personal issue

[Sfla80]

Ok i will probably get flamed for this by some but hoping for some intellgient answers or adivse.

Ive been with my fiance for over 1.5yrs now. Rescently stopped using condoms. And now i relize im basically sad to say a one minute man. Meaning i cant last more then 5 mins i would say. Its sad i know. Many problems with this. I never had an issue with other women or anything but again i always used condoms. Only my ex wife is the first person i never used a condom with. and it wasnt that often.

I do please my fiance, through oral and all. I know shes not faking as its pretty obvous visually. I even made her "squirt" through oral. And she said "she never did before". So i guess im half way there. It sucks though i would like to fulfill her more. And without using condom im afraid of going right back at it ith the chances of pregency. She is on birth control and i clean up if i do but still. We both are not ready for that.

Been cheated on before and not sure if those are the reason but alws a thought. Im a different type of guy, i dont sleep around. I keep it clean. I also would rather please her before me any day. I ould care less if i get off or not.

Funny thing is theres only been one girl to ever get me off through oral. I can last forever through that. I am also above average in size...8+.I also am on AR_R V and Cia sometimes for that extra hardness thinking that might help my issue. But could this be why i am not lsting as long? We get each other so excied most of the time. Everytime i go down or touch, she is dripping.

Ive looked int kegel excersises and all and just dont understand the whole concept. I honestly feel like less of a man right now and wouldnt blame her for cheating.

At my witts end and hence why im embarassing myself riht now in front of 1000's of people i dont know and askign for advse.

Please flame all you want, but any adivse is greatfully appricated. Thank you

[Lunk1]

Ok i will probably get flamed for this by some but hoping for some intellgient answers or adivse.

Ive been with my fiance for over 1.5yrs now. Rescently stopped using condoms. And now i relize im basically sad to say a one minute man. Meaning i cant last more then 5 mins i would say. Its sad i know. Many problems with this. I never had an issue with other women or anything but again i always used condoms. Only my ex wife is the first person i never used a condom with. and it wasnt that often.

I do please my fiance, through oral and all. I know shes not faking as its pretty obvous visually. I even made her "squirt" through oral. And she said "she never did before". So i guess im half way there. It sucks though i would like to fulfill her more. And without using condom im afraid of going right back at it ith the chances of pregency. She is on birth control and i clean up if i do but still. We both are not ready for that.

Been cheated on before and not sure if those are the reason but alws a thought. Im a different type of guy, i dont sleep around. I keep it clean. I also would rather please her before me any day. I ould care less if i get off or not.

Funny thing is theres only been one girl to ever get me off through oral. I can last forever through that. I am also above average in size...8+.I also am on AR_R V and Cia sometimes for that extra hardness thinking that might help my issue. But could this be why i am not lsting as long? We get each other so excied most of the time. Everytime i go down or touch, she is dripping.

Ive looked int kegel excersises and all and just dont understand the whole concept. I honestly feel like less of a man right now and wouldnt blame her for cheating.

At my witts end and hence why im embarassing myself riht now in front of 1000's of people i dont know and askign for advse.

Please flame all you want, but any adivse is greatfully appricated. Thank you

I used to be less capable in my 20's but as I got into my mid 30's it has turned around and I have the ability I always wanted in my teens and 20's...sometimes too much so for her. I laugh and say I'm making up for all the times I was quick on the trigger. if she loves you she won't mind. I just told her she turned me on so much I could't help myself...do it a second or third time if needed!

