What do women look for the most?

[Gaspari1255]

I know most try to balance all three of these out, but if you guys/gals had to choose just one, which do you think is MOST important to MOST women?

*Remember this is our thoughts on what a WOMAN values the most, not what we look for.

[Gaspari1255]

From a New Jerseyians point of view, I'm going to have to with $. Often times I see an attractive woman with a guy who's highly overweight and cannot hold a conversation besides, "yo wass up", but he drives a Benz or BMW, so he's good in her book.

[gixxerboy1]

i think one of the big things with my wife was i was always there when she needed help with something. I could solve issues she was having. She had problems with landlord or health insurance. Just things she didnt know how to handle or couldnt get resolved. I was always able to come up with a solution.

Trust me my wife likes money. she has very expensive taste. I'm not poor but im not rich either. She could be with someone with alot more money if she wanted to be. I do spoil her but not the same of some her friends get with the sugar daddies they are with.

[Atomini]

You can't blanket label ALL women on looking for one particular thing the most. I've met women who were very superficial and went for looks, i've met gold diggers, self-absorbed types, i've met VERY selfless types (had dates with one that insisted on paying for everything), and i've met ones that don't even know what they're looking for.

It all depends on how they were raised, the environment they grew up in, how their parents treated them, and genetics do play a role as well. This is why I look at everyone as an individual. I don't peg whole groups of people, whether it's women or anyone else, as being a particular way. I think if people looked at and treated others as individuals more, we'd have far less issues, and interpersonal relationships would be much healthier between people.

So, I refuse to vote based on my ideas on this subject.

[Gaspari1255]

You can't blanket label ALL women on looking for one particular thing the most. I've met women who were very superficial and went for looks, i've met gold diggers, self-absorbed types, i've met VERY selfless types (had dates with one that insisted on paying for everything), and i've met ones that don't even know what they're looking for.

It all depends on how they were raised, the environment they grew up in, how their parents treated them, and genetics do play a role as well. This is why I look at everyone as an individual. I don't peg whole groups of people, whether it's women or anyone else, as being a particular way. I think if people looked at and treated others as individuals more, we'd have far less issues, and interpersonal relationships would be much healthier between people.

So, I refuse to vote based on my ideas on this subject.

I don't like judging groups of people as a whole most of the time, but hewas are usually all the same.

[RaginCajun]

my roommate is loaded to the gills and she still wants a guy with money! just sayin


not all women fit into this category, and those are the ones that are to find!

[AXx]

I voted for personality, because here where we live in the sticks, there are alot of smoking hot girls with some ugly ass dudes. Now, behind the curtain the ugly dude may have stock piles of money, BUT in a small town everyones wealth is known. Some of these douchers are toting some HOTTIES. Unless of course they go for option number D which would be a big UNIT. That I cannot attest too.

[AXx]

my roommate is loaded to the gills and she still wants a guy with money! just sayin


not all women fit into this category, and those are the ones that are to find!

Wait you have a female roomate?

[gixxerboy1]

Every girl is different. I was engaged to a girl that could care less about money. i bought her a nice watch for a birthday once and she made me return it. Her engagement ring i bought she went and exchanged for something smaller and cheaper.
She could care less about flashy stuff or expensive anything. If we went on vacation she would look for the cheap hotel.

[AXx]

My wife had rather spend time with me in my recliner than on a resort or me buying her fancy things. Grant it she likes expensive things, but its not a nessesity

[JAB1]

YEah hard to vote on that, Ive known so many girls who go for different things. Should have had big hog on the list. I agree with Atomini post the most.

[gearbox]

I will say money is important. You obviously need enough to put food on the table.

I still think good woman go for a mans sense of humor. I have heard that a million times.

P.s. yes there are greedy sluts out there cause many on here go to bars and strip joints to meet woman

[AD]

I would say looks.

[JimmySidewalk]

It really depends what you mean. Of course women look for the best life they could get(money) but that doesnt mean that she wont do the gardner(looks) as soon as husband is out the door. Of course maybe once in a while she'll also do her best friend who isnt the best looking or richest, but takes her through a full rollercoaster variety of emotions that she needs(personality).

