Should i stay at my current gym or change?

[mannyg]

Ive been at a decent gym now for 3 or so years, got plenty of weights/machines and is quite big, plenty of mates there and know many people so can grab a spot anytime I want which is great. But heres the problem, I absolutely hate being watched/stared at or talked about when im at the gym. There is a girl personal trainer(18 or 19) that works there that happens to be gay(lesbian) who I always see training this same chick which from stories ive been told sleeps around a lot, quite like what we in Aus like to call a SLUT. She has a newborn baby because this SLUT happens to come into my work and does a bit of shopping, must live around the area, I work in a supermarket atm. Anyways, im trying to work out and the last few times ive seen them there I look over my shoulder and see the SLUT looking at me and quickly turn away when I notice while her PT friend looks at me for a second then also turns away. Ive noticed this a few times now and im absolutely fed up, they also seem to laugh about certain things etc. So im not sure if there laughing about my form, my body, or discussing that they have seen me outside of gym or what. I have a feeling it may be about my body because im one of the biggest at my gym so its quite a rare site to see a muscular guy at my gym, seems to be all skinny and fat people haha.

Now, once or twice this happens is fine, but its gone on for a lil while now and ive told a few other PT,s about it whom have said they will tell her to mind her own business, worked for a while then BAM yesterday did it again, I ****in had enough, quit halfway thru my workout, stormed to the reception and demanded the manager, I explained to her and she said on behalf of her and her staff it was no acceptable behavior from the girl and her slurry friend, and that she will have a word to them. Anyways I left the gym and decided to go check out a 24hour gym, for those guys in Australia, its anytime fitness. I had a look around and its only got half the equipement, dumbells only go up to 50kg where at my other gym there 60kg. Anyways I signed up for a contract there but I have 1 week to decide weather or not to go ahead with it or not,

Positivies,

its a brand new gym only been open 3 weeks.
is absolutely dead by 9-10pm
has decent equipement.

negatives

not as big as my other gym, no where near as much stuff but It could make do
a fair bit smaller and more cramped, if the gym got packed youd be in trouble lol.


anyways here are my options.

GO back to my other gym and just ignore the 2 bitches.
Stay at both gyms but would cost roughly 30 bucks a week lol, or 120 a month Could even try 2x workouts a day would be nice esp on cycle and bulking.
My girlfriend goes to the new one I just signed up for and I trained with her last night and she enjoyed it so feel a bit bad leaving her, yes got clingy after 1 session haha.

What to do guys, got 5 days to decide if I wanna stay at the new one before the contract properly starts.

[austinite]

If you have a problem that's not getting fixed, move. Or fix the problem yourself if staff won't.

Check your E2. Gram of test and deca with no AI..

Soon you will be singing... "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard....."

[mannyg]

If you have a problem that's not getting fixed, move.

Well I haven't been back there since the manager said she was going to speak to them. Im just not sure I wanna train with my girlfriend lol, gym time was the one time I respected having to myself but it wasn't to bad when I trained with her yesterday.

[mannyg]

also the 50kg dumbells were WAY TO LIGHT. did like 15 reps without a spotter on chest press, but then again im on 1gram test 800megs deca lol

[austinite]

Seems very odd this entire deal. I'd pull that broad aside and ask her what the hell her problem is. Either that or maybe you need a sensitive E2 assay.

[mannyg]

Seems very odd this entire deal. I'd pull that broad aside and ask her what the hell her problem is. Either that or maybe you need a sensitive E2 assay.

I was very close to mate, but this manager seems very good, heard a lot of reports that shes fixing the gym up after the old management were kicked out haha, shes almost like a head mistress, tucked in long sleeve shirt, bussines pants, belt up to her belly button, nam tag on, ironed shirt, very professional and seems very strict and no ****ing around. But as I said I haven't been back since yesterday when I told her so im not sure, Im not sure what to do actually. Just leave that gym and go to the new 24hr one or what. Just doesn't have as much equipement as ive said, but plenty of dumbeells and the machines can make do I guess. Still undecided...

[austinite]

I wish I had your problems

[mannyg]

I wish I had your problems

WTF should I do broseph, hard to leave current gym after 3 years, get familiar with everyone, the equipem,ent and just feel very comfortable, thing is, a lot of these PT do not last long, then come and go because the 250 a week the gym charges they can not afford lol, so I assume wont be long till she goes. but on the other hand I feel bad if I go back to old gym and leave GF behind after a great training sesh. DECISIONS DECISIONS mate.

