girlfriend won't let me move in???

[canuckcaleb]

Hello all, so I've been dating this girl for 6 months i'm at her place 20 days of the month (at least) most my clothes are there. so the first of the month my roomate moves out and leaves me paying all the rent. I thought to myself damn maybe I could move to her place and help her out with rent. It was shocking when she said no! considering how much time we spend together and how often im there. She does have a roomate but we all get along. What should I do wait it out in a hotel in a couple months and ask again?

[lovbyts]

Smart girl. She sounds like a keeper. She is not thinking of just today but the long term.

Find another roommate or scale down.

[Honkey_Kong]

Hello all, so I've been dating this girl for 6 months i'm at her place 20 days of the month (at least) most my clothes are there. so the first of the month my roomate moves out and leaves me paying all the rent. I thought to myself damn maybe I could move to her place and help her out with rent. It was shocking when she said no! considering how much time we spend together and how often im there. She does have a roomate but we all get along. What should I do wait it out in a hotel in a couple months and ask again?

Dude, the biggest mistake we make (outside of marriage) is when we move in with our girlfriends. You know what the best part about having your own place? After you're done banging her, she goes home.

You might not think this is a big deal and you might think that you already spend way too much time with her. But let's put it like this, when you are at her house and vice versa, you both are WANTING to spend time together. You can at anytime send her home or leave.

It's a different story when you're laying in bed with her. You've just banged her and you're tired and wanting to go to sleep. She's wanting to talk about stupid shit that you don't care about (because you've already discussed everything there is that's interesting to talk about) and you're wishing that she'd just go home for the rest of the night. And then it dawns on you, she is home.

And don't think that life will just be peaches and cream for you too. When she's living with you, she's going to do everything in her power to stop you from doing anything by yourself. Even something as simple as going to the gym... I can guarantee after a few weeks of going 4-5 times a week, she'll give you shit about it. Like about how you're always going there or going out.

And she wont like your friends either. So guess again about having friends over on a semi-regular basis to watch football or play poker. She might let you spend your own money on a big screen TV, but you'll never get to use it on shit you want to watch. Get used to watching the fvcking Kardashians and True Blood.

Even if you have to work overtime in order to keep your place, do it. It's worth it.

[AlphaMike]

Dude, the biggest mistake we make (outside of marriage) is when we move in with our girlfriends. You know what the best part about having your own place? After you're done banging her, she goes home.

You might not think this is a big deal and you might think that you already spend way too much time with her. But let's put it like this, when you are at her house and vice versa, you both are WANTING to spend time together. You can at anytime send her home or leave.

It's a different story when you're laying in bed with her. You've just banged her and you're tired and wanting to go to sleep. She's wanting to talk about stupid shit that you don't care about (because you've already discussed everything there is that's interesting to talk about) and you're wishing that she'd just go home for the rest of the night. And then it dawns on you, she is home.

And don't think that life will just be peaches and cream for you too. When she's living with you, she's going to do everything in her power to stop you from doing anything by yourself. Even something as simple as going to the gym... I can guarantee after a few weeks of going 4-5 times a week, she'll give you shit about it. Like about how you're always going there or going out.

And she wont like your friends either. So guess again about having friends over on a semi-regular basis to watch football or play poker. She might let you spend your own money on a big screen TV, but you'll never get to use it on shit you want to watch. Get used to watching the fvcking Kardashians and True Blood.

Even if you have to work overtime in order to keep your place, do it. It's worth it.

Listen to this man, he is wise.

And no do not ask her again, ever. She told you no once which means she fukin doesn't want it so why push it? If its a serious relationship you'll probably end up together eventually and look back on these as the good ol' days when you didn't have to share a bathroom with all her cosmetic shit and dirty lingerie everywhere. Rant concluded.

[Othello]

man just enjoy those moments you have to yourself...trust me once you move in your life will change...you might eventually get there but why rush?? she is not ready for this yet so give her time ... and enjoy your time while doing this

get a cheaper house or have a new room mate with u....

[austinite]

I think you should move in immediately. That way I'm not the only one who f*cks up.

[crazy mike]

man just enjoy those moments you have to yourself...trust me once you move in your life will change...you might eventually get there but why rush?? she is not ready for this yet so give her time ... and enjoy your time while doing this

get a cheaper house or have a new room mate with u....

Without details. ^^^^ I like what Othello said. I say man you are so young. Both of you don't have a clue what's next in life. If either one of you are hesitant then don't go there.

Listen aat your age you can fall in and out of love fast. She will not be happy playing house wife and with my experience that's what happens quickly whether or not you plan it to be that way. This is yours and this is mine or it's all a free for all will not work either way. Both of you are not set in your individual lives yet so how can you get set as two in one.

A good Question to ask, good thinking.! So continue to think about the long haul. Good luck my friend. ...crazy mike

[jasc]

I think you should move in immediately. That way I'm not the only one who f*cks up.

lmao

What Aus says

When she said no, she really meant yes.

Next time she goes to work start moving all of your sh*t in, it'll show a real "take charge" attitude. Girls love that.

