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    interesting facts on sex in a marriage!

    I just read this off msn and copy pasted it. No clue if it sounds or is accurate but I was shocked.
    Among married couples, 45 percent have sex a few times per month, according to research from Sex in America: A Definitive Survey. Thirty-four percent have sex 2-3 times per week, and 7 percent manage an impressive 4 or more times per week. The remaining 13 percent? Just a few times a year.

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    Ask the guy's in here when thier on cycle, I bet its enough to put a serious curve in the statistics lol

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    Higher then I would have guessed. My brother warned me that once you get married that shit slows down. I didn't believe him and it came true.

    So sad

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    i have been married over 13 years and even with 2 kids find time at least 2x a week.

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    So I guess I should be happy with 2-3 times a week which is my average?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sgt2jay View Post
    i have been married over 13 years and even with 2 kids find time at least 2x a week.
    Yeah I agree with this, we have 3 kids 15, 12, and 8 and still managed to do it 2x a week

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    Quote Originally Posted by gearbox
    I just read this off msn and copy pasted it. No clue if it sounds or is accurate but I was shocked.
    Among married couples, 45 percent have sex a few times per month, according to research from Sex in America: A Definitive Survey. Thirty-four percent have sex 2-3 times per week, and 7 percent manage an impressive 4 or more times per week. The remaining 13 percent? Just a few times a year.
    Are ya thinking twice about getting married now yeah hahaha

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    Twice a day. In the last 3 years we only missed time(34 days) cause i was hospitalized for 27 of those days. It also helps that she works from home.

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    I believe the lack of sex comes from living together and watching f*cking television. That box is the devil. We all watch our crap until we are tired and then go to bed. You have to really want sex to turn off the TV...opiate of the masses, indeed.

    My wife and I were only having sex a few times a year. I avoided it actually...then I started TRT and everything changed. Turns out she was having some hormone problems as well. Now we are both on the juice and are back in the "several times a week" group.

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    Amost 21 years of marriage and the current average is probably 4X a week.

    Anyone who has been married very long knows that there are peaks and valleys in a couples sex life, especially since you have to take womens hormones into consideration. Sometimes her labido matches mine and sometimes it doesn't. So the average can flow between 2X-6X depending on countless variables.

    I will add this...a partial hysterectomy (still has ovaries) and prescribed HRT + my cycles has made two 40 year olds more like two 18 year olds

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    I guess I'm an outlier at 1-2 per day.

    .....when I mentioned I do fasted cardio first thing in the morning, did you fools actually I think I meant I go to the gym to do it?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    I guess I'm an outlier at 1-2 per day.

    .....when I mentioned I do fasted cardio first thing in the morning, did you fools actually I think I meant I go to the gym to do it?????
    I could have sex more to if I brought home your paycheck lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    I could have sex more to if I brought home your paycheck lol
    Why do you think I had a $100 bill tattooed on my penis? The wife LOVES to blow money and I love her sucky sucky.

    Weekends are more fun.......hours of entertainment....although I'm sure I'm catabolic by morning!!!!

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    I'm single and get no action

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    Do we have to talk about this stuff during these times??

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    Quote Originally Posted by capetown View Post
    Do we have to talk about this stuff during these times??
    There is never a wrong time to talk about sex....or Asian women....or sex with Asian women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk

    There is never a wrong time to talk about sex....or Asian women....or sex with Asian women.
    Unless ur nuts are probably the size of these asian woman.

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    I don't ever date Asian women with nuts!!!!!
    You're confusing me with CapeBuffalo.

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    I'm married and since starting my trt I have sex at least once a day. 2 a days happen a couple times a week when the wife wants to join in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dpyle View Post
    I'm married and since starting my trt I have sex at least once a day. 2 a days happen a couple times a week when the wife wants to join in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SEOINAGE View Post
    sounds about right. If you want to have a great sex life, don't get married? Or practice polygamy and marry at least 5 women, so then you might be able to have sex every day.
    that's a weak way of looking at it mate. both partners are responsible for their sex lives, not just the woman. If you want excitement, then it's up to you to make it happen. Don't wait for it to happen, else you might be waiting for a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    that's a weak way of looking at it mate. both partners are responsible for their sex lives, not just the woman. If you want excitement, then it's up to you to make it happen. Don't wait for it to happen, else you might be waiting for a while.
    Yeah it's true, have had decent success the times I put more effort in to things, and I often say things that I only partially mean, cause in all honesty marriage isn't just about that and I wouldn't trade it for being where I was a few years ago, kids are amazing too. One thing I don't like about trying to improve things is if the other doesn't respond well, I don't really like to be pushy and don't enjoy it if they are just going through the motions. Never pushed girls into things when dating either.

    I agree with the tv issue, hate the tv, wish I could remove it from my house, and cell phones have gotten even worse with all the stupid crap on iphones, instead of hanging out with family and playing cards or doing something fun it turns in to all of them sitting around on cell phones. But being preoccupied with things till you are so tired no time for sex puts a damper on things. I bet people that supposedly have more boring lives that time turns into real fun time.

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    in every long term i've had it slows down, putting on the one green is only interesting for so long. men just aren't hard wired for monogamy, society created it that way and all the controversy surrounding it.

