Thread: Talking to the EX
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11-19-2012, 07:03 AM #41Senior Member
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You shouldn't tie yourself into a relationship at your age anyways my dude. These are the best years of our lives. Go out to the club, grind with some random girl, finger blast her, take her back to your place...have fun. Those hot girls with the Australian accents are killer...
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11-19-2012, 07:48 AM #42Banned
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Yep. I've only really had two proper relationships and both times I got dumped lol. And I swear I haven't done a thing wrong. The first one said I spent too much time in the gym, studying and wanting to hang out with my mates. I said if she couldn't like me for who I was and accept the things that I love doing then she should find someone else. Guess she took that literally and left and found someone else within a month.
I think I'm just gonna enjoy the single life for the time being. Just do what I want - go clubbing, festivals, study hard, gym hard and do everything I want to. Are you American? Do you find Australian girls hot lol? Some of them are, but I don't find them attractive for their accents haha.
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11-19-2012, 09:19 AM #43
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11-19-2012, 09:24 AM #44
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11-19-2012, 09:26 AM #45
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11-19-2012, 09:37 AM #46
Dude...I been married to the same women for over 20 yrs. She has NEVER given me 1 single reason to not trust her. I have had trust issues from the moment we got together, nothing to do with her, it's all me. I have gone through her phone, her emails, her FB. She never locks anything or hides anything and yet my mind playes horrible tricks on me from time to time. It has caused huge arguments and in the end for NO reason other than my own insecurity! It's important to realize this in order to deal with it and combat it.
Yes being on AAS (tren for sure) makes it worse. Keep things in perspective! If she has never given cause for you to question her...then don't! In the long run you will suffer for it the most!
Open communication is crusial and as well as a firm understanding of how strong the mind is! Find outlets to help take your mind off of the stupid shyt when it comes up. Remind yourself that it's you and NOT her and that your on cycle. This is keeping perspective!
That will be $200...please pay the receptionist on your way out. Thank you!
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11-19-2012, 09:43 AM #47Originally Posted by Lunk1
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11-19-2012, 10:01 AM #48
Even this should be "kept in perspective". he didn't say text from an ex or another guy. He simply said caught deleting text in the past! What does that mean? I delete texts all the time! If my wife is there when I delete a text from a coworker is that "being caught"? Does she NOT have the right to clear her inbox?
He also admitted he has been no saint! Seems like open communication is needed if this relationship is to be successful!Last edited by Lunk1; 11-19-2012 at 10:04 AM.
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11-19-2012, 10:20 AM #49Originally Posted by Lunk1
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11-19-2012, 10:23 AM #50
This hits home for me too and I personally hate it. When I break up with someone I part ways and leave that person in the past where they belong. I don't see the need to stay in contact with an ex, even if it's harmless it has ZERO positive impact on your current relationship so what's the point. I recently found out my girl still talks to her ex from time to time, and typically I might be like whatever and shrug it off, but she bold face lied to me that she hadn't been talking to him and that's what set me off. I understand her reasoning and I do trust this girl to do the right thing, but I hate the fact she lied about. I suppose it comes down to trust and the situation bro. I'm just as uneasy about it myself so I know where you're coming from.
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11-19-2012, 11:06 AM #51
You and me both. This is EXACTLY the way I handle my relationships now. I give my wife tons of attention and she knows I love her. I like to think I am doing a good job. If not, she needs to tell me. If what I do isn't enough and she finds someone else, then it just wasn't meant to be.
Having said that, I would discourage my wife from being friends with a long-term ex not because of her intentions, but because of his. I would never forbid my wife to do anything, that is not the relationship we have. Hopefully your girl lives up to your expectations. If not, she is not the girl for you.
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11-19-2012, 11:45 AM #52
DEAR ADMIN: Please change the title under JV's name to Dr. Phil Always the best relationship advice from this guy!
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11-19-2012, 06:57 PM #53Banned
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11-19-2012, 07:10 PM #54
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11-19-2012, 07:37 PM #55
When you find someone you are truly compatible with you will definitely know it. It still takes work, listening, patience, and love but she will be doing the same and she will be worth it
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11-19-2012, 09:53 PM #56
Thanks for all the advice. When I think about everything logically, I do trust her. I decided to just trust her 100% cause be snooping through her shit and wondering if she's cheating just leads to me getting angry and taking it out on her which will eventually drive her away. Thanks again, some wise old timers here.
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11-19-2012, 09:57 PM #57
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11-19-2012, 10:06 PM #58
Ha! You called Lunk "old."
But seriously, you should be all in on this one. If she does something wrong it should be like a sucker punch because you had total trust in her. I don't touch my wife's phone, purse or go in her closet. I don't even mess around on her side of the bathroom.
My wife and I have an agreement (that I hope we would both keep) to divorce before cheating. I would take it better if my wife said she didn't like me any more than to find out she didn't like me any more AND had been screwing someone else. Lesser of two evils, for sure.Last edited by JohnnyVegas; 11-19-2012 at 10:09 PM.
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