[austinite]

Umm... You're running a gram of testosterone , you're in your 7th week, and you haven't even touched an AI. I'm guessing your E2 is through the roof and you're paranoid.

[mannyg]

Umm... You're running a gram of testosterone, you're in your 7th week, and you haven't even touched an AI. I'm guessing your E2 is through the roof and you're paranoid.

yr probs right mate. think im paranoid they may try and do something to me. or even ask me for something or the likes
or ask me to come over seeing as there both ****in wierdos

just freakibf out a bit seeing as im in a rs for 2years
just hate thise situationd. i hate fucjin girl attenrion. im over it now
had plenty and im ****in done
even bulking ans being fat i still have to put up with this shit ffs
i wish i could just put somethung on that shows im in a ****in rs stop staring
to bad not married. may just stay at new gym can train anytime. even now and ifs 12.30 at night lol

[austinite]

[mannyg]

and being on a gram of test doesnt help lol being horny all the time


fml

[belva]

When chicks look at me whenever I am I just send them a kiss!

I'm sure they are daydreaming about having sex with you as they are when they do look at me. That's hard life mate...

[mannyg]

lol. when i start lactating ill send some to texas for you mate

[mannyg]

When chicks look at me whenever I am I just send them a kiss!

I'm sure they are daydreaming about having sex with you as they are when they do look at me. That's hard life mate...

lol. i just hate wheb chicks stsre because being on test i get so horny esp a gram
and dont wanna risk doubg any ****ups
so if all posibilites are removed=shuld be no ****ups

[crazy mike]

You know, oh, well you don't, but I do. When you loose your motivation and your appetite and get Gyno from no AI I promise you will not be joking about it. When you start lactating and don't want to take your shirt off you will wish you listened. W hen your blood pressure goes thru the roof and on and on. Many of the side effects of crashing E2 with AI use are the same as high E2. So Ai is important as is the proper use, which will in no way inhibit your gains if you eat and train correctly. ...crazy mike

[mannyg]

You know, oh, well you don't, but I do. When you loose your motivation and your appetite and get Gyno from no AI I promise you will not be joking about it. When you start lactating and don't want to take your shirt off you will wish you listened. W hen your blood pressure goes thru the roof and on and on. Many of the side effects of crashing E2 with AI use are the same as high E2. So Ai is important as is the proper use,


which will in no way inhibit your gains if you eat and train correctly. ...crazy mike

mike. thanks for ur input. please respect my right thread and confribute to what my op says
feel free to write ur post in my other thread. this threas is purely for talking about mh OP
thank u and pls edit ur post as itd not got anything to do with what i have asked. thank u

[crazy mike]

Don't ever tell me to edit my post if I haven't broken any rules. Aust~ made mention to you not using AI on this thread. Now we are getting off thread. But as was said to you oon another thread...You have been here how long and this is the second time you are telling people to edit their posts... Don't thinks so bud,, please mind you place as was already suggested.

Now OP, That is you I'm speaking to.... Your problems with the gym and others is a clear sig to me that your E2 is probably not in check. You see that part of an unbalanced Hormones as is with high or low E2 levels and the like bring MOOD SWINGS. It seems that maybe you are having mood swings. Check you E2 as you check your prober place and etiquette on this forum. ...crazy mike

OH and I'll feel free to post my comments on any thread I chose. AS sgt's post no rules have been broken

[--->>405<<---]

dude are u seriously bitching and thinking of quitting your gym because 2 girls stare at you when you work out???

are you gay?

WTF..

[mannyg]

dude are u seriously bitching and thinking of quitting your gym because 2 girls stare at you when you work out???

are you gay?

WTF..

lol seemsike that mate but its a bit more than that
just mzkes me feel uncomfy lol dont need that shit tbh

[--->>405<<---]

lol seemsike that mate but its a bit more than that
just mzkes me feel uncomfy lol dont need that shit tbh

lol.. ok im just going by ur OP.. hey have u considered approaching her (the slut) and seeing if maybe she wants to slut you up?? (assuming ur not married or committed of course)..

[crazy mike]

dude are u seriously bitching and thinking of quitting your gym because 2 girls stare at you when you work out???

are you gay?

WTF..

He's also afraid at looking at other women. Such is life in the male world of Test on or off cycle. .....cm

[crazy mike]

lol.. ok im just going by ur OP.. hey have u considered approaching her (the slut) and seeing if maybe she wants to slut you up?? (assuming ur not married or committed of course)..

