What's your minimum weight spread?

[GirlyGymRat]

Lets just say i have a "50 spread" rule. 50 is the respectable pounds of the minimum difference between me and a guy that I might find attractive.
I know it may seem vain and superficial, but i don't EVER want a man to ask me to borrow my jeans. EVER!!!

What's your mimimum weight spread between you and OP?

Special note to Shol'va: I wouldn't mind hearing your thoughts! Being respectful in the Lounge!

[Times Roman]

I'm a fairly lean 240 right now. Since I like my women to be below 150, that would make it a 90 pound spread right at the moment.

[MickeyKnox]

I'm a fairly lean 240 right now. Since I like my women to be below 150, that would make it a 90 pound spread right at the moment.

this for me too.

whats your current weight GirlyGymRat?

[Lunk1]

I don't know if a WEIGHT spread is important to me. Do I find the other person physicaly attractive? Thats the only measuring devise I would need!

[gixxerboy1]

Since my weight fluctuates i guess my spread would change. But i would say 65lbs.

[GirlyGymRat]

BTW...pregnancy is excluded from this rule!

I am 5/4 and 136 at the moment, although most most peeps put me at 120 cuz i have more muscle tone then most gals and thankfully do not have any cellulite (shoot out to Mom & Dad). I ain't perfection neither; got my body issues (places i like to improve) like most everyone else.....

[GirlyGymRat]

Since my weight fluctuates i guess my spread would change. But i would say 65lbs.

then i am not the one for you! LOL and i know you are happily married so j/k everyone

[MickeyKnox]

BTW...pregnancy is excluded from this rule!

I am 5/4 and 136 at the moment, although most most peeps put me at 120 cuz i have more muscle tone then most gals and thankfully do not have any cellulite (shoot out to Mom & Dad). I ain't perfection neither; got my body issues (places i like to improve) like most everyone else.....

ok just curious. you sound pretty solid

Since my weight fluctuates i guess my spread would change. But i would say 65lbs.

yeah but what about your height restriction? badaboom! sorry man, i know you've been in an accident and all.

[JohnnyVegas]

I weigh 100 pounds than my wife. We are a few pounds away from me literally weighing double. The joke is that I obviously get 2/3 of the food...but I only mention that rule if it is cookies or ice cream.

I wouldn't be able to come up with a spread because I have no idea what a taller woman would weigh. Maybe I don't have a spread. I would date a woman taller than me, and if she was a weight lifter I suppose she could be close to my weight.

But let's be honest, if single I would probably stick with the little women weighing at least 80 pounds less than me.

[red_hulk]

I usually go for girls around 110-130 range depending on their height

[Times Roman]

that's why i picked 150lbs. most women that are healthy and in shape weigh less than 150 unless very tall or very muscular

[MickeyKnox]

Johnny brought up an interesting point. i generally don't date women over 5'5". never been attracted to tall women, don't know why. for reference im 6'1"

[JohnnyVegas]

I can't find a way to edit in the phone app - I meant to say I weigh 100 pounds MORE than my wife." I am sure that was obvious, but I hate it when I do things like that.

[GirlyGymRat]

I don't know if a WEIGHT spread is important to me. Do I find the other person physicaly attractive? Thats the only measuring devise I would need!

well i must be much more superficial than you
but for example.....i could never be with the guy in Mickey's avi. Sorry...

[Times Roman]

I can't find a way to edit in the phone app - I meant to say weigh 100 pounds MORE than my wife." I am sure that was obvious, but I hate it when I do things like that.

you mean you like to have your women weigh 100 pounds more than your wife? =)

[GirlyGymRat]

I can't find a way to edit in the phone app - I meant to say I weigh 100 pounds MORE than my wife." I am sure that was obvious, but I hate it when I do things like that.

i do the same thing....my mind is faster than my fingers!

[warmouth]

I say 50 lbs is ok, but I really dont care too much. I just like a woman who isnt selfish and is willing to compromise(to an extent). Weight is not important, with the exception of women who dont care about their health and weight. If they are a bit "chunky", no biggy. If they are skinny, not interested. But since I am 180 at the moment, I could handle anything 150 or less, as long as the 150 isnt a 4'10" woman. -Roll Tide!

[MickeyKnox]

well i must be much more superficial than you
but for example.....i could never be with the guy in Mickey's avi. Sorry...

hey, i was just about to ask you out?? lol

[gixxerboy1]

yeah but what about your height restriction? badaboom! sorry man, i know you've been in an accident and all.

no height restriction. My wife is taller then me. And my ex had 3 inches on me

[MickeyKnox]

no height restriction. My wife is taller then me. And my ex had 3 inches on me

it's all about confidence. i know a few guys that are around 5'6 and they wouldn't dream about dating a girl taller. but they don't workout at all, and generally lack confidence.

[warmouth]

it's all about confidence. i know a few guys that are around 5'6 and they wouldn't dream about dating a girl taller. but they don't workout at all, and generally lack confidence.