[cherrydrpepper]

Its like anything else. First time you went into gym and did a bicep curl probably most rediculous looking thing ever. After trying mind muscle connection and focusing on form you probably could demonstrate it to an athlete now. When I got started lovemaking I practiced lasting longer as a mental exercise. In the beginning I would think of things that would turn me off. I believe Roseanne was one and Rosie O'Donnell at some point. Also if the sex was too hot I would look around the room at something that wasn't as hot. Various parts of the woman's body turn me on intensely - the base of the neck, the lips, arms/armpits, legs tits etc. I became really good at not cumming during normal sex. Today it is harder for me to cum during sex than not cum. Its not always a blessing as some of my sex partners find it annoying. Ideally at some point my desire would be to cum at the same time with my future wife or whoever. This is very possible. I have trained my sex partners to tell me when they are cumming. I hold off until that point. As far as helping your problem you didn't mention if you JO. I find that jacking off helps a lot for me to last longer. I have had a lot of pregnancy scares in my lifetime. I would not move to sex without birth control unless you are prepared to have a child in the event of an accident. I would love to know how old you are I am guessing early 20s.

[Sfla80]

Its like anything else. First time you went into gym and did a bicep curl probably most rediculous looking thing ever. After trying mind muscle connection and focusing on form you probably could demonstrate it to an athlete now. When I got started lovemaking I practiced lasting longer as a mental exercise. In the beginning I would think of things that would turn me off. I believe Roseanne was one and Rosie O'Donnell at some point. Also if the sex was too hot I would look around the room at something that wasn't as hot. Various parts of the woman's body turn me on intensely - the base of the neck, the lips, arms/armpits, legs tits etc. I became really good at not cumming during normal sex. Today it is harder for me to cum during sex than not cum. Its not always a blessing as some of my sex partners find it annoying. Ideally at some point my desire would be to cum at the same time with my future wife or whoever. This is very possible. I have trained my sex partners to tell me when they are cumming. I hold off until that point. As far as helping your problem you didn't mention if you JO. I find that jacking off helps a lot for me to last longer. I have had a lot of pregnancy scares in my lifetime. I would not move to sex without birth control unless you are prepared to have a child in the event of an accident. I would love to know how old you are I am guessing early 20s.

Sad to say not early 20s. I'm 32. I have my share of partners. So not like I've only been with two women or anything. With my ex wife I could last awhile but she was never wet or excited like my new fiancé. I was never one to sleep around just to get off either though. I do Jo but again it's a problem going second time also.

Maybe it's the truth when I say she turns me on much but still. Sometimes she doesn't want me to go down on her. And if I don't she will not get off. She says she loves the sex life we have. But again why would she tell me anything else. She knows now I'm insecure about it. So she would not be honest then.

It's depressing and now thinking about pct time sucks and not looking forward to it.

[wmaousley]

Want to last long?????? Go rub one out 20 minutes before sex then you should be able to put in some work my man. This was my approach in my teens and always worked.

[S&S_ShovelHead]

When you get close just stop and ask her not to move for like 10-20 seconds and you should be gtg for a while longer. Repeat as needed. Also move at a slower pace usually helps me.

[alexISthrowed]

After you finish are you done or can you keep going? Just clean up and keep it moving. I've always had the opposite problem, especially well running npp or tren . My current gf is the only one to ever make me cum on npp. Just throw some npp in and bam.

[Lunk1]

Let me tell you the facts! If she loves you...she won't care! I used to be so quick on the trigger I can't count the number of times I have apologized. 20+ years later she is still here. Women have a different outlook on sex than men do! We are all about the physical satisfaction...both given and recieved. Women are more emotionaly connected and what she cares about is that she has satisfied you and made you feel good and in turn she is satisfied!

So many questions in these threads and in Q&A about making loads bigger and lasting longer and performing better. The only ones who are REALLY that concerned with these things are US! If you make her happy in all aspects of her life...not tearing it up for hours will not be an issue to her. Concentrate on satisfying her emotionaly and stimulating her mentally...worry less about porn star sex!

[Bjwr]

Consider it as HIIT cardio, marathon cardio burns muscle ). Just tricken!

