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    black maling people

    Im going through some baby mama drama . She blackmaled me about some extracurricular activities I used to do. That she took a pic of me doing not my face thank god.
    anyone know ifhe that kind of stuff falls through ...shes only doing this cause I went on dates.

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    well, I guess that clears THAT up! =)

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    I'm confused at the question?

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    If you don't want to get caught sucking of a donkey.


    Don't suck off a donkey.

    That clear it up fellas?

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    Haha not like that.


    Painting illegally ..g r a f f I t I...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo
    If you don't want to get caught sucking of a donkey.

    Don't suck off a donkey.

    That clear it up fellas?
    Only thing it clears up is u have a fascination for beastiality lol

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    Get some photoshop software.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    I'm confused at the question?
    My question is something like this actually stick? I do paint but not illegally for for along time ...she knows I paint anf has evidence I'm a highprofile writer so ive done lots of damage in the past.
    She flatout blackmaled me today ...
    Another question that I have is if they do blackmail me what if the crime is true what they are implying?

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    Ok its was me putting a spraypaint can in my butt ! I confess

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    What does she plan to do with this supposed evidence of a misdemeanor crime (most likely)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tron3219 View Post
    Only thing it clears up is u have a fascination for beastiality lol
    Shhhhhh!!

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    Big deal. I'd laugh, seriously. How petty. How old were you in the pic?

    I thought she had a pic of you with a needle in your cheek and a vial in your hand. Mine actually said I use steroids on her legal filing to the court on custody. She didn't have pics or any proof whatsoever so it was stricken.

    I'd remove that hello kitty tattoo from your arse if I were you though! Since there's no face, it will be an identifying feature.

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    Now I know who is responsible for all the shyt I see on trains that I cant understand.

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    Makes her guilty of blackmail which is illegal. Get evidence of her blackmailing u and bring her to charges first. And if she doesn't have proof it's you for sure that's also slander.

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    i guess it all depends... baby momma drama so i figure she is trying to get you to do something concerning the baby? you mentioned dates. I mean she would be stupid to try an drag you to court if you are just dating others and she is jealous. but if you are not paying child support thats another story ~ yet if your face isnt in the pix it seems irrelevant and if she didnt report your defacing activities while taking the pix that could come back to her negatively.

    i dont think you have any worries But i would recommend calmly talking to her and attempting to find out the root of the actions she is taking ~if you dont get it resolved she could just focus all her hurt feelings on revenge rather then healing and letting go.
    try an remember that at some level she still loves you and is very vulnerable and unstable from the pain- if she didnt love you to some degree she would not bother with you in any way. thats a women fact

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    Quote Originally Posted by AZGOLDSMEMBER86 View Post
    Ok its was me putting a spraypaint can in my butt ! I confess
    PM me pics for verification... Besides I'm just curious as to the brand name of the paint...

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    wear a wire, get her to spell it out.. then send her a copy.. tell her to **** off..

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    Blackmail only works if you pay/give in to it. Cant see your face? Tell her to fvck off and good luck. What they hell could they do about it anyways and if it's in the past I doubt anyone would give a rip at this point.

    Only drama that is happening is what you are letting happen.

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    What's the statute of limitation on defacing private property? There's another out...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo View Post
    If you don't want to get caught sucking of a donkey.


    Don't suck off a donkey.

    That clear it up fellas?
    No you can suck the Donkey just don't take pictures.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Blackmail only works if you pay/give in to it. Cant see your face? Tell her to fvck off and good luck. What they hell could they do about it anyways and if it's in the past I doubt anyone would give a rip at this point.

    Only drama that is happening is what you are letting happen.
    Ya I just stress too much

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    Quote Originally Posted by Java Man View Post
    Big deal. I'd laugh, seriously. How petty. How old were you in the pic?

    I thought she had a pic of you with a needle in your cheek and a vial in your hand. Mine actually said I use steroids on her legal filing to the court on custody. She didn't have pics or any proof whatsoever so it was stricken.

