Finally married :)

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-28-2012, 11:16 PM

Just thought I'd let all you all who told me not to get married that I did it anyways :P
We got married August 18th. Bought a new house and I got another job on top of being a personal trainer. Now that things in life are settling nicely I'm excited to be a more consistant member here. I know I used to have a tendency to pop in and out ( <--- probably shouldn't have said that lol)
Nice to see some old friends and some newer people I have met.

**red_hulk** · 09-29-2012, 12:12 AM

Congrats man!! Good luck

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 12:16 AM

Originally Posted by red_hulk

Congrats man!! Good luck

Much appreciated buddy. And nice to meet ya lol

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 12:20 AM

Awesome. I am tieing the knot is two weeks

**JohnnyVegas** · 09-29-2012, 12:26 AM

Big congrats (and to you too, gearbox). I am a big fan of marriage, so good luck. Just celebrated my ninth anniversary.

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 01:00 AM

Congrats to u both!!!!!!!!!
Just beware gear, ur honeymoon will break u...

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 01:32 AM

Johnny- ya I remember you always talking about the great woman you married. I feel so blessed to have found this one. She is so thoughtful it amazes me. Not just with me but younger siblings also. I am a lucky man

Buttery- what do u mean it will break me?

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 01:33 AM

I apologize also I dont mean to hijack your thread bro.

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 02:46 AM

Originally Posted by gearbox

Johnny- ya I remember you always talking about the great woman you married. I feel so blessed to have found this one. She is so thoughtful it amazes me. Not just with me but younger siblings also. I am a lucky man

Buttery- what do u mean it will break me?

Money wise lol. I had it budgeted out. That went to shit.

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by gearbox

I apologize also I dont mean to hijack your thread bro.

Haha ur fine

**Capebuffalo** · 09-29-2012, 05:04 AM

Congrats to buttery and run gear ox it's not too late.
Just kidding. Congrats on upcoming matrimonials

**Shsm** · 09-29-2012, 05:07 AM

Congratulations on the marriage man. I can't wait until I find the perfect girl...

**austinite** · 09-29-2012, 05:45 AM

Congrats!

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 05:59 AM

Thanks you all!!

Shsm- u will bro, mine came along when I least expected lol.

**JohnnyVegas** · 09-29-2012, 07:15 AM

Originally Posted by BUTTERYGOODNESS

Thanks you all!!

Shsm- u will bro, mine came along when I least expected lol.

Mine too. Sometimes we get lucky and meet someone great that is also interested in us (it sucks when we meet one that ISN'T interested). It seams like long odds...I felt like I hit the lottery and still feel exactly the same way after being together ten years.

Hopefully you have the same experience.

**Scabtree** · 09-29-2012, 08:22 AM

Just got married eh? I'm really sorry to hear that.

I wish I could say it was going to get better, but then I'd be lying. Hang in there!

**Hoggage_54** · 09-29-2012, 08:41 AM

Congrats bud. Got any pictures of the wife?

**Times Roman** · 09-29-2012, 08:47 AM

Good to hear kiddo
new you had it in you. don't listen to these other numbnutts around here, there is much to be said for marriage.

**Vettester** · 09-29-2012, 10:06 AM

Congrats!!! I'm sure naming your first born "Admin" will get you some bonus points here ...

**Lunk1** · 09-29-2012, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by BUTTERYGOODNESS

Just thought I'd let all you all who told me not to get married that I did it anyways :P
We got married August 18th. Bought a new house and I got another job on top of being a personal trainer. Now that things in life are settling nicely I'm excited to be a more consistant member here. I know I used to have a tendency to pop in and out ( <--- probably shouldn't have said that lol)
Nice to see some old friends and some newer people I have met.

Congrats man. I will celebrate my 21st Anniv. this fall after marrying pretty much right out of high school. Marriage is a union of two ppl who are willing to forgive. Never forget that and yiu will be fine. Anyone who has been married for any real lenght of time will agree that it has peaks and valleys. Enjoy the peaks and work even hader through the valleys.

Always remember why you married in the first place....sex, I mean love

Big Congratz man. I wouldnt trade being married for anything!

**Lunk1** · 09-29-2012, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by gearbox

Awesome. I am tieing the knot is two weeks

Congrats to you as well GB..I know from the way you have spoke of her in previous threads that you have the right one! Well done!!

**MickeyKnox** · 09-29-2012, 11:05 AM

congratulations BG!

