The Cold, Hard Truth About Cheating, Based On Science -- nice one

[Othello]

just came across this...not bad.

The Cold, Hard Truth About Cheating, Based On Science


duno how accurate though


loved this part:
dunno how accurate though :P so lets see...opinions anyone??

[lovbyts]

Where was the science? I didnt read anything new or that hasnt been known for the last 1000+ years.

[Othello]

hehehe thats y i posted. figured out here some of the scientifically inclined bros would give it a shot and explain to us laymen :P

[kronik420]

having sex with the same girl ED gets boring after a few months or so...

[thisAngelBites]

having sex with the same girl ED gets boring after a few months or so...

I agree, meaning having sex with the same man ED gets boring after a few months. At least most of the women I know feel this way.

[thisAngelBites]

having sex with the same girl ED gets boring after a few months or so...

Oops, double post.

[lovbyts]

I agree, meaning having sex with the same man ED gets boring after a few months. At least most of the women I know feel this way.

And that's why we try to spice things up by bringing other women into the mix. Now get out there and tell your female friends to stop complaining.

Men are visual creatures. It doesn't matter if we are sitting in a Ferrari , if we see another nice Ferrari we are going to look, admire and probably covet it.

Men are naturally polygamous where women are not. It has been proven over 1000s of years and trying to change it just because of laws is not so easy, just like although the LEGAL age of consent is 18 you arent going to stop hormones from turning on until 18.

[thisAngelBites]

Men are visual creatures. It doesn't matter if we are sitting in a Ferrari , if we see another nice Ferrari we are going to look, admire and probably covet it.

Ah, same for women.

[thisAngelBites]

Men are naturally polygamous where women are not. It has been proven over 1000s of years and trying to change it just because of laws is not so easy, just like although the LEGAL age of consent is 18 you arent going to stop hormones from turning on until 18.

I agree about the hormones and the law.

The part about women not being naturally not polygamous (monogamous) is not true, as far as I know. I suspect that's older research you're referring to. I've read about experiments even with chimps in the last ten years, where the female *regularly* sneak off to have sex with other than the alpha male.

I suspect that the male researchers of yore didn't see any of that because they didn't want to see that.

And anyway, don't married women cheat almost as much as married men? Isn't that pretty dispositive that women are not monogamous?

[austinite]

I faked an orgasm once.

[thisAngelBites]

I faked an orgasm once.

I'll bet you were fabulous and s/he wasn't at all bored.

[austinite]

I'll bet you were fabulous and s/he wasn't at all bored.

haha. She, no slash

Really though, it's human nature to lose interest in a significant other. I'm on and off at all times with relationships. When I'm alone, I tend to miss having someone around regularly. When I'm with someone, I shy away from committing to that one person. But I don't ever cheat, I just end the misery.

Marriage was an entirely poor experience for me. So that's one thing I certainly do know. I'll never get married and don't have the slightest interest in a wife or children.

Rarely do I come across anyone intelligent, however. That sucks. Imagine if I went out with a broad as intelligent and well spoken as you. Man..... that might change everything!

Coffee?

[thisAngelBites]

haha. She, no slash

Really though, it's human nature to lose interest in a significant other. I'm on and off at all times with relationships. When I'm alone, I tend to miss having someone around regularly. When I'm with someone, I shy away from committing to that one person. But I don't ever cheat, I just end the misery.

Marriage was an entirely poor experience for me. So that's one thing I certainly do know. I'll never get married and don't have the slightest interest in a wife or children.

Rarely do I come across anyone intelligent, however. That sucks. Imagine if I went out with a broad as intelligent and well spoken as you. Man..... that might change everything!

Coffee?

I'm totally with you on the intelligent partner thing. When I was 15 I fancied a guy who looked like a god and even though I suspected there was very little in his cranium, I went out with him. He was practically illiterate and I learned my lesson there and then.

[thisAngelBites]

haha. She, no slash

Really though, it's human nature to lose interest in a significant other. I'm on and off at all times with relationships. When I'm alone, I tend to miss having someone around regularly. When I'm with someone, I shy away from committing to that one person. But I don't ever cheat, I just end the misery.

Marriage was an entirely poor experience for me. So that's one thing I certainly do know. I'll never get married and don't have the slightest interest in a wife or children.

Rarely do I come across anyone intelligent, however. That sucks. Imagine if I went out with a broad as intelligent and well spoken as you. Man..... that might change everything!

Coffee?

You know, it is such a cliche to hear that marriage takes a lot of work, but it is hard to convey just how much profound shifting of self has to take place to be in a long term relationship. I think most of it is good, if the partners are very well suited, but I totally understand why not everyone is into it, and when it's bad, it's really bad. I was married once before, and I learned a lot from it.

I'm very similar in that I crave company when alone, and sometimes crave solitude when in a relationship. I guess we're both contrarians.

I'll bet you could get on match.com or something and find yourself someone intelligent. The challenge is probably the intelligence level in a package that you find appealing. ;-)

[austinite]

I'm totally with you on the intelligent partner thing. When I was 15 I fancied a guy who looked like a god and even though I suspected there was very little in his cranium, I went out with him. He was practically illiterate and I learned my lesson there and then.

lol. agreed! Sex is great, but the fact is we "generally" are interacting more often than not in a non-sexual matter (dominant time spent). Most/all guys have sex on their mind at all times, and wonder why even that gets old. They never take into account that they are on different intellectual levels with their partners, and that drives them apart.

