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    Ex girlfriend issues

    What's up everyone?!

    Ok, so i dated this girl for 7 months and everything seemed to be perfect, well that's what I thought. The problems all started when work had me so busy I really didn't even have time for myself, so of course I didn't have much time for her. Well she got tired of that and left me. Of course I was hurt, but I knew I would be fine. I let her have what she wanted and didn't try calling her or texting her and eventually she started blowing my phone up. I gave in eventually, hoping that all the stuff she fed me was the truth. Of course she told me she wanted me back and that she made a mistake so I gave her another chance and all I'm getting is games. Well at least that's what it feels like. Everything she says isn't backed up by her actions. It's like she knows what I want to hear but doesn't show me and everyone knows that actions speak louder than words! I do realize that since I'm here I should probably just let go of this whole situation and move on. So I think the main reason I'm posting this is to keep me on the right track! What do u guys think? Thanks y'all!!

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    Change your phone number. Deactivate any social network accounts she is aware of. Blacklist her email address and do everything in you power to completely disconnect from her. Do not give her the slightest opportunity to contact you in any way, shape or form. Try and forget she ever existed.
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    I thought about changing my number but I can't do that so I thought about blocking her number but that seems immature doesn't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wayne69 View Post
    I thought about changing my number but I can't do that so I thought about blocking her number but that seems immature doesn't it?
    Immature people get suckered. You a sucker? Anyone can change their number. And yes, block her if you refuse to change your number.
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    If she is playing games and her mouth is writing checks her ass isn't cashing then do yourself a favor and completely erase her from your life. She sounds unstable and selfish which is only going to lead to her hurting you and her not giving a hoot about your feelings. As cliché as it sounds there are so many women out there that are availabe and looking why paint yourself into a corner with a manipulative loser?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wayne69 View Post
    Everything she says isn't backed up by her actions. It's like she knows what I want to hear but doesn't show me and everyone knows that actions speak louder than words!

    You just described every woman who has ever set foot on planet Earth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    Immature people get suckered. You a sucker? Anyone can change their number. And yes, block her if you refuse to change your number.
    Definitely block her number wayne that isn't immature at all and it sends a message "I'm done with your crazy ass"

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    I'm far from a sucker!! Well I'll block her number and forget about her ass!! Easier said than done but by blocking her number and not hearing from her will definitely help the process!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54 View Post

    You just described every woman who has ever set foot on planet Earth.
    Lol ain't that the truth but so far mine has set a record on backing it up.

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    Well she used to back it up! Not anymore!

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    Thank y'all for all the help. Hope blocking her number does the trick. This whole situation sucks but I can't do this to myself anymore

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    Just tell her you dont want to bang her anymore shes just a women dont let her control your life. Grab the bull by the horn and go out and bang some hotter quiff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

    You just described every woman who has ever set foot on planet Earth.
    Do heels count?!? LoL

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    Have as much crazy/dirty sex with her as you can. When you get tired of it act as though you have to work long hours again. After she leaves just find a new girlfriend and repeat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post
    Have as much crazy/dirty sex with her as you can. When you get tired of it act as though you have to work long hours again. After she leaves just find a new girlfriend and repeat.
    Lol. I've been in your situation for the last year. Once you realize she's all games either toss her out your life or if the sex is good keep her around for that. I "work till 0130" 6 days a week. And I gotta get up at 0800 to work out. Sorry babe I just can't stay all day. But thanks for the crazy sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiveOn View Post
    Lol. I've been in your situation for the last year. Once you realize she's all games either toss her out your life or if the sex is good keep her around for that. I "work till 0130" 6 days a week. And I gotta get up at 0800 to work out. Sorry babe I just can't stay all day. But thanks for the crazy sex
    Really?
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    Hey man, some people can take the abuse. Sex is the best I've ever had, and I had quite a time in college. And it's someone I had a crush on for literally half my life. The hot to crazy scale is important it just depends on the day which side she's on lol

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    I'm not Redz, I can make good decisions when it comes women.

    Sorry Redz

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiveOn View Post
    I'm not Redz, I can make good decisions when it comes women.

    Sorry Redz
    lol, I only said that because you quoted DSM. Just messin with ya.
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    Oh, haha. I was more quoting the have sex and ignore part. We've been on and off 5 (I think?) times since last June. The sex never stops just the pretending to care does. So it gives me a chance to find someone new every few months and get some strange lol. I leave wit the Corps in October so it's not like I'm looking for something long standing anyway

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    The sex is ok, but not good enough to keep holding on lol! I think it's best if I just let go completely and move on! I'm debating if I should give her closure or does she even deserve closure or is blocking her number closure for her lol!

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    ^ I laughed. Saving that one. Thanks.
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    Block all communication that you can from your ex. Leave her alone and move on.

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    1. Find out which female she is closest with (best friend, sister, cousin) and bang that person.
    2. Record it.
    3. Tell her you want to watch a new movie next time she comes over to get it on.
    4. Problem solved????

    It may not solve your problem, but it will make for a good read when you report back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeastBro66
    1. Find out which female she is closest with (best friend, sister, cousin) and bang that person.
    2. Record it.
    3. Tell her you want to watch a new movie next time she comes over to get it on.
    4. Problem solved????

    It may not solve your problem, but it will make for a good read when you report back.
    Evil.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeastBro66
    1. Find out which female she is closest with (best friend, sister, cousin) and bang that person.
    2. Record it.
    3. Tell her you want to watch a new movie next time she comes over to get it on.
    4. Problem solved????

    It may not solve your problem, but it will make for a good read when you report back.
    Genius !

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    A simple get the hell out of my life.Find someone new or stay busy.

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    Next time u r banging her call her by a different name. She will either
    A) knock the shiat outta u
    B) never talk to u agin

    Either way problem solved any woman in her right mind would leave. If she doesn't leave then she crazy!... And who wants to date a crazy.
    Best of luck

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    disregard females bro, life is easier.

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