**warmouth** · 09-29-2012, 12:01 PM

Congrats! It is an awesome feeling to know you got a good woman to come home too after a long, sucky day. At least thats what Ive been told. I hate coming home to mine! LOL, totally kidding. Good luck!

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 12:41 PM

Definitely right about the bank account buttery.
Ring
Honeymoon
Wedding
Stuff adds up to a lot...

Thanks everyone for wishes and scap hope you find someone to change your view on marriage or relationships

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 12:49 PM

Marriage is what you make of it. Two ppl who hopefully chose to serve each other.
I come from a hm where my parents are married for 32 years and counting... they spend a lot of time together still.
I just think you have to fine the right person. If your selfish then marriage is probably not for you.

Congrats again buttery, hope good times ahead.

**gixxerboy1** · 09-29-2012, 12:56 PM

Congrats to Mr and Mrs Butters

**Shol'va** · 09-29-2012, 01:15 PM

Fast Froward One Year..Dear fellow members of AR. Boy were you ever right in warning me not to get married. I sure wish I had taken your advice but no I let little buttery speak for me. Now I'm broke. She has the house and the car I got the bills. Life sucks.. The End...

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-29-2012, 01:49 PM

Thanks again to everyone, I really appreciate u all and ur kind words. It's great I be able to come here and have a great community like this be so supportive. Again thank u all

And as for those of u who say otherwise... :ass kiss:e lol

**gearbox** · 09-29-2012, 02:21 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Fast Froward One Year..Dear fellow members of AR. Boy were you ever right in warning me not to get married. I sure wish I had taken your advice but no I let little buttery speak for me. Now I'm broke. She has the house and the car I got the bills. Life sucks.. The End...

Lol some end this way, but some do not!

Didn't take you for a pessimist?

**lstbred** · 09-29-2012, 08:23 PM

Congrats! both of you! coming up on 19yrs myself.

**Gaspari1255** · 09-29-2012, 08:41 PM

Sorry to hear such terrible news.

**stpete** · 09-29-2012, 08:49 PM

Congrats!

**lovbyts** · 09-29-2012, 11:30 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

Fast Froward One Year..Dear fellow members of AR. Boy were you ever right in warning me not to get married. I sure wish I had taken your advice but no I let little buttery speak for me. Now I'm broke. She has the house and the car I got the bills. Life sucks.. The End...

Glad to see someone said it before me. Nice job Shol'va.

Not sure whether to say Congrats or give my Condolences?
Even with reading all the post here you did it anyways. Hmmm I guess you didnt do as much research on marriage as you did on aas. hahahaha
OK best of luck to you and I hope you beat the odds.

**BengalWoman** · 09-29-2012, 11:39 PM

Congratulations to both of you. Remember to enjoy the little things.

**Lunk1** · 09-29-2012, 11:51 PM

It makes me sad that there seem to be so many men in here who have had there hearts broken so badly that they seem to have scars that will never heal lol

**gearbox** · 09-30-2012, 12:08 AM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

It makes me sad that there seem to be so many men in here who have had there hearts broken so badly that they seem to have scars that will never heal lol

Very true...

**gearbox** · 09-30-2012, 12:09 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Glad to see someone said it before me. Nice job Shol'va.

Not sure whether to say Congrats or give my Condolences?
Even with reading all the post here you did it anyways. Hmmm I guess you didnt do as much research on marriage as you did on aas. hahahaha
OK best of luck to you and I hope you beat the odds.

Some ppl can beat the odds. Not that I am against dating girls 30 years younger then me like yourself

**GirlyGymRat** · 09-30-2012, 06:34 AM

Congrats on this new chapter of your lives!

**BUTTERYGOODNESS** · 09-30-2012, 06:49 AM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

It makes me sad that there seem to be so many men in here who have had there hearts broken so badly that they seem to have scars that will never heal lol

Lmao that's what is seems

**lovbyts** · 09-30-2012, 08:30 AM

Originally Posted by BUTTERYGOODNESS

Lmao that's what is seems

Sounds like a typical newlywed. Give it time.

Reminds me of a couple saying and examples.

When do you do the most work on your house and it looks it's best. When you buy it and when you sell it.

Why is a divorce so expensive. Because it's worth it.

Getting married for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts

The best way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once

I have learned that only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. First, let her think she's having her own way. And second, let her have it

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met

Getting married is a lot like getting into a tub of hot water. After you get used to it, it ain't so hot

A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished

Classics.