Ya know if you can't go to the gym and concentrate on working out, because of one (1) or two (2) people , male or female. You'll always have a hard time with gains and working out to the max. ...cm

[--->>405<<---]

He's also afraid at looking at other women. Such is life in the male world of Test on or off cycle. .....cm

what does test have to do with being afraid to look at women?

[crazy mike]

what does test have to do with being afraid to look at women?

Really dude, man's inherent level of Testosterone and the make up, promote the males to think about sex more. That's what I meant. ....cm

[JAB1]

Dont you have another thread on here talking about youre on a G of test and checking out every female in sight...Soooo, you want to move gyms because a couple chicks are checking you out....Weird. ANd bitching to management, lol, I would prob laugh in your face if you came to me demanding action becaue you THINK a pt and her client look at you too much. Youre acting like a diva, Id look into that ai, or maybe a snickers bar....

[--->>405<<---]

Really dude, man's inherent level of Testosterone and the make up, promote the males to think about sex more. That's what I meant. ....cm

yeh i get that, but why would that cause u to be afraid to look at em? cuz u cant control urself? better not go to the mall then, or the grocery store, or work, or the gas station..

[crazy mike]

Dont you have another thread on here talking about youre on a G of test and checking out every female in sight...Soooo, you want to move gyms because a couple chicks are checking you out....Weird. ANd bitching to management, lol, I would prob laugh in your face if you came to me demanding action becaue you THINK a pt and her client look at you too much. Youre acting like a diva, Id look into that ai, or maybe a snickers bar....

Gotta laugh, he's not prone to Gyno he says. That's what I was telling him. If his E2 is screwed up so he will be also... I'm done OP I hope you gained some knowledge here. ...crazy mike

[GettingReal]

This thread is epic. Anyways, sounds like OP has some mental issues going on. Seriously making up in your mind what others are thinking about you and then stressing like crazy about it is a bad sign. I suggest coming off cycle and sorting your head out, get pct going, and get help if you need it as well. Others have made reasonable suggestions, consider doing something about it. Or just take them both into the locker room and plow them to relieve this tension you have between you and them.

[FONZY007]

People stare at me, I don't give a fùck!! I go to lift weights, train hard, and get out of there!!

I talk to hardly anyone, and I train with high intensity and I'm no small or weak dude, move b?tch get out the way!! Lol

[calstate23]

The fact is you more then likely will NEVER find a gym that fits to your liking in EVERY SINGLE WAY POSSIBLE...

That's what people do at a gym. They look at other people lol...Kind of hard not too....

Better then someone asking you a whole bunch of questions and following you around...I mean, it's one thing if someone is looking at you from a far or getting in the way of your workout...

And at least she "looks" away when you turn around...She probably wants your sac, how can that be such a huge issue?

And the real truth you have NO IDEA what it means cause apparently you're just assuming things and get mad about it...

You prob walk around the gym like this

[brazuka]

Complaining to management about two girls staring at you... wtf??? I have never heard anything like this in my life. Sounds like your too concentrated on whats going on around you rather than focusing on your workout, you may have some insecurity issues you need to sort out mate.

[Brett N]

Earbuds on, music up and focus. Screw everyone else.

Do what you want to do at which ever gym you prefer. If both gyms have the equipment you need, go to the one that is less busy. That way no waiting. All that matters is that you can go when you want to go, lift what you want to lift and get the hell out of there when you are done.

[ppwc1985]

I have a weird idea, why not just ignore them?

[trigger happy]

Id man up and ask them what the deal is not go to the principal... Or ignore them..... Or the best option to drop your pants and do a circular pelvic motion aka the helicopter.

When i am at the gym its headphones in this week machine head cranked full blast and train as hard and fast as i can as long as the machines are not taken. Any longer than 45min at the gym is to long for me. I havnt trained hard enough if im not ready to drop.

[Cuz]

I don't understand why you would b worried about anyone staring at you working out? Nothing really makes sense here to me. You say you are very big muscular guy lol and your worried about them looking at you because of your form etc...and maybe laughing? I think all this is in your head.

[mannyg]

cheers everyone, still undecided tho...... I like my old gym, more equipement, bigger and heavier weights, but the new one is very nice, quiet at nigh ttime etc. Still idk what to do. Sorta feel bad now if I go back to my old one, don't wanna leave the girlfriend behind after having a good sesh with her the other night....

[mannyg]

do u guys think its a waste of money to have a mebership to both gyms?

[ppwc1985]

If you got the money to spend, it's always nice to get a change of pace.

[mannyg]

If you got the money to spend, it's always nice to get a change of pace.

not exactly mate lol. I might just stay at my old gym I think.