I bet they would if it was gixxers girl they were dreaming about!

[MickeyKnox]

^^ you may have a point there ha!

[gearbox]

I never thought about a weight difference between us. Cause I like gixxer go up and down a lot.
I have never dated one that weights more then 125. I prefer very petite figures.
My fiancee is very thin. She is 5'8 118 I am 5'9 185 (I have been at 170 and 195lbs)

[gearbox]

Gymgirl I don't think your superficial at all. You know what u want. I do too.
If I girl can't fit in a 1(I love) or 3 (i can deal with) jeans size I wont date you.

[GirlyGymRat]

I say 50 lbs is ok, but I really dont care too much. I just like a woman who isnt selfish and is willing to compromise(to an extent). Weight is not important, with the exception of women who dont care about their health and weight. If they are a bit "chunky", no biggy. If they are skinny, not interested. But since I am 180 at the moment, I could handle anything 150 or less, as long as the 150 isnt a 4'10" woman. -Roll Tide!

hahahaha.

[DCI]

I don't have a women to spread weight with boooooo

[AZGOLDSMEMBER86]

never cared on weight cause i love thick thighs and big butts . but i have to have a attraction to her personality before all. and nice teeth.:-)

[Lunk1]

well i must be much more superficial than you
but for example.....i could never be with the guy in Mickey's avi. Sorry...

GGR..your not superficial your smart...for not dating mickey

We all have a preference of what we are attracted to physicaly but I dont know if it has to do with a number on a scale or a spread in weight between two ppl.

My wife and I have about a 100lbs difference. I am 240 she is around 140. I have a goal of 225 by March but I don't expect her to go to 125 to maintain the spread lol.
She is built square like a linebacker and 125 would probably not look as good on her. But thats cause I like to wrastle her. Yes I said wrastle not wrestle lol

[Shol'va]

Lets just say i have a "50 spread" rule. 50 is the respectable pounds of the minimum difference between me and a guy that I might find attractive.
I know it may seem vain and superficial, but i don't EVER want a man to ask me to borrow my jeans. EVER!!!

What's your mimimum weight spread between you and OP?

Special note to Shol'va: I wouldn't mind hearing your thoughts! Being respectful in the Lounge!

Actually fifty is a good rule of thumb. Because if he borrows your jeans what is next? You could end up with a cross dressing B/F...And fyi you definitely don't want to end up with hash marks in your expensive undies from him.

[Vettester]

I'm at 5'-11" @ 195lb, Bengal is 5'-4" @ 130'sh. That size works pretty good for me. I dated a girl who was 5'-10" though ... No complaints I guess, she was a blonde that was all legs. I guess I've always been cool as long as they're proportionate with they're height, and there's some hourglass stuff going on.

[gixxerboy1]

I'm at 5'-11" @ 195lb, Bengal is 5'-4" @ 130'sh. That size works pretty good for me. I dated a girl who was 5'-10" though ... No complaints I guess, she was a blonde that was all legs. I guess I've always been cool as long as they're proportionate with they're height, and there's some hourglass stuff going on.

i didnt realize Bengal was your wife.

[MickeyKnox]

GGR..your not superficial your smart...for not dating mickey:lol.........

haha wiseguy

I'm at 5'-11" @ 195lb, Bengal is 5'-4" @ 130'sh. That size works pretty good for me. I dated a girl who was 5'-10" though ... No complaints I guess, she was a blonde that was all legs. I guess I've always been cool as long as they're proportionate with they're height, and there's some hourglass stuff going on.

your g/f is a tiger??

[JohnnyVegas]

you mean you like to have your women weigh 100 pounds more than your wife? =)

I am going to go ahead and admit that I fight with the iPhone keyboard. I hate it. Worst keyboard ever. I don't have these problems on the computer.

[Times Roman]

I don't have a women to spread weight with boooooo

[Vettester]

i didnt realize Bengal was your wife.

Yeah. Her and I for 13 years now. TR is also my dad!!

JK ... TR and I pretty close in age.

haha wiseguy

your g/f is a tiger??

In a matter of speaking you could say that's true. We are actually married.

[Hoggage_54]

Where's Cal? I think his is 100+ heavier than him...

[Times Roman]

Yeah. Her and I for 13 years now. TR is also my dad!!

JK ... TR and I pretty close in age.



In a matter of speaking you could say that's true. We are actually married.

i"m so old I could be everyone's dad.

I get no respect around here....

[< <Samson> >]

Preference - I would say 70 pounds. But since I am getting bigger it would be a bigger spread. Just depends on height also. I am shooting for 225 or so, eventually < Then it would be almost 100.


As long I can curl the weight

[GirlyGymRat]

i am a bit relied, actually, based on majority of your responses....ya'll real men and have some reasonable expectations for gals.

[Atomini]

Doesn't matter. I go by what my eyes see. If it looks good, fine.

I'm not about to bust out scales and measuring tapes. Don't you think that's a little OCD?