Swingers.....?!?!?

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 08:26 PM

Ok... So I'm getting married at the end of the year and will be off to Vegas along with other places in the u.s.....this will be my honeymoon btw..
Now my to be mrs (26 years old) mentioned about going to a swingers club while in Vegas....yes while on our honeymoon!?!? "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" (quoted by her) I must be honest this currently turns me on to no end, and have fantasised about it before, but I am also on cycle on 80mg tren ed and horny as fk atm..I have agreed to this and am excited and I guess nervous, but I am just hoping this desire will not fade away when coming off cycle.
Anyone else been in a similar situation, it also has me thinking, once you've done it once, it could be something you do again if its a good experience..as once you've taken something to a new level it's hard to settle for less, am I right?

Secondly how good is liquid c for getting you in the mood, because ill proberbly be needing something.

**austinite** · 07-20-2013, 08:33 PM

LOL! Enjoy it, but just remember, this shit slaps you in the face later.

Liquid C is great, love it.

**lovbyts** · 07-20-2013, 08:44 PM

I'm sure you will get a LOT of different views on this. I'm not into swinger. I would NOT want to see or know about my woman being with another guy.

That being said, I think everyone is different and if both consenting adults are OK with it then it's up to you. Just be careful and not let emotions, jealously get in the way or it's all doomed.

Now as I said I would not want to see my woman with another guy but.... another woman is a whole different ballgame so to speak. My 1st wife was bi. She liked girls and had good taste. She use to bring girls home frequently for US to play with.

The first time was a little awkward and she was pretty worried before and after, not during. lol Once she realized I really had no interest in the other person except as our mutual toy at the time then it was all good and we never had a problem. She also never wanted to involve another guy in any way so it was all good with me.

2nd wife was also bi and while in Vegas on our honey moon we ALMOST had another girl join us. We both sort of got cold feet at the last minute and it never happened and during our marriage we kept it to just the two of us.

Anymore I think the 3 some, 4 some or group stuff is best left to when single. When you involve other people someone, somewhere eventually gets hurt even if it's not one of you two who initiate it or start to get feelings for someone it will effect you guys in some way.

It's rare that a couple will venture down this road and come out of it 100% OK but not impossible. More than likely it is a curiosity, fun game that will fade away and become a good fun memory before anyone gets hurt.

Good luck, have fun and play safe.

**Brazensol** · 07-20-2013, 08:45 PM

All I can say is be sure of your relationship or problems may arise. Living in Vegas I can tell you there are plenty of swing clubs and action to go around. Just be sure of your relationship because it is not worth ruining it over sex. Otherwise; ENJOY!

**kronik420** · 07-20-2013, 08:52 PM

id do it...

pop a few tabs of Cialis and away you go..

at least you'll never bump into them again...

**Cuz** · 07-20-2013, 09:09 PM

don't get me wrong, id love to bang other chics. But the thought of another dude in my wife...nah, id go ape shit. your gonna wish you hadn't got married after about 7 years man, just sayin. cuss me if you want.

**Euroholic** · 07-20-2013, 09:14 PM

Why are you getting marrierd if you want to bang other birds? Do you think you could handle watching your wife perform sexual acts on another man? What if he is better than you? What if he is richer than you?What if his bf is lower? What if his calfs are bigger? Dont do it mate you will regreat it. Stay single if you want this stuff!!!!

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 09:33 PM

Originally Posted by Euroholic

Why are you getting marrierd if you want to bang other birds? Do you think you could handle watching your wife perform sexual acts on another man? What if he is better than you? What if he is richer than you?What if his bf is lower? What if his calfs are bigger? Dont do it mate you will regreat it. Stay single if you want this stuff!!!!

I think you might have trouble reading, she asked me..... And unlike you by the sounds of things i don't lack confidence in myself..

Thanks everyone else for your input some good points mentioned, still 5 months away, plenty of time to speak to her about it and find out what it is that excites her about it.. It is a once in a life time event.. And I am confident enough in myself and our relationship.

Will update this in 6 months

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 09:43 PM

I must also mention it is not the idea of bangin another girl that excites me and I'll be totally honest that hasn't even crossed my mind much at all since the discussion came up. Strangely the though of my mrs with someone else is somewhat arousing...it could be very fun, who knows never tryed it and there's only one way to find out, and Vegas is as good of a place as any.

**Euroholic** · 07-20-2013, 09:47 PM

Well if she asked you does that not make you wonder why?? Why does she want sex with other guys? So you could really watch your wife being with other men?

