How long to wait till you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

[MACKATTACK]

Just like the title says, how long do you wait to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

[Zodiac82]

3 months

-Beast Mode-

lol I read the title as "How long did you wait"

on that note..depends on how u feel...I you want it then ask

[Cuz]

maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " You do anal right"?

[clarky.]

Depends how much you like her if you leave it too long someone could come along and nab her and you will be bubbling because you took to long just ask her

[MACKATTACK]

Well its been a month but she lives in the city so when she comes out on the weekend she stays at my place Thursday night through like sunday morning, 24/7. I mean its already pretty far along. I just don't like to jump out the gym too fast and ask too early.

Plus I just blew my knee out this past wednesday and she took care of me the whole time she was here doing everything.

[Cuz]

Well its been a month but she lives in the city so when she comes out on the weekend she stays at my place Thursday night through like sunday morning, 24/7. I mean its already pretty far along. I just don't like to jump out the gym too fast and ask too early.

Plus I just blew my knee out this past wednesday and she took care of me the whole time she was here doing everything.

u hittin aint u bro

[crazy mike]

If it feels right and if she's into you. You should know. Just be gently honest with her and tell her your feelings. Makes me want to go back in the bedroom and ask my wife if she would be my GF. Make sure you are not just being needy. ...crazy mike

On second thought. What do I know, it's been 34 yrs for me. ....cm

[MACKATTACK]

u hittin aint u bro

Lol, thats a stupid question.

[Hoggage_54]

Post of pic of her to see if she is worthy of girlfriend status...

[MACKATTACK]

post of pic of her to see if she is worthy of girlfriend status...

lol.........

[Honkey_Kong]

Post of pic of her to see if she is worthy of girlfriend status...

And she needs to be showing cleavage in said pic.

OP, you shouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend. You'll know she's your girlfriend when she introduces you to people as her boyfriend.

[crazy mike]

And she needs to be showing cleavage in said pic.

OP, you shouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend. You'll know she's your girlfriend when she introduces you to people as her boyfriend.

Aw now isn't that sweet, dear !! Look honey that's her boyfriend, and isn't he a big boy !!! ) haaaa. I'm sorry man I just had to throw that in. My wife thought is was funny for me to say. If she's caring for you and staying the weekend AND She's official. Much luck. ...crazy mike

[-KJ-]

maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " you do anal right"?

lmfao

[HitIt]

this question belongs in the 7th grade section

[austinite]

20 minutes if it gets you laid. Then all you just deal with 6 months of agony. Like me. I hate my life.

[diesel101]

20 minutes if it gets you laid. Then all you just deal with 6 months of agony. Like me. I hate my life.

Love the positive attitude!

[BlueWaffle21]

How old are you? This sounds like a high school question!!

I've never asked this iin my adult life. I meet a girl and if we hit it off and start dating, it's just assumed that we are gf/bf when we start acting like it. You could always ask if you're exclusive or still seeing other people but I think that is easily realized by the type of relationship you're in. I would never ask a woman to be my girlfriend, pretty sure they would laugh!

[gearbox]

You feel like asking her that's why you posted this question. Always be yourself in a relationship you want to last. So ask her and do not worry about anything else. I bet she is already wanting you too a few weeks ago. Seeing you said she is taking care of you and all. That is good girlfriend status

[MACKATTACK]

It's just a question some of you guys think too far into it.

Thanks Gearbox and everyone else who gave a good honest non degrading answer.

[Hoggage_54]

[spywizard]

ask her?? um if you have to ask there are issues.. you either are, or you are not, are you seeing her exclusively?? so you just want her to say she's not doing/seeing other guys right??

[spywizard]

maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " You do anal right"?

once again, if he has to ask "you do anal right"?? he's doing it wrong, just assume she does, if she says "Stop I don't do that" it's time to kick it to the curb..

say something like?? really?? all my other girl friends do what's wrong with you??

[BlueWaffle21]

once again, if he has to ask "you do anal right"?? he's doing it wrong, just assume she does, if she says "Stop I don't do that" it's time to kick it to the curb..

say something like?? really?? all my other girl friends do what's wrong with you??

100% agree with this!! If you ask it gives them the chance to say no but if you just start working it in they usually go along with it. And if not at first they eventually will do it!

[SexySweetheart]

you wait up until the moment you start thinking about asking her :-) the moment it crossEs your mind is the moment it's time to say it.
for me it's a little different I'm a girl lol the moment I have zero interest in dating other guys was the moment I had asked for a definition of a relationship. I don't believe in being intimate physically with anyone unless you are exclusive -out of respect to yourself and the other people you're seeing . and I had no interest in dating other guys after my second date with Tigershark. I just needed to know if we're on the same wavelength... he confirmed it for me but I still need to hear from him lol I know he wasn't seeing other people or dating other people but hearing hi say it is a whole other thing...