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    Number one complaint I hear from married guys at work are once they get married it all slowed down. So they look elsewhere, craigslist included. And there are a lot of married guys on there looking for both sides of the sex fence. They don't seem to care as long as it's a warm body. But back to the married ones at work. yeah it's sad how much they complain about lack of nookie. and a lot of them are my age and slightly younger. And their marriage is only like 2 or 3 years young. Yeah it's a shame I work with them. But some bridges aren't to be crossed especially at work....

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    Quote Originally Posted by dec11 View Post
    in every long term i've had it slows down, putting on the one green is only interesting for so long. men just aren't hard wired for monogamy, society created it that way and all the controversy surrounding it.
    I agree that we are not wired for monogamy. I worked hard to find someone (this time) that I really like spending craploads of time with and am still enjoying it...even after ten years. The sex got good again when both of us ended up with elevated Test levels.
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    Me and my wife go through stages - we always have sex regularly but go through times where it's fairly boring and other times where it's the best sex of my life and I can't believe that this is the same lady I've had sex with thousands of times. Funny how it seems to coincide with when I'm on cycle.

    If you're in the group that only has sex a few times a month or a few times a year then you need to gtfo. Life's too short to deal with shlt like that imo.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyVegas View Post
    I agree that we are not wired for monogamy. I worked hard to find someone (this time) that I really like spending craploads of time with and am still enjoying it...even after ten years. They sex got good again when both of us ended up with elevated Test levels.
    Amen...We spend loads of time together doing fun activities. The tv never gets in the way cause if we are both watching thn its most likely porn.

    So many men complain about their relationships current and past. Someday I wish each and everyone of you find "the one".

    Even when you are with "the one" there are ups and downs (sex included). I was married at 19. Now after nearly 21 years I wouldnt trade any of you! Even Ink I hope you all find that someday!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Amen...We spend loads of time together doing fun activities. The tv never gets in the way cause if we are both watching thn its most likely porn.

    So many men complain about their relationships current and past. Someday I wish each and everyone of you find "the one".

    Even when you are with "the one" there are ups and downs (sex included). I was married at 19. Now after nearly 21 years I wouldnt trade any of you! Even Ink I hope you all find that someday!!
    Great post man. And I have found the one I think. But 21 years will tell me if I am correct or not

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    Quote Originally Posted by gearbox View Post
    Great post man. And I have found the one I think. But 21 years will tell me if I am correct or not
    21 years won't tell you...you know because both of you work equally hard to please each other....because you want to, not because you have to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Amen...We spend loads of time together doing fun activities. The tv never gets in the way cause if we are both watching thn its most likely porn.

    So many men complain about their relationships current and past. Someday I wish each and everyone of you find "the one".

    Even when you are with "the one" there are ups and downs (sex included). I was married at 19. Now after nearly 21 years I wouldnt trade any of you! Even Ink I hope you all find that someday!!
    On my third marriage and it will be the last!

    I will say, out of all the women I've been with, this one is my absolute favorite and I have never met anyone who tries so had to please me in every imaginable way. She has a huge heart and makes me feel like no one else is more important to her. I do spoil the heck out of her but I'm a stubborn short tempered ass and despite this she treats me like a king. I am a lucky SOB and she is easily the hottest woman I've been with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    On my third marriage and it will be the last!

    I will say, out of all the women I've been with, this one is my absolute favorite and I have never met anyone who tries so had to please me in every imaginable way. She has a huge heart and makes me feel like no one else is more important to her. I do spoil the heck out of her but I'm a stubborn short tempered ass and despite this she treats me like a king. I am a lucky SOB and she is easily the hottest woman I've been with.
    Glad for ya man.... now let's see some more pics of her in that white T-shirt...oh yaeh I got a gooood memory lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Glad for ya man.... now let's see some more pics of her in that white T-shirt...oh yaeh I got a gooood memory lol
    I'd post the lingerie pics if I didn't think she'd kill me in my sleep! Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    I'd post the lingerie pics if I didn't think she'd kill me in my sleep! Lol
    Post away...nobody really cares what she does to you or your little guys with a blender.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Post away...nobody really cares what she does to you or your little guys with a blender.
    Nobody but me......call me crazy, I'm kind of attached to them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    Nobody but me......call me crazy, I'm kind of attached to them!
    I got a half hour to think of a good poll to post before I go to bed....hhhhhmmmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    There is never a wrong time to talk about sex....or Asian women....or sex with Asian women.

    Sex yes... Asian women no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    On my third marriage and it will be the last!

    I will say, out of all the women I've been with, this one is my absolute favorite and I have never met anyone who tries so had to please me in every imaginable way. She has a huge heart and makes me feel like no one else is more important to her. I do spoil the heck out of her but I'm a stubborn short tempered ass and despite this she treats me like a king. I am a lucky SOB and she is easily the hottest woman I've been with.

    Hey I was going to say that. But my italian bird is hotter. I'm really not sure as to how many times a day we have sex but it's a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misery13 View Post
    Hey I was going to say that. But my italian bird is hotter. I'm really not sure as to how many times a day we have sex but it's a lot.
    Now you know what caused her to have to go to the hospital a while back. Take it easy on the poor girl lol

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