Good luck anyway bra

**FRDave** · 07-20-2013, 09:52 PM

If your both secure in your relationship I say go for it. A swingers club would be ideal if you ask me since they are strangers and you will never see again. My only concern would be the fact is probably 1 girl for every 10+ guys in the club and the girls are probably beat.

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 09:54 PM

Originally Posted by FRDave

If your both secure in your relationship I say go for it. A swingers club would be ideal if you ask me since they are strangers and you will never see again. My only concern would be the fact is probably 1 girl for every 10+ guys in the club and the girls are probably beat.

Haha been doing some reading about if it comes to it, will be sticking to couples areas only.

**tdoe11** · 07-20-2013, 09:54 PM

I think I would kill by woman and the other guy. Something terrible I would never
Forget

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 09:55 PM

Originally Posted by Euroholic

Well if she asked you does that not make you wonder why?? Why does she want sex with other guys? So you could really watch your wife being with other men?

Good luck anyway bra

Different strokes for different folks I guess mate..

**Euroholic** · 07-20-2013, 09:57 PM

Mate just sit down and do a take 5 on the situation please

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 10:01 PM

Originally Posted by Euroholic

Mate just sit down and do a take 5 on the situation please

Ha dw I have alot of time to run this through my head over the next 6 months.. Time will tell

**Euroholic** · 07-20-2013, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by auswest

Ha dw I have alot of time to run this through my head over the next 6 months.. Time will tell

Righto well good luck bra... Hope you win 27600$ in vegas

**Brazensol** · 07-20-2013, 10:12 PM

I think this might be kind of like using steroids . Don't do it if you're too young. Now, what's too young? Who the hell knows? Most swinger seem to be more in their 40's or beyond and are very comfortable in their relationships. Not saying you can't pull it off but it could put unreal expectations in your mind for the future. Such as you may want more but she don't or vice-versa. Just think it through and good luck. If it works out for you both it will be a fantastic experience! If not, it could well be a disaster.

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 10:14 PM

Originally Posted by Euroholic

Righto well good luck bra... Hope you win 27600$ in vegas

Not sure a take 5 will cut it for this task btw, job may have more than 5 people on it and its not a regular every day task, risk rating may be a little high... might have to right up a jha/jsa for this one

**Cuz** · 07-20-2013, 10:16 PM

^ yep, swingers are usually older and been in the relationship for along time. They still love each other, just want different sex partners. They have been together so long that the sex they had has just gotten old and stale and is not even an arousal for either man nor woman. Just my thought on it.

**Euroholic** · 07-20-2013, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by auswest

Not sure a take 5 will cut it for this task btw, job may have more than 5 people on it and its not a regular every day task, risk rating may be a little high... might have to right up a jha/jsa for this one

Its funny cause people dont understand

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 10:29 PM

Originally Posted by Euroholic

Its funny cause people dont understand

Haha true

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 10:31 PM

Originally Posted by chadcuz1985

^ yep, swingers are usually older and been in the relationship for along time. They still love each other, just want different sex partners. They have been together so long that the sex they had has just gotten old and stale and is not even an arousal for either man nor woman. Just my thought on it.

My view of swingers would be that they would have the most enjoyable sex lifes and are very confident in their relationships, we've been together 10 years, I was 18 she was 17 so very few sexual partners between us.

**Cuz** · 07-20-2013, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by auswest

My view of swingers would be that they would have the most enjoyable sex lifes and are very confident in their relationships, we've been together 10 years, I was 18 she was 17 so very few sexual partners between us.

a lot like me n spouse. I ws 19 she was 18, and its been almost 10 for us too, nex year will be. Good luck anyway, ill get out of you thread now lol

**auswest** · 07-20-2013, 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by chadcuz1985

a lot like me n spouse. I ws 19 she was 18, and its been almost 10 for us too, nex year will be. Good luck anyway, ill get out of you thread now lol

Haha whys that?? Getting tempted??

**SexySweetheart** · 07-20-2013, 11:50 PM

swinging may have it appeals but when you start seeing another dude ramming your soon to be wife- things will seem differently...that image won't leave you any time soooooooooooon

**spywizard** · 07-21-2013, 01:04 AM

yea, i'm the only person that gets to Gorilla Hump my wife.. sorry, I've dont the pary scene in my day, someone always gets hurt..