But in a serious note. Lunk was right about girls having a way different outlook, my girl just likes to see me "pleasured" and it return that's her pleasure. (Crazy I know! I'm like aye aye u given me some head!, u scratch my back I scratch urs!)
Sex is only a small part of the relationship, and I'm sure if she had a problem use would be at a sex therapist by now.
Just relax and enjoy what u have.

[lovbyts]

I use to worry about that as a kid/teen and would almost cause myself problems by thinking to much but when I really thought I might bust a nut to soon I would do a few things. One start thinking about something else. I use to visualize working on my car. Also STOP and just make out for a few minutes. Women/girls love that. Stop fvcking her and do some oral work for a while. There are all types of methods, just get a little creative.

Now days after 2 back surgeries I WISH I could finish quicker. I can easily go a couple of hours if I want to but luckily my women have always been very good about wanting to take care of me orally. Now a couple of them have never been with another before or at least orally. Yeah it's possible. Wife #2 was actually afraid to try with me at first and told me she had always been criticized about how bad she was at giving head mostly because she was to rough and would scrape with her teeth so she gave up trying with her ex's. For me this was perfect.

I use to always have to teach my girls it was OK/Good to use the teeth a little. Yeah I have come away more than ones with scrape marks. lol Honestly if they dont I can go a LONG time without finishing. My wife (current) is a trooper. She has worked on me well over 1hr and sweating trying to finish me but her technique has improved over the last couple of years.

[DSM4Life]

Trust me lasting too long is worse than being quick. Just use the stop and go method : Go until your about to pop then pullout and wait 30-40 seconds. You can do a little foreplay then get back to pumping away.

[--->>405<<---]

i havent read all the posts so if this is already said well read it again!

do my favorite routine:

1. get a blowjob
2. give her oral pleasure to climax (gives u a bit of re-coup time + the obvious)
3. have sex

personally id do this every time if my wife would let me!

[Lunk1]

i havent read all the posts so if this is already said well read it again!

do my favorite routine:

1. get a blowjob
2. give her oral pleasure to climax (gives u a bit of re-coup time + the obvious)
3. have sex

personally id do this every time if my wife would let me!

Maybe you should spend less time jackin it till it's raw

[--->>405<<---]

Maybe you should spend less time jackin it till it's raw

he comes back from the dead!

im gonna assume ur fast day didnt go very well!

and thx for that buddy! and actually i have spent less time doing that lately LOL..

[Zodiac82]

i havent read all the posts so if this is already said well read it again!

do my favorite routine:

1. get a blowjob
2. give her oral pleasure to climax (gives u a bit of re-coup time + the obvious)
3. have sex

personally id do this every time if my wife would let me!

lol thats my exact routine

[Zodiac82]

oh and goode80....Alexis Texas Buttwoman cover....NIIIIICEEE!!!!

[Bigshotvictoria]

lol thats my exact routine

Mine as well!!!

Women think differently than us. My wife WANTS me to cum fast. She loves knowing that she can get me so turned on that I can't control it, she TRIES for it. And like these guys have said, give her face, use fingers, spend AS MUCH TIME AS YOU CAN on foreplay. I make my wife cum before I ever slip it in. The idea of 'good sex" and our responsibilities with the penis has been warped by the film industry (adult and otherwise) magazines, etc... The only sex i've ever had where i didn't want to shoot my love yogurt right away was bad sex. Just remember, sex is so much more than your penis moving back and forth. Fantastic sex can last hours, and only have a few minutes of penis in vagina penetration. And you can always shoot it on her tits/face/back and munch her to oblivion while you reload!!!

[Bigshotvictoria]

We're starting to use this stuff now, AWESOME!!!

http://www.lovebumper.com

[Lunk1]

Mine as well!!!

