AAS use and your spouse/girlfriend..hide it or reveal?

[Cuz]

So fellows what do you do? Keep your usage to yourself or let your significant other know about the lives we live?

How do they react... Do they even react. ..Do they care...Do they act crazy about it? Upset? Mad? ...

Post your thoughts if you will..

[austinite]

Deny Deny Deny. It's not anyone's business in my world.

[kelkel]

deny deny deny. It's not anyone's business in my world.

x2...

[AD]

i hide it. 99.9999% of non-users will think of users as cheaters. no real benefits to reveal it.

[Euroholic]

Why live your life a lie. If someone asks me i say yes. If not i don't bring it up. Unless its another enthusiast

[David LoPan]

Deny Deny Deny. It's not anyone's business in my world.

yup! My wife knows I am on TRT but no clue about anything else. Think of it this way, do you tell your spouse/girlfriend that you want to bang about every hot chick you see or do you hide it?

Do you tell your spouse/girlfriend that you masturbate or watch porn?

Do you tell your spouse/girlfriend the real number of girls you have slept with?

I could go on

[diesel101]

Deny Deny Deny. It's not anyone's business in my world.

Agree 100%!
I tell my wife the gains I make must be from the diet and trt.

[JDP88]

Im not saying come out and tell her... but I don't like to hide anything! In time certain people should know, Certain ones shouldnt...i don't think anybody should have to keep secrets or pretend there.something that there not. Plus, once you lose trust, you never "genuinely" get it back. Go with your gut tho...

[GirlyGymRat]

I don't see ANY advantage to sharing. It's really no one's biz. Don't do it and don't justify doing it.

Ppl will use this knowledge to their benefit. Most ppl are smucks!

[Euroholic]

Isn't being open and honest part of the covenant of marriage? Why get married if you cant confide in your partner?

[dk94]

My wife knows. I don't know how one could hide/explain going from a a supercharged sex drive to super low in week.

[Bigshotvictoria]

I hid it once. It was a nightmare when she found out. Now I just go natural. Better than fighting with her about it.

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[Euroholic]

My wife knows. I don't know how one could hide/explain going from a a supercharged sex drive to super low in week.

Haha that made me laugh.

[lovbyts]

yup! My wife knows I am on TRT but no clue about anything else. Think of it this way, do you tell your spouse/girlfriend that you want to bang about every hot chick you see or do you hide it?

Do you tell your spouse/girlfriend that you masturbate or watch porn?

Do you tell your spouse/girlfriend the real number of girls you have slept with?

I could go on

Wow, all good points. Actually I'm way to honest. If I'm asked I have a hard time lying but I'm learning. Thankfully there are a lot of things she does not ask.

Mine is actually OK with the idea because she did some research online when I told her I was on TRT and about a few other substances. It's also hard to hide when you take over the kitchen and dinner table for a good part of the day with sterile equipment, vials, flasks, filters and the house smells like chemicals. That B12 is a b*tch to make properly. lol

Still everything needs to be kept out of sight, out of miind and done in privacy as much as possible. No reason to advertise even in private. Even with I do my TRT injections it's in private.

I hid it once. It was a nightmare when she found out. Now I just go natural. Better than fighting with her about it.

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In other words you got better at hiding it?
Ive gotten better at hiding my porn usage also. hehehe

[Euroholic]

Wow, all good points. Actually I'm way to honest. If I'm asked I have a hard time lying but I'm learning. Thankfully there are a lot of things she does not ask.

Mine is actually OK with the idea because she did some research online when I told her I was on TRT and about a few other substances. It's also hard to hide when you take over the kitchen and dinner table for a good part of the day with sterile equipment, vials, flasks, filters and the house smells like chemicals. That B12 is a b*tch to make properly. lol

Still everything needs to be kept out of sight, out of miind and done in privacy as much as possible. No reason to advertise even in private. Even with I do my TRT injections it's in private.



In other words you got better at hiding it?
Ive gotten better at hiding my porn usage also. hehehe

But its your home mate you shouldn't have to "tippy toe" around your own house.