**--->>405<<---** · 07-21-2013, 05:25 AM

bad idea dude IMO..

if my wife told me she wanted to have sex with someone else and was serious about it, wed be getting a divorce..

marriage is more than sex, but sex should stay confined within the marriage..

shoot you havent even gotten married yet and yall are already wanting to screw other people??!?!?!? what about your children?? yeh i suppose u wont tell them.. mommy and daddy get off watching strangers have sex with us??

i realize people are different but ur asking opinions and im giving mine.

what kind of man wants to watch another man pound his woman?? ur supposed to want to protect her, NOT turn her over to some scumbag to use her as a real life blow up doll..

**Gaspaco** · 07-21-2013, 05:33 AM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

bad idea dude IMO..

if my wife told me she wanted to have sex with someone else and was serious about it, wed be getting a divorce..

marriage is more than sex, but sex should stay confined within the marriage..

shoot you havent even gotten married yet and yall are already wanting to screw other people??!?!?!? what about your children?? yeh i suppose u wont tell them.. mommy and daddy get off watching strangers have sex with us??

i realize people are different but ur asking opinions and im giving mine.

what kind of man wants to watch another man pound his woman?? ur supposed to want to protect her, NOT turn her over to some scumbag to use her as a real life blow up doll..

Agree with every word you said!

**DSM4Life** · 07-21-2013, 05:35 AM

More balls the merrier.

**DB1982** · 07-21-2013, 05:53 AM

I'm close friend with 2 couples that started swinging. At first it was the guys that wanted to swing.
But soon after their wives are the ones who continued to want it more n more. As time went on they started to swing separately because my buddies just weren't into in anymore.
They said it felt like their wife's were addicted they just wouldn't stop.

If got to the point were each wife had boyfriends on the side. Both relationships ended in divorce.

So tread lightly buddy I now every couple is different but my buddies pushed their ladies into the lifestyle and in the end it was the ladies who couldn't control themselves. Both buddies said they'd never do it again.

**marcus300** · 07-21-2013, 06:09 AM

Do not get involved in the swinger scene, trust me it leads to dark places and what ever you do never take the wife or someone you love..........take someone else and go to the dark room or dungeon that's where the fun is

**DSM4Life** · 07-21-2013, 06:11 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Do not get involved in the swinger scene, trust me it leads to dark places and what ever you do never take the wife or someone you love..........take someone else and go to the dark room or dungeon that's where the fun is

You busy next weekend?

**marcus300** · 07-21-2013, 06:49 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

You busy next weekend?

no i'm free, and trust me you couldn't handle me,

**DSM4Life** · 07-21-2013, 06:50 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

no i'm free, and trust me you couldn't handle me,

I'd like to give it a try. I'll pack an extra ice pack.

**marcus300** · 07-21-2013, 06:55 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

I'd like to give it a try. I'll pack an extra ice pack.

I;m in a different league what would scare the living day light out if you, pain is the key and we don't have no safe word with me

**lovbyts** · 07-21-2013, 07:07 AM

Originally Posted by marcus300

I;m in a different league what would scare the living day light out if you, pain is the key and we don't have no safe word with me

Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen

**Hazard** · 07-21-2013, 07:09 AM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

bad idea dude IMO..

if my wife told me she wanted to have sex with someone else and was serious about it, wed be getting a divorce..

marriage is more than sex, but sex should stay confined within the marriage..

shoot you havent even gotten married yet and yall are already wanting to screw other people??!?!?!? what about your children?? yeh i suppose u wont tell them.. mommy and daddy get off watching strangers have sex with us??

i realize people are different but ur asking opinions and im giving mine.

what kind of man wants to watch another man pound his woman?? ur supposed to want to protect her, NOT turn her over to some scumbag to use her as a real life blow up doll..

^^^^ this

Sorry aus...... I just couldn't let someone pound my woman and me like it. Idc if I could be with 10 women and she only gets 1 guy. That image would be burnt into my mind

**auswest** · 07-21-2013, 07:16 AM

Thanks guys I'm convinced, asked my mrs as we were having sex just then and apparently I have been hinting it, so I've just told her to forget the whole idea..

I've been deprived without sex for the last 4 days so maybe my mind was starting to get the better of me, now after blowing my load (sorry for detail) I have absolutely no desire to watch the mrs get ****ed by a stranger what so ever.

I put this all down to being horny as fk on cycle and not having sex... I'm blaming the tren !! And possibly the 1mg of prami every day!