I'm always asking CL ( wife) hey how am I looking now? s See any difference ? Am I getting bigger, (not my penis) . What about my back , etc... I ask her at least once a day. Silly and quite vain. She sees me everyday and how could she see progress every day. So how many times do you show and ask your wife or girl friend. I have made a goal now and she thinks I'm nuts and can't imagine.