you do, you can't make.someone happy who is not happy with themselves.

[gixxerboy1]

also if she is home watching the kids while you are gone at the gym for 4-5 hours each week she maybe pissed. She may want some free time for herself like you are getting.

[Times Roman]

MORAL...never date a women in a leopard skin jumpsuit lmao.

ha ha ha!

I thought maybe the moral is...

...never polish your harley yourself if there is a woman handy that wants a ride?

[Lunk1]

also if she is home watching the kids while you are gone at the gym for 4-5 hours each week she maybe pissed. She may want some free time for herself like you are getting.

Another man who understands women...or as well as any man can anyhow!

[Lunk1]

ha ha ha!

I thought maybe the moral is...

...never polish your harley yourself if there is a woman handy that wants a ride?

My guess is TR that a number of morals could be learned from your situation

[austinite]

She is not your girlfriend. A thorn, rather. Remove it.

[red_hulk]

I hate my girlfriend sometimes.

[greenwell001]

This sir is because she has a Vagin@

I really just lol, Amen .

[gearbox]

Sorry never hated one of mine. If they do something you don't like, see ya!!!

[Shol'va]

You could always date another male bodybuilder. That way you would have more in common with him than her. And he would help you with preparing healthy meals. And you both could spend time at the gym and there would be no resentment. Problem solved. Well till bed time....That might prove a slight problem...

[gearbox]

You could always date another male bodybuilder. That way you would have more in common with him than her. And he would help you with preparing healthy meals. And you both could spend time at the gym and there would be no resentment. Problem solved. Well till bed time....That might prove a slight problem...

Lift hard enough so you pass out!!

[Times Roman]

You could always date another male bodybuilder. That way you would have more in common with him than her. And he would help you with preparing healthy meals. And you both could spend time at the gym and there would be no resentment. Problem solved. Well till bed time....That might prove a slight problem...

Almost souunds like "someone" is volunteering?

[Shol'va]

Almost souunds like "someone" is volunteering?