[Atomini]

I will say money is important. You obviously need enough to put food on the table.

I still think good woman go for a mans sense of humor. I have heard that a million times.

P.s. yes there are greedy sluts out there cause many on here go to bars and strip joints to meet woman

Yes, this is a biiig thing. I would say that if there was one commonality among nearly all women in terms of what they look for in a guy - its a sense of humor. 95% will tell you that.

If you meet a girl and you're extremely uptight, can't take a joke, can't really detect sarcasm or sarcastic humor very well, she isn't going to be apt to sticking around you too long.

[MickeyKnox]

Every girl is different. I was engaged to a girl that could care less about money. i bought her a nice watch for a birthday once and she made me return it. Her engagement ring i bought she went and exchanged for something smaller and cheaper.
She could care less about flashy stuff or expensive anything. If we went on vacation she would look for the cheap hotel.

..and then she returned you. Gixx, the writing was on the wall bro. can't believe you didn't see that coming? lol


- i voted looks. seems that what most girls want. BUT if you have paper, that's different ball game

[capetown]

Woman change as they get older like anyone else so it all depends what age we are talking here. My wife was all about the bling when we first met. Done to the 9's all the time. Had everything she wanted. Probably started hanging with me because i had a nice car, couple of bikes, and spent alot of cash on nothing. Well the cars and bikes are gone, seems like she spends more time buying stuff for the kids than herself, can leave the house without spending 3 hrs getting ready. She always looks back and says she cant believe how good her life turned out. Great soccer
Mom!!! Although her Suv is still worth more than my sport car ever was. Im lucky to have a good woman to be honest with ya because im really not all that deserving. Lol

[gixxerboy1]

..and then she returned you. Gixx, the writing was on the wall bro. can't believe you didn't see that coming? lol


- i voted looks. seems that what most girls want. BUT if you have paper, that's different ball game

lol, i didnt mean she went and changed it behind my back, her first reaction after saying yes was about how big it was. She asked if we could look for something smaller

[RaginCajun]

Wait you have a female roomate?

yup, sure do.

her dad is very successful

like the peasant living with the princess, but not hanky panky!

[JD250]

Women want big dicks, that's why most of you guys are assholes........I got bad news......that's not the kind of "big dick" she was talking about, sorry fellas most of you are SOL......just send em my way.

[RaginCajun]

Women want big dicks, that's why most of you guys are assholes........I got bad news......that's not the kind of "big dick" she was talking about, sorry fellas most of you are SOL......just send em my way.

hahahahaha!

[MightyBeast]

I think looks are the first attraction and then they fall for your personality. Unless she is a gold digger.

[gearbox]

Women want big dicks, that's why most of you guys are assholes........I got bad news......that's not the kind of "big dick" she was talking about, sorry fellas most of you are SOL......just send em my way.

Not even true at all. Both type of dicks

[evander87]

Funny you mention this. Yesterday morning the Today show did a little report on what women look for more and the result was looks over money. It was cited that since more women are in the workforce and making their own money that a guy thats a bread winner is not as attractive as a good looking guy.

[Honkey_Kong]

Chicks really don't give a shit about personality. And yeah looks matter for a one-night-stand. Money is important, but really it's just a symptom of the real thing women are after. They're after the guy with the highest perceived social value. Money can be indicative of that, but it's not the only indicator. Other factors are confidence and the type of personality you have. Chicks want the alpha male.

You know why the fat guy who can't carry a convo gets that hot chick? Because he puts her in her place and acts like he owns that pu$sy. And really he sort of does own it.

[gearbox]

Chicks really don't give a shit about personality. And yeah looks matter for a one-night-stand. Money is important, but really it's just a symptom of the real thing women are after. They're after the guy with the highest perceived social value. Money can be indicative of that, but it's not the only indicator. Other factors are confidence and the type of personality you have. Chicks want the alpha male.

You know why the fat guy who can't carry a convo gets that hot chick? Because he puts her in her place and acts like he owns that pu$sy. And really he sort of does own it.

