I could never date someone that doesn't lift/do physical exercise regularly.

[jay94]

Seriously, you people whose life partner doesn't do any exercise, I don't know how you do it.

I could never date a girl who doesn't lift, who has chicken legs and no abs, who doesn't care about her macros, who eats whatever she wants whenever she feels like it.

If you ask me in real life, I will tell you that I am an humble guy and that I respect everyone because we all have walk a different path in life. And there's a part of me that wants to think like that, too. But secretly, I also despise and look down on people who live an unhealthy lifestyle. Maybe it's because I'm young and stupid and arrogant, I don't know, but I don't understand how you can dedicate your entire life to living a healthy lifestyle and at the same time share your everyday life with someone who doesn't.

[Hoggage_54]

[jay94]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society. Personally, it's the last thing I will look at in a girl. First, I will ask, does she have a squat booty and thick legs? Then, how is her core? Then I will look at her facial features... The size of breasts doesn't even hit my mind, as long as the girl isn't abnormally flat chested.

[austinite]

Coca cola.

[Hoggage_54]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society.

[bigZthedestroyer]

I never look at boobs first..I always look at the eyes..If they're not looking at my eyes, I go to the boobs!!

[Cuz]

Sounds like you have some insecurities

[David LoPan]

Have to keep seeing them boobs! ^^^^^

Its due to you being young. I went through that phase. Then when you commit to someone your priorities do change. If my wife lost her legs or an arm I would still be here. I have to say that she was a lot fitter when we got married but having two kids will take it toll on a body. She is not working on it and never "let herself go". When she does gain some weight he boobs do get bigger so it like I am with a different woman!

[Rusty11]

[austinite]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society.

There are more straight men than gay. That's why. It's the dominant sexual orientation. If you visit a region dominant in gay males, you will find that they are not obsessed with female breasts.

[Black]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society. Personally, it's the last thing I will look at in a girl. First, I will ask, does she have a squat booty and thick legs? Then, how is her core? Then I will look at her facial features... The size of breasts doesn't even hit my mind, as long as the girl isn't abnormally flat chested.

I love it when I come across people who are so close-minded and think that everyone should (or does) think like them. You like legs and butt, some like boobs. Others like feet and eyes. No one gives a sh!t about personality.

Its called preference and people have different ones. I'd like to think I made a difference and educated with this post.

[lovbyts]

There are more straight men than gay. That's why. It's the dominant sexual orientation. If you visit a region dominant in gay males, you will find that they are not obsessed with female breasts.

You said that much more elegantly than I would have.

[Honkey_Kong]

There are more important things to your mate than how she looks. There are so few decent women out there in the world that when you finally find one, her looks shouldn't be an issue. It's great if you find one that is hot, but it shouldn't be a deal breaker.

[lovbyts]

There are more important things to your mate than how she looks. There are so few decent women out there in the world that when you finally find one, her looks shouldn't be an issue. It's great if you find one that is hot, but it shouldn't be a deal breaker.

There are also plenty of women who dont need to work out to be in decent/good shape because they dont over eat, eat all the wrong things all the time or sit on their ass watching TV all day.

Mine has probably been in a gym less than 2 dozen times in her life and at 5' 4" weighs about 105 lbs. Sure she could tone up a little by by no means needs to by a gym rat. As said, there is more to life but that being said I would not be married to a fat ass either and have told her if she gets over 110 lbs I'm hooking her up to a play to till the fields.

[Times Roman]

it happens mate. life is cyclical. we all start out young, beautiful ('cept for me) and in great shape. then life happens. kids. jobs.

you don't dump the mother of your children, your partner of 28 years, just because she's put on a few pounds.

....you bug the shit out of her, and try to get her back on course is what you do!