[austinite]

Yeah, in EVERY situation involving a broad... NO means MAYBE. And restraining orders are just a way of saying I love you.

Find a broad that leaves a trail of glitter behind. Your life will be filled with excitement. Not defining excitement. Muaahahahaha.

[--->>405<<---]

LMAO..

[Hazard]

Advertise on Craigslist for a hot female roommate. Then when ur gf gets pissed..... Tell her u can't afford rent alone and she didn't want to live together so u have no choice lol

[Hazard]

Dude, the biggest mistake we make (outside of marriage) is when we move in with our girlfriends. You know what the best part about having your own place? After you're done banging her, she goes home.

You might not think this is a big deal and you might think that you already spend way too much time with her. But let's put it like this, when you are at her house and vice versa, you both are WANTING to spend time together. You can at anytime send her home or leave.

It's a different story when you're laying in bed with her. You've just banged her and you're tired and wanting to go to sleep. She's wanting to talk about stupid shit that you don't care about (because you've already discussed everything there is that's interesting to talk about) and you're wishing that she'd just go home for the rest of the night. And then it dawns on you, she is home.

And don't think that life will just be peaches and cream for you too. When she's living with you, she's going to do everything in her power to stop you from doing anything by yourself. Even something as simple as going to the gym... I can guarantee after a few weeks of going 4-5 times a week, she'll give you shit about it. Like about how you're always going there or going out.

And she wont like your friends either. So guess again about having friends over on a semi-regular basis to watch football or play poker. She might let you spend your own money on a big screen TV, but you'll never get to use it on shit you want to watch. Get used to watching the fvcking Kardashians and True Blood.

Even if you have to work overtime in order to keep your place, do it. It's worth it.

Fvckin A lol...... Couldn't have said it better myself.

[austinite]

Advertise on Craigslist for a hot female roommate. Then when ur gf gets pissed..... Tell her u can't afford rent alone and she didn't want to live together so u have no choice lol

Backpage. BJ's for Rent if she falls short.

[Hazard]

Backpage. BJ's for Rent if she falls short.

Bingo

[Juced_porkchop]

I moved in with my GF under a year of dating her also.. and its been 6 years since... but i do go crazy.. but it works out, its lucky it works out. I do not rec what I did because for many it would not be best move... most relationships fall apart miving in. and i DO think you should move in with hr for atleast a year... BEFORE GETTING MARRIED! if you are not at that point of commitment to get merrid, then dont move in!
I BET she is thinking same thing; move in, then marriage soon after. maybe shes not ready for that kind of pressure yet, only been 6 months.
Give her space with moving in.

[Juced_porkchop]

Advertise on Craigslist for a hot female roommate. Then when ur gf gets pissed..... Tell her u can't afford rent alone and she didn't want to live together so u have no choice lol

LOLOL or that... lol

[satisfaction1822]

Hahaha exactly! I showed this thread to my GF. She's been pushing to move in to my house. I always say no. 3 years and she spends alot of time over mostly atmy house. But it's nice to k ow she can just leave wenever.

[Bert]

If you really care about her, you reallyshouldnt ask her and put her in that awkward position.

[MuscleInk]

Dude, the biggest mistake we make (outside of marriage) is when we move in with our girlfriends. You know what the best part about having your own place? After you're done banging her, she goes home.

You might not think this is a big deal and you might think that you already spend way too much time with her. But let's put it like this, when you are at her house and vice versa, you both are WANTING to spend time together. You can at anytime send her home or leave.

It's a different story when you're laying in bed with her. You've just banged her and you're tired and wanting to go to sleep. She's wanting to talk about stupid shit that you don't care about (because you've already discussed everything there is that's interesting to talk about) and you're wishing that she'd just go home for the rest of the night. And then it dawns on you, she is home.

And don't think that life will just be peaches and cream for you too. When she's living with you, she's going to do everything in her power to stop you from doing anything by yourself. Even something as simple as going to the gym... I can guarantee after a few weeks of going 4-5 times a week, she'll give you shit about it. Like about how you're always going there or going out.

And she wont like your friends either. So guess again about having friends over on a semi-regular basis to watch football or play poker. She might let you spend your own money on a big screen TV, but you'll never get to use it on shit you want to watch. Get used to watching the fvcking Kardashians and True Blood.

Even if you have to work overtime in order to keep your place, do it. It's worth it.

^^^This x 1,000,000,000.
Just don't do it for every reason HK said and then some!

[Shinalynn]

From a females point of view.. I love having my own place and my own space. 6 months in? Give me a year maybe a year and a half. Oh and get your crap out of her house. Maybe that's why she doesn't want you to move in together, she feels like you already have n how many times have you helped out with groceries or bills?? Not to sound like a b!tch.. BUT have you thought of it from that point of view?

[austinite]

^ lol. Money talks, eh?

[redz]

Your profile says you are 18, you should be out on a rampage don't think about settling down until your life is in order.

[MuscleInk]

^ lol. Money talks, eh?

Always!