Woman want a man with balance. 1 that they feel safe witha if walking in a dark alley. But they want 1 that is sensitive enough and not a jackass. I'm talking about women and long lasting relationships like a few members on here. Tr hartman johnny v to name a few.
I actually think we should ask those 3 guys. Because alternately they're the ones in a long lasting relationshipbut and not some stupid 1 night stand

[RaginCajun]

Woman want a man with balance. 1 that they feel safe witha if walking in a dark alley. But they want 1 that is sensitive enough and not a jackass. I'm talking about women and long lasting relationships like a few members on here. Tr hartman johnny v to name a few.
I actually think we should ask those 3 guys. Because alternately they're the ones in a long lasting relationshipbut and not some stupid 1 night stand

tis true, but their women grew up in a different world. there was no internet, and with TR, there wasn't even electricity or even a wooden wheel!

[AXx]

lol, i didnt mean she went and changed it behind my back, her first reaction after saying yes was about how big it was. She asked if we could look for something smaller

Are we still talking about engagement ring?

[Times Roman]

women will tell you, if they are being absolutely honest with you...

...that they are looking for characteristics that most closely resemble mine! =)

[RaginCajun]

women will tell you, if they are being absolutely honest with you...

...that they are looking for characteristics that most closely resemble mine! =)

old and moldy?

crusty and wrinkly?

am i missing any?

[gixxerboy1]

old and moldy?

crusty and wrinkly?

am i missing any?

some teeth and hair

[DanB]

Confidence smile and patter

Then they find out about money and love you even more

But you already have them by this stage

[Honkey_Kong]

old and moldy?

crusty and wrinkly?

am i missing any?

That musky scent of used Depends.

[stocky121]

must be something else because i have none of the above and i still do ok

[MuscleInk]

I agree with Capetown, it varies with age. I think both men and women want an attractive partner but men are more influenced by looks than women. In my experience, younger women look at a man's finances in hopes that he can provide the material things younger women feel they need. I also agree that a sense of humor is important. Few women like arrogant guys.

One thing that I think doesn't vary with age is that all women want to feel IMPORTANT, or perhaps, that they are THE most important person in your life. They want to be the center of your world, the center of your attention. It's not enough to hear a guy say "I love you" or "you are important to me", they want to see and feel it; and the more insecure they are, the more often they need to hear it. Successful, confident women are more independent but still want to feel like they are the most important person to their man.

[Times Roman]

old and moldy?

crusty and wrinkly?

am i missing any?

some teeth and hair

That musky scent of used Depends.

there you guys go again, always focusing on the silly stuff....

....real women will look past these minor quirks and instead see the finer qualities that make this old bull such a chic magnet! =)

[GirlyGymRat]

That musky scent of used Depends.

oh yeah....i am running.........away from that! LOL

[Honkey_Kong]

oh yeah....i am running.........away from that! LOL

Don't worry I'll protect you. I smell like Old Spice and I'm at least 30 or 40 years away from being at the Depends age (at the minimum).

[GirlyGymRat]

from one gals perspective,,,,i am looking at a package so it's not just one dimensional. to a degree, looks plays a part. there are plenty of men about, but a certain look just catchs my eye but if that look happens to also be a butt hole and a potty mouth and spits or smokes...i don't care how much money he has or doesn't have. it aint gonna happen. i want someone who respects me and respects themselves and I don't want my man to be a pansy neither.

Gals r looking for different packages.....there are plenty of stars in the sky and that star is special, even if it wasn't the star for me.

and there is no need to flame on me cuz u might not be my special star

[RaginCajun]

from one gals perspective,,,,i am looking at a package so it's not just one dimensional. to a degree, looks plays a part. there are plenty of men about, but a certain look just catchs my eye but if that look happens to also be a butt hole and a potty mouth and spits or smokes...i don't care how much money he has or doesn't have. it aint gonna happen. i want someone who respects me and respects themselves and I don't want my man to be a pansy neither.

Gals r looking for different packages.....there are plenty of stars in the sky and that star is special, even if it wasn't the star for me.

and there is no need to flame on me cuz u might not be my special star

i have packages!