Women think differently than us. My wife WANTS me to cum fast. She loves knowing that she can get me so turned on that I can't control it, she TRIES for it. And like these guys have said, give her face, use fingers, spend AS MUCH TIME AS YOU CAN on foreplay. I make my wife cum before I ever slip it in. The idea of 'good sex" and our responsibilities with the penis has been warped by the film industry (adult and otherwise) magazines, etc... The only sex i've ever had where i didn't want to shoot my love yogurt right away was bad sex. Just remember, sex is so much more than your penis moving back and forth. Fantastic sex can last hours, and only have a few minutes of penis in vagina penetration. And you can always shoot it on her tits/face/back and munch her to oblivion while you reload!!!

Jeesus...this was nearly pornographic BV lol. I got semi erect lol

[Bigshotvictoria]

Jeesus...this was nearly pornographic BV lol. I got semi erect lol

Gee Lunk....

[--->>405<<---]

Love Yogurt LOL...

[canesfan804]

I like the squeeze it off method. Wait till you are about to blow and grab it by the base and squeeze. Sometimes smack the head on her clit while doin this.Not too hard tho. The JO method works as well. I beat mine like it owes me $$$$!

[AdrenalineJunkie]

You know how you can practically like "flex" your package and it makes everything more sensitive? Its natural to want to do it cuz it feels better but will make u blow faster. Make a conscious effort to not do that, youll last longer.

[GirlyGymRat]

lol thats my exact routine

i didn't know there was a different routine....LOL

[Bigshotvictoria]

i didn't know there was a different routine....LOL

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

[alexISthrowed]

Trust me lasting too long is worse than being quick.Just use the stop and go method : Go until your about to pop then pullout and wait 30-40 seconds. You can do a little foreplay then get back to pumping away.

My gf must be lying to me lol

[frank13]

i didn't know there was a different routine....LOL

hahahah

[jj341]

A friend of mine had that issue and he put nupercain (sp) ointment on the tip of his dick before intercourse. It numbed the feeling and he was able to last longer.

[alexISthrowed]

A friend of mine had that issue and he put nupercain (sp) ointment on the tip of his dick before intercourse. It numbed the feeling and he was able to last longer.

Wouldn't that numb your girl too? I still just say clean that shit up and go for round 2.

[lovbyts]

A friend of mine had that issue and he put nupercain (sp) ointment on the tip of his dick before intercourse. It numbed the feeling and he was able to last longer.

I heard to use Tiger balm or bengay.

[Zodiac82]

I heard to use Tiger balm or bengay.

tiger balm....thats a biiiig no no....dont ask me how I kno lol

[Zodiac82]

i didn't know there was a different routine....LOL

the one where its all about the guy lol...
jk

[Flagg]

i havent read all the posts so if this is already said well read it again!

do my favorite routine:

1. get a blowjob
2. give her oral pleasure to climax (gives u a bit of re-coup time + the obvious)
3. have sex

personally id do this every time if my wife would let me!

Damn 405, you look like Goldberg in your avy!

[Rwy]

I wish I could cum fast. Sometimes I think i am going to break my girl in half bc of my need to go hard and fast

[Lunk1]

I wish I could cum fast. Sometimes I think i am going to break my girl in half bc of my need to go hard and fast

I know she doesnt really care for that at all lol

Hey buddy lol!!!

[--->>405<<---]

Damn 405, you look like Goldberg in your avy!

thanks.. (i think?)

[Tron3219]

Not flaming anyone for anything, but this thread is ridiculously funny. Not the subject itself, but all u goons! Class acts, but goons never the less, and yes that means u lunk! How ya doin bud? Get all that crap out of u?

-TroN

[Lunk1]

Not flaming anyone for anything, but this thread is ridiculously funny. Not the subject itself, but all u goons! Class acts, but goons never the less, and yes that means u lunk! How ya doin bud? Get all that crap out of u?

-TroN

For the most part...still seem sensative to meat based protein....

[Rwy]

I know she doesnt really care for that at all lol

Hey buddy lol!!!

funny guy

seriously though over use of banging board members gf's lol

[Shol'va]

My gf must be lying to me lol

Maybe you need a second opinion. I'm available..