[AD]

Why live your life a lie. If someone asks me i say yes. If not i don't bring it up. Unless its another enthusiast

Isn't being open and honest part of the covenant of marriage? Why get married if you cant confide in your partner?

But its your home mate you shouldn't have to "tippy toe" around your own house.

wow, euro, i never thought of you to be so idealistic. but to me, the ideal world does not exist.

[marcus300]

If you and your partner/wife are having difficulties and she knows about your full usage then she will use that to have a go and blame the gear for the problem. If your relationship is on tricky ground you got a load of fuking hassle because they will use it to the max. Its something else they can have a go at you for and also they have something solid to cause a fight with.

If your living the dream life with your partner and she asks then you have to think what advantage is there from her knowing, you have to know what kind of person she is and how will she react. This is down to knowing her and if it would cause you any kind of hassle in her knowing what your doing with aas. No one can say to you to tell her because every situation is different you have to way up what may or may not happen.

[lovbyts]

But its your home mate you shouldn't have to "tippy toe" around your own house.

Have you ever had a friend or watched any of the divorce court stuff? EVERY woman is vindictive. OK maybe only 99.9% and they will use anything and every thing against you in divorce. If they dont have anything on you most of them have no problems making sh*t up even if it's something that could destroy you for life because in most cases this is their ultimate goal. I know, Ive been there and seen it many times.

You dont have to tippy toe, you need to be smart and protect yourself. Over 60%+ marriages end in divorce and no one goes into it thinking it will happen to them but the facts are facts.

[Cuz]

Thanks for everyone's responses this thread was a little personal as I'm in a situation that is a little stressful to say the least related to my AAS use . I appreciate the input.

[mikey hulk]

I talked to my wife about it
She understands how serious I am about it

[DontTaseMeBro]

I definitely wouldn't tell a girlfriend. I would and have told my wife. She would be much more pissed off about sneaking around or hiding something than she is about me using gear. During my last cycle, she actually said it made me better to be around and has now started asking when I can cycle again - lol.

[Times Roman]

So fellows what do you do? Keep your usage to yourself or let your significant other know about the lives we live?

How do they react... Do they even react. ..Do they care...Do they act crazy about it? Upset? Mad? ...

Post your thoughts if you will..

do not tell a GF. Ever

can be used against you in a break up......

.......and don't say, "It won't happen to me"

Fools say that

[Hazard]

I didnt wanna tell my wife (now ex) and she or real suspicious. If she doesn't "know" you're on steroids..... You're doing them wrong lol.

My gf now knows. I didnt disclose anything but when she moved in she asked me about it. I told her I'm on doctor prescribed trt. Then after a bit I told her its cheaper for me to get it on my own. Then after a bit more time I told her I'm going take a bit extra.....

Needless to say she offers to do my shots for me. If your girl loves you for who you are..... She'll support it. That's if you make her feel comfortable with you knowing what you're doing.

I will never be with another woman that tells me I CAN'T do anything. Ill never hide it to the extent I did again. If she lives with you she will ask questions if not find out...... Period.

[ac guy]

My girlfriend knows i use. She doesnt care as long as i dont get "too big" lol. Whatever the hell that means.

[songdog]

I didnt wanna tell my wife (now ex) and she or real suspicious. If she doesn't "know" you're on steroids..... You're doing them wrong lol.

My gf now knows. I didnt disclose anything but when she moved in she asked me about it. I told her I'm on doctor prescribed trt. Then after a bit I told her its cheaper for me to get it on my own. Then after a bit more time I told her I'm going take a bit extra.....

Needless to say she offers to do my shots for me. If your girl loves you for who you are..... She'll support it. That's if you make her feel comfortable with you knowing what you're doing.

I will never be with another woman that tells me I CAN'T do anything. Ill never hide it to the extent I did again. If she lives with you she will ask questions if not find out...... Period.

Aint you just the lil fibber

[songdog]

This is something she can use against you.Let things go south in your relationship.And she wants you gone.Guess wat? One call and your life is turned upside down FELON!!

