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    Anyone ever get paranoid/scared about there girlfriend leaving u

    maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

    Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

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    or if she evers goes to a club with her mate, she rarely does anyway and makes out with someone there. FUUUUUUCK always makes me so angry thinking about that. EVen tho she wouldnt, and we have a big holiday/familys wedding booked end of this year so would stuff things up BADLY if we broke up lol

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    stress less..

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    My gf's husband should have been paranoid a long time ago lol. Too late for him now!

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    hahaha, yeh i know stress less lol, its not good to be insecure, i would hate that in someone myself. I dont show it lol BUt yeh

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    Yeah. Scared of the aftermath, the psychotic behavior to follow if you will.
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    Yeah. Scared of the aftermath, the psychotic behavior to follow if you will.
    True, that to me is the only downside of the relationship, I guess just like life, You know u can die at any second of the day really. I guess its sad in a way im always trying to improve myself so the missus stays phyiscally attracted to me as well as mentally lol. I wouldnt say im prepping my next test/tren cycle for her but i think at the end of the day we all run cycles to look better/become more attractive right. Hopefuly im even closer to my ideal body type once this cycle is completed.

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    Yeah. Scared of the aftermath, the psychotic behavior to follow if you will.
    Bitches be crazy
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    If she screams Steve!!! when she cums, and thats not your name.....................be worried

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papa Smurf
    If she screams Steve!!! when she cums, and thats not your name.....................be worried
    Haha I read this in the preview and laughed my ass off!

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    hahaha

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    Yeah, but I also have lots of zip ties and duct tape sitting around if she does try to leave. That calms me down a bit.

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    Always worrying that she's going to leave you shows weakness/insecurity. Most girls want a man who is strong and confident. Something to think about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussie1 View Post
    maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

    Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

    I think that happens more often than not in relationships you just have to figure up how the two of you can resolve that insecurity. I used to have a boyfriend say that to me a lot in a joking manner when I would say a come back, b.c. Sometimes my mouth is reckless... And one day he goes, that's okay ill leave you and grab a new girlfriend and see who laughs. I got so heated, I responded with if you ever say that again you better mean it b.c. I'm going to find you a new girlfriend and leave your @$$ and you better not expect to comeback because I don't recycle. If you think I'm playin, try it, I'm good at making things happen! He never said pulled that again. I think now, I would just be more inclined to say that if you don't mean it, don't say it and I understand you're upset but I don't like when you say that. If you mean what you say and that's what you want then let me know and ill be out but just to let you know that's not what I want so let's not talk like that... Otherwise you'll act clingy and try to buy her way to make sure she stays and you'll just push her away more so just talk to her, squash it and you'll feel secure and be able to move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    Always worrying that she's going to leave you shows weakness/insecurity. Most girls want a man who is strong and confident. Something to think about.
    Everyone has an insecurity. I'd rather a dude be honest with me and open up to address it than act like mr. Macho because he's strong... F that. I want to be his best friend who he can talk to. How am I suppose to be on his team if he won't show me his weaknesses b.c. Then Idk what strengths of mine to use to make sure we win

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    I would have to lose a hand to lose my gf so yeah I'm a little paranoid about that...

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussie1 View Post
    Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol
    Im told mutiple orgasms make it difficult for a woman to leave... why do you think mine puts up with me?

    Other than the obvious, be sure to give her a lot of attention without making her feel as though you are doing it for some kind of benefit for you. When she sits down and lays down, snuggle up behind her and rub her shoulders so she knows you are thinking of her wel being. Dont turn it into something sexual or it defeats the purpose.

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    Treat em mean keep em keen
    Seriously? have you even had a long term girlfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by redz View Post
    Seriously? have you even had a long term girlfriend?


    Once.. I treated her like a princess bought her everything she wanted even a set of bolt ons then she just up and left..

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox
    Everyone has an insecurity. I'd rather a dude be honest with me and open up to address it than act like mr. Macho because he's strong... F that. I want to be his best friend who he can talk to. How am I suppose to be on his team if he won't show me his weaknesses b.c. Then Idk what strengths of mine to use to make sure we win
    Glad to know more then a few people see it this way

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knockout_Power

    Im told mutiple orgasms make it difficult for a woman to leave... why do you think mine puts up with me?