[austinite]

You know, it is such a cliche to hear that marriage takes a lot of work, but it is hard to convey just how much profound shifting of self has to take place to be in a long term relationship. I think most of it is good, if the partners are very well suited, but I totally understand why not everyone is into it, and when it's bad, it's really bad. I was married once before, and I learned a lot from it.

I'm very similar in that I crave company when alone, and sometimes crave solitude when in a relationship. I guess we're both contrarians.

I'll bet you could get on match.com or something and find yourself someone intelligent. The challenge is probably the intelligence level in a package that you find appealing. ;-)

My dream woman is my endocrinologist, but I can't have her

Well said, TAB. This is strange for a male to admit, but I would give up some level of sexual satisfaction for highbrowness.

[thisAngelBites]

My dream woman is my endocrinologist, but I can't have her

Well said, TAB. This is strange for a male to admit, but I would give up some level of sexual satisfaction for highbrowness.

Don't give up yet, there's a lot of time and her circumstances may change.

I'm with you: smart women are sexy.

[Rusty11]

You know, it is such a cliche to hear that marriage takes a lot of work, but it is hard to convey just how much profound shifting of self has to take place to be in a long term relationship. I think most of it is good, if the partners are very well suited, but I totally understand why not everyone is into it, and when it's bad, it's really bad. I was married once before, and I learned a lot from it.

I'm very similar in that I crave company when alone, and sometimes crave solitude when in a relationship. I guess we're both contrarians.

I'll bet you could get on match.com or something and find yourself someone intelligent. The challenge is probably the intelligence level in a package that you find appealing. ;-)

No. The challenge would be not ending up with a psychotic axe murderer.

[lovbyts]

My dream woman is my endocrinologist, but I can't have her

Well said, TAB. This is strange for a male to admit, but I would give up some level of sexual satisfaction for highbrowness.

See and this is one of my reasoning for why it's important to get them young enough to make sure they are educated properly.

[Cuz]

Nice article. But I'd like to see some cited sources and actual credibility. I can't read the fine print on mobile. Thanks.

[thisAngelBites]

No. The challenge would be not ending up with a psychotic axe murderer.

For the record, one of my best friends is still with the good guy she met on match.com about 15 years ago! However unlikely.

[GirlyGymRat]

I liked every angel post.


Guys get boring too and I notice men. My radar is high functioning. LoL

[kronik420]

relationships are kinda like a cycle..takes a few weeks to kick in, the next 8-12 weeks are great, any longer than that and it kinda drags on.. then you need a break before beginning the next one..which reminds me....

[RaginCajun]

Don't give up yet, there's a lot of time and her circumstances may change. I'm with you: smart women are sexy.

Yes, smart women are sexy!

[RaginCajun]

relationships are kinda like a cycle..takes a few weeks to kick in, the next 8-12 weeks are great, any longer than that and it kinda drags on.. then you need a break before beginning the next one..which reminds me....

Hahaha! I like that analogy!

[DAAS]

"Woman with husbands who have large penises?" looks like i am extra safe there!

[Times Roman]

Where was the science? I didnt read anything new or that hasnt been known for the last 1000+ years.

If LB read it and says it's a bunch of BS...
...then I'm not wasting my time by reading it.

[Rwy]

The only way I stay faithful in a relationship is by thinking about how distraught and ruined my fiancee would be if I did that to her. Its not about love, friendship, spicing it up its just how my brain works. Its the only way I can stay faithful. I was meant to re design vagina but the rules of society deem otherwise....What can you do

[Black]

I don't know why most people feel they need to be monogamous. It goes against everything else in human nature. As humans, we want change. Whether it be a hairstyle to a lifestyle. We change clothes, jobs, thoughts, interests, you name it. But then we try and maintain a relationship with the same person, until we die?

[DAAS]

Its nice to have some one around to talk to and share deep shit with. Its like a best friend that you ****, idk Im kinda love guy, but in the end it definitely is not natural to be monogamous. Cheating is inevitable, so just give a hall pass or be very creative in your sex life.

I don't know why most people feel they need to be monogamous. It goes against everything else in human nature. As humans, we want change. Whether it be a hairstyle to a lifestyle. We change clothes, jobs, thoughts, interests, you name it. But then we try and maintain a relationship with the same person, until we die?

[Roger11]

What in the FK are you all talking about?
Ive been with the same girl for years now and not once have i thought that my sex life, or RS is boring.

Ive even used up to a gram of Testosterone and could control myself. You all must have boring ass lifes lol

[songdog]

I played that game once whenI was a kid.I like my free time too much to share it with more than 1 person.Plus I hate to lie.And yes I got caught and was embarrest.She let me know right before we got married

[lovbyts]

What in the FK are you all talking about?
Ive been with the same girl for years now and not once have i thought that my sex life, or RS is boring.

Ive even used up to a gram of Testosterone and could control myself. You all must have boring ass lifes lol

That's good for you but has she cheated???? Women are better at hiding it.

Everyone is different. If we were all the same the world would be pretty boring. No soap operas, no reality TV, all women would be the same height, weight, measurements because we would all be interested in the same thing.

Dont be to quick to judge everyone by your personal experience. As they say, dont be quick to judge until you walk a mile in someone else shoes.