[auswest]

I would wait 3 months and ask her if she does anal, if yes skip the girlfriend/boyfriend and straight up Marry her...

[Hoggage_54]

I would wait 3 months and ask her if she does anal, if yes skip the girlfriend/boyfriend and straight up Marry her...

Well said.

[lovbyts]

It depends on if she swallows or not. Swallow = instant girlfriend.

Also age dependent.
13 = 1 week
15 = 2 weeks
16 = 3 weeks
18 = 1 month
20 = 1.5 months
25 = 2-3 months
30 = forget it, to old....

[C3RB3RUS]

Just like the title says, how long do you wait to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

you don't ask, it just happens. she either wants to be with you a lot, or she doesn't. girlfriend isn't some title to have, it's what you share and do together. If you're are nervous about asking her anything, you're in a bad spot my friend. I understand your situation though; sounds like you like this girl a LOT. she probably knows you like her, like fricken, crazily. therefore, she is going to know exactly what you want. BRO a lot of stuff doesn't have to be said unless she asks you. [i want to point out that everyone is different. this is how i approach things.] let her go if you like her so much, she'll come if she wants. never assume that you can't make her yours though lol. and always be her friend trying to make more happen. in the mean time... human social interaction isn't logical, and that's how it works, on a different plane. http://www.dizpins.com/archives/imag...ale_081406.jpg

[RipOwens]

If it feels right and if she's into you. You should know. Just be gently honest with her and tell her your feelings. Makes me want to go back in the bedroom and ask my wife if she would be my GF. Make sure you are not just being needy. ...crazy mike

On second thought. What do I know, it's been 34 yrs for me. ....cm

Yup, why do I also feel like I've been outta this dating for so long!!

[bdos]

Give her a banana after those first 30 seconds you'll know

[Shol'va]

I grew up on anal sex. Two things most men really get into. One is anal sex and the other oral sex. I'm amazed how many guys aren't get much of either. These are two issues I hear a whole lot about where I work. A bunch of young married guys complaining how the wifes no longer give them any. The guys say it's like once the wedding vows were spoken the sex all but stopped.

[spywizard]

that's because they didn't talk about it , or the girl is following in the mom's mindset... shame really

[Art Vandelay]

Just feel it out man. If she's diggin you like that too, then make it happen. Just don't ask her in those words, you'll sound like Erkel lol. Take her somewhere chill, like on a hill to lay down in the grass n watch the stars. Bring a bottle pf wine etc... Throw some confidence out there, lean in, kiss her n tell her that you want her to be your girl.

[FONZY007]

Man I've been married going on 4 years in a few days!!

I had sex every day this week, which is normal an on my days off which was 3 days we did it once in the am and once in the pm..

Anal shit my putang is super tight, so why do anal?

I'm goin to be 32 she's going to be 25 years old

[Honkey_Kong]

I grew up on anal sex. Two things most men really get into. One is anal sex and the other oral sex. I'm amazed how many guys aren't get much of either. These are two issues I hear a whole lot about where I work. A bunch of young married guys complaining how the wifes no longer give them any. The guys say it's like once the wedding vows were spoken the sex all but stopped.

Women often don't like sex and only use it as a way to lure a guy in to marriage. Plus after she puts 20lbs on an a few years of age, you kind of just want to trade her in for the newer models.

[spywizard]

Women often don't like sex and only use it as a way to lure a guy in to marriage. Plus after she puts 20lbs on an a few years of age, you kind of just want to trade her in for the newer models.

see, thats why i think marriage should have term limits.. like 5 yr terms.. no divorce ever, simply serve out the term of the contract.. the contract will spell out child support and spousal support during and after the marriage..

or 2 yr but no more than 5 yr terms..

[Hazard]

Women often don't like sex and only use it as a way to lure a guy in to marriage. Plus after she puts 20lbs on an a few years of age, you kind of just want to trade her in for the newer models.

see, thats why i think marriage should have term limits.. like 5 yr terms.. no divorce ever, simply serve out the term of the contract.. the contract will spell out child support and spousal support during and after the marriage..

or 2 yr but no more than 5 yr terms..

Lmfao!

[kelkel]

see, thats why i think marriage should have term limits.. like 5 yr terms.. no divorce ever, simply serve out the term of the contract.. the contract will spell out child support and spousal support during and after the marriage..

or 2 yr but no more than 5 yr terms..

Man I've often said the same thing. It's automatically nullified and you either re-sign or run.....

[GirlyGymRat]

see, thats why i think marriage should have term limits.. like 5 yr terms.. no divorce ever, simply serve out the term of the contract.. the contract will spell out child support and spousal support during and after the marriage..

or 2 yr but no more than 5 yr terms..

I think Mexico recently introduced marriage certificates for 1 - 10 years with option to renew. Not sure about child support and custody.

[Cuz]

I wanna trade mine in lol shhhh don't tell