    Other than the obvious, be sure to give her a lot of attention without making her feel as though you are doing it for some kind of benefit for you. When she sits down and lays down, snuggle up behind her and rub her shoulders so she knows you are thinking of her wel being. Dont turn it into something sexual or it defeats the purpose.
    ^^^ this! We love this shit. Snuggles, touching, affection. Bring it on. There's a time & place for sex, and you'll know when that time is. Usually cuddling gets us in the mood

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54 View Post
    I would have to lose a hand to lose my gf so yeah I'm a little paranoid about that...
    Ha ha! I am a confident guy by nature. Ive always had the attitude that if they are going to leave or cheat, there is nothing I can do about it. Once I got married, that changed. You open up so much more and learn vunerabilities of yourself and partner. It is easy to let your mind wander, so dont let it. It sucks, but Ive found if you are feeling insecure, just open up and be honest. Or take a big ol' dose of armidex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BUTTERYGOODNESS View Post
    Glad to know more then a few people see it this way
    I think we are the minority

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmouth View Post
    Ha ha! I am a confident guy by nature. Ive always had the attitude that if they are going to leave or cheat, there is nothing I can do about it. Once I got married, that changed. You open up so much more and learn vunerabilities of yourself and partner. It is easy to let your mind wander, so dont let it. It sucks, but Ive found if you are feeling insecure, just open up and be honest. Or take a big ol' dose of armidex.

    Exactly what I just said lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
    absolutely not
    Lol x2

    If your this insecure about your chick you may want to look into relationship counseling it find a new one brotha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redz View Post
    Seriously? have you even had a long term girlfriend?
    Probably not

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    Start taking PGE-1

    If she leaves you after that then there was never any hope for the relationship lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussie1
    maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

    Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol
    I've been with mine 9 years (almost 27 years old)..
    I'm not afraid of her leaving, ill just get something way hotter these days, and would enjoy a bit of the single life in my condition ATM, however I do love my mrs and she's a good girl putting up with my awful attitude sometimes, so it's kinda winwin either way, she's a great girl but if she left ill get a greater one

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    Quote Originally Posted by auswest View Post
    I've been with mine 9 years (almost 27 years old)..
    I'm not afraid of her leaving, ill just get something way hotter these days, and would enjoy a bit of the single life in my condition ATM, however I do love my mrs and she's a good girl putting up with my awful attitude sometimes, so it's kinda winwin either way, she's a great girl but if she left ill get a greater one
    X2

    This has been my approach for the last few years and it's served me well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
    Always worrying that she's going to leave you shows weakness/insecurity. Most girls want a man who is strong and confident. Something to think about.
    True. I'm always trying to get mine to leave even in a nice way offering 1st class airfare and all that and she still won't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    True. I'm always trying to get mine to leave even in a nice way offering 1st class airfare and all that and she still won't.
    Classic!

    Reminds me of when I was a kid growing up and I would "threaten" my dad by saying I was gonna move out early, to which he always replied "don't tease me" hahaha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perseverance1

    Classic!

    Reminds me of when I was a kid growing up and I would "threaten" my dad by saying I was gonna move out early, to which he always replied "don't tease me" hahaha.
    Haha when ever my mrs says she won't come back I always ask her to promise

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    Quote Originally Posted by auswest View Post
    Haha when ever my mrs says she won't come back I always ask her to promise
    LOL yeah and then when you ask where you can have their stuff delivered they seem to hoof it back quickly. Damn women, cant live with them and you cant kill them. Oh wait.... never mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts
    LOL yeah and then when you ask where you can have their stuff delivered they seem to hoof it back quickly. Damn women, cant live with them and you cant kill them. Oh wait.... never mind.
    Hahaha too true

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    How long you been on cycle OP? About a year or so?

    You have some anxiety I see. Any brain fog on this cruise at any time?
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    Quote Originally Posted by auswest View Post
    Hahaha too true
    Only if they knew my history.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussie1
    maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

    Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol
    Lately I've been having some fvckd up dreams about my wife and in everyone of them she's either a mean nasty bitch to me or she's telling me she doesn't love me anymore.

    I don't know if its all the damn drugs I'm taking, if I'm paranoid, self conscious, or am starting to lose my mind!!!!

    Actually....it's probably all of the above!

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