    I'd remove that hello kitty tattoo from your arse if I were you though! Since there's no face, it will be an identifying feature.
    I was in my early 20s

    Tat removed !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    Now I know who is responsible for all the shyt I see on trains that I cant understand.
    Haha covert missions. Now those are fun! I was bad at one point painting everyday freeways billboards street walls stickers tags you name it I did it. For over ten years as a active graffiti writer

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tron3219 View Post
    Makes her guilty of blackmail which is illegal. Get evidence of her blackmailing u and bring her to charges first. And if she doesn't have proof it's you for sure that's also slander.
    Ya I thought of that but what if her accusations are true ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart View Post
    i guess it all depends... baby momma drama so i figure she is trying to get you to do something concerning the baby? you mentioned dates. I mean she would be stupid to try an drag you to court if you are just dating others and she is jealous. but if you are not paying child support thats another story ~ yet if your face isnt in the pix it seems irrelevant and if she didnt report your defacing activities while taking the pix that could come back to her negatively.

    i dont think you have any worries But i would recommend calmly talking to her and attempting to find out the root of the actions she is taking ~if you dont get it resolved she could just focus all her hurt feelings on revenge rather then healing and letting go.
    try an remember that at some level she still loves you and is very vulnerable and unstable from the pain- if she didnt love you to some degree she would not bother with you in any way. thats a women fact
    Ya I know ive tried but she gets mad when I talk calmly like she thinks I'm doing it to piss her off. I told her she can tell me the real reasons why but I already know its obvious .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shol'va View Post

    PM me pics for verification... Besides I'm just curious as to the brand name of the paint...
    Haha it was a 800ml can of high pressure Spanish Montana paint :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tron3219 View Post
    What's the statute of limitation on defacing private property? There's another out...
    Seven years I believe . Ive never been caught . So it would be a first charge . But just her knowing that would take time away from me being with our daughter just makes me sick..

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM4Life View Post

    No you can suck the Donkey just don't take pictures.
    You mean no profits to be made on the black market ?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AZGOLDSMEMBER86 View Post
    Seven years I believe . Ive never been caught . So it would be a first charge . But just her knowing that would take time away from me being with our daughter just makes me sick..
    Yeah and again you are over thinking it, being paranoid. #1, it's not murder, robbery or anything that is a BIG deal so they wont care. #2 you said it doesn't show your face so there is no evidence. #3 even if it shows your tat they are not going to put money and resources into prosecuting you for something like that especially that long ago.

    No cop or anyone is going to give her the time of day about it and the only one giving her any power is you. You need to man up and stand up to her. Call her bluff because that's all it is and do the right thing and STOP letting her her use your daughter as a tool.

    I'm not just blowing smoke, Been there done that. I spent a good 15+ months fighting for custody of my daughter when she was only 1 1/2 yr. I went through a lot of BS and accusations that you dont want to even imagine going through.

    Bottom line is you have to stand up for what's right and not back down. Don't give in to any pressure or any accusations be them real or fake. The best thing you can do for yourself and daughter is to not let her (the mother) use her or the past to control the situation or future. It will never stop if you let it continue.

    Dont worry about what if... Stop believing her BS and letting her trying to control you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AZGOLDSMEMBER86 View Post
    Haha not like that.


    Painting illegally ..g r a f f I t I...
    pffft..

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Yeah and again you are over thinking it, being paranoid. #1, it's not murder, robbery or anything that is a BIG deal so they wont care. #2 you said it doesn't show your face so there is no evidence. #3 even if it shows your tat they are not going to put money and resources into prosecuting you for something like that especially that long ago.

    No cop or anyone is going to give her the time of day about it and the only one giving her any power is you. You need to man up and stand up to her. Call her bluff because that's all it is and do the right thing and STOP letting her her use your daughter as a tool.

    I'm not just blowing smoke, Been there done that. I spent a good 15+ months fighting for custody of my daughter when she was only 1 1/2 yr. I went through a lot of BS and accusations that you dont want to even imagine going through.

    Bottom line is you have to stand up for what's right and not back down. Don't give in to any pressure or any accusations be them real or fake. The best thing you can do for yourself and daughter is to not let her (the mother) use her or the past to control the situation or future. It will never stop if you let it continue.

    Dont worry about what if... Stop believing her BS and letting her trying to control you.
    I understand just I'm a pessimist so I over worry .
    And she sure does know how to do all that .
    And I'm sorry to hear about your battle glad its over.

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    [QUOTE="kronik420;6598692"]

    pffft..[/QUOTE
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    I hope everything works out for you. But, I gotta say, I hate ppl who tag The city cleans it; these guys are out that night doing their thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rusty11 View Post
    I hope everything works out for you. But, I gotta say, I hate ppl who tag The city cleans it; these guys are out that night doing their thing.
    Thanks man.
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    A lot of taggers are very talented. I'm sure you are too. So, please use those talents to straighten out your avi.

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    Don't worry about it, cops have better things to do and if your face isn't in it then it doesn't prove anything!!! It is all hear say...

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