[PistolPete33]

I'm on TRT and my wife knows all about it. However, she has no idea that I blast or at least never says anything. She's caught me on some UGL websites but I just tell her I'm just comparing pricing vs what I'm paying at the pharmacy. I don't think she really cares because our lives have gotten much better since I started TRT.

[David LoPan]

Then you could find a doctor that will write you scripts for deca, avar and test and just do it legal and say you have an RX for it.

[dk94]

One thing is true, dont ever tell a girlfriend. I tell my wife, but she knows of things ive done a lot worse than using steroids. I figure if shes looking for things to use against me one day that will be down the list a bit

[clarky.]

My misses does not mind at all but years ago when i first spoke about it she was not keen because she and me never really new much about aas. So i joined here and learned.
But even if she was not ok with it tuff i would have still did it anyway no one will tell me what i can and can't do. As for anybody els i just deny it becouse they have no clue about aas.

[Honkey_Kong]

I absolutely don't think you should keep it a secret from your spouse (and maybe girlfriend if you guys are doing the Mad About You thing). Sure, if things go sour it can really be used to fvck you over (especially if kids are involved). But at that point it isn't YOUR life anymore, it's YOU TWO's life.

What happens to you affects her and vice versa. And where does the double life end? Keeping things from your spouse is the same as lying to them as far as I'm concerned.

Since keeping them out of the loop is out of the question, it gives you a lot more to ponder before you decided to take steroids. Is it still worth risking all that for some muscle?

And like Hazard said, if they can't tell you're on steroids, you're doing something wrong.

I'm at the point in my life where I don't care who knows I use steroids anyways. Why try to hide something you can't really hide? I can understand not announcing it to everybody at work. But friends and family? Who cares?

[joebailey1271]

TRT is one thing, the UGL is another, women can be very vengfull if u piss them off just right.

[evander87]

My last few gf's have been competitors. You can't be around the sport and not know what's going on. I won't disclose that I'm in but if asked I won't lie either.

Eat meticulous, train ridiculous for best results.

[< <Samson> >]

Hard for me to deny it when she's the one jabbing me with a spike


Just depends - My current woman thinks it makes me a better me(aight), my ex wife would freak out and start crying that I am some drug slamming maniac.


Really depends on your life style. . . . If I had some part time woman, fvck no - I wouldn't tell her shit

I just can't see a semi solid relationship where you can hide juice use. It's a pretty big thing - Hey wtf? Your dick stopped working. . . . . Ummmmmm, I'm on PCT from these pro hormones I got at Sam's Club.

[Cuz]

Hard for me to deny it when she's the one jabbing me with a spike


Just depends - My current woman thinks it makes me a better me(aight), my ex wife would freak out and start crying that I am some drug slamming maniac.


Really depends on your life style. . . . If I had some part time woman, fvck no - I wouldn't tell her shit

I just can't see a semi solid relationship where you can hide juice use. It's a pretty big thing - Hey wtf? Your dick stopped working. . . . . Ummmmmm, I'm on PCT from these pro hormones I got at Sam's Club.

Real talk right there it is very hard to hide...well I can't hide it. Its impossible actually living with a woman...drug attics that's all we are right you are...lol

[carbo]

I can't see a healthy relationship work where you'd keep this your little dirty secret.

[diesel101]

I can't see a healthy relationship work where you'd keep this your little dirty secret.

I keep a happy marriage
By not telling her!

[< <Samson> >]

Theoretically you don't have to tell anyone jack shit

But,


See how it goes if it ever comes out. How it's hidden is above and beyond me


It's kinda like other shit you shouldn't do while within a relationship. Works when hidden, sure sucks ass when it comes out.

[Megalodon6]

My wife knows about it. But I can definitely understand if someone were to lie about.

[Bigshotvictoria]

Here's a question to those who hide it:

How do you hide your HCG? I just can't imagine hiding a mixed vial behind the eggs and her not being a little curious...

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