[Times Roman]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society. Personally, it's the last thing I will look at in a girl. First, I will ask, does she have a squat booty and thick legs? Then, how is her core? Then I will look at her facial features... The size of breasts doesn't even hit my mind, as long as the girl isn't abnormally flat chested.

for me, it's the eyes, then the smile.
....a lady can be a knockout, but if her eyes aren't right, or something wrong with the smile, I don't feel the chemistry

[Hazard]

There are more important things to your mate than how she looks. There are so few decent women out there in the world that when you finally find one, her looks shouldn't be an issue. It's great if you find one that is hot, but it shouldn't be a deal breaker.

BINGO!

I found one that took my daughter in as her own. No body I've ever been with could match her..... Not even close. It just so happens that she has that Dominican ass that I love too..... So it's all good :-)

[jay94]

Well I must be overly superficial then, because to me, physical appearance is everything. If you are a nice person with a nice personality, I can appreciate that and we can talk be friends, but you will never have my children or lay in my bed, and more importantly, I will never, ever fully respect you. To me it isn't simply about having a nice body... It's also about personality, as I truly believe that having a really well built body takes a level of dedication and hard work that doesn't compare to that of anything else in life. It's a reflection of who you are in your daily life because living healthy is a 7/24 thing. Maybe it's wrong to think like that, maybe I'm a bad person, I don't know, but I can't help it, that's just how I feel deep inside.

[Cuz]

Well I must be overly superficial then, because to me, physical appearance is everything. If you are a nice person with a nice personality, I can appreciate that and we can talk be friends, but you will never have my children or lay in my bed, and more importantly, I will never, ever fully respect you. To me it isn't simply about having a nice body... It's also about personality, as I truly believe that having a really well built body takes a level of dedication and hard work that doesn't compare to that of anything else in life. It's a reflection of who you are in your daily life because living healthy is a 7/24 thing. Maybe it's wrong to think like that, maybe I'm a bad person, I don't know, but I can't help it, that's just how I feel deep inside.

I think we have a "redz" jr....

[Hazard]

Well I must be overly superficial then, because to me, physical appearance is everything. If you are a nice person with a nice personality, I can appreciate that and we can talk be friends, but you will never have my children or lay in my bed, and more importantly, I will never, ever fully respect you. To me it isn't simply about having a nice body... It's also about personality, as I truly believe that having a really well built body takes a level of dedication and hard work that doesn't compare to that of anything else in life. It's a reflection of who you are in your daily life because living healthy is a 7/24 thing. Maybe it's wrong to think like that, maybe I'm a bad person, I don't know, but I can't help it, that's just how I feel deep inside.

So you will find a fitness competitor..... Have kids with her..... Be happy for 15-20 years and then she decides she's goin to cut it back because she's tired of it all and being a mother is wearing her out. You're going to up and leave and get a divorce if she puts some weight on?

Just trying to get the full story here.....

[jay94]

So you will find a fitness competitor..... Have kids with her..... Be happy for 15-20 years and then she decides she's goin to cut it back because she's tired of it all and being a mother is wearing her out. You're going to up and leave and get a divorce if she puts some weight on?

Just trying to get the full story here.....

Honestly, that's a fear I have. Actually, I fear aging in general... But alas, I know it cannot be escaped, at least not with the technological means that are available to the masses currently. But if I could, I would stay young forever! I seriously cannot picture myself in 30 years from now, it just scares me too much to try and do so. Honestly, that's why I'm so interested about steroids . Right now, I'm young - barely 20 - so I don't need steroids at all, I just need to train hard and eat smart, but I know there's unevitably going to be a point where I'll have no choice but to use them if I don't want to see myself age and become depressed as a result.

[kelkel]

It's the dominant sexual orientation. When I vacation in a region dominant in gay males, I find that they are not obsessed with female breasts.

Interesting.

[lovbyts]

Don't worry the universe has plans for people like you. You will end up having an accident that either you are severely disfigured, become a paraplegic or simply die and you will never have to worry about any of those things.

Life has a way of changing how you think it's going to go

[hawk14dl]

I don't judge other people's lifestyles.

hell I enjoy a pizza and beer every now and then. (Ok me like once a week). I couldn't be with someone that was so obsessed over macros that we couldn't go enjoy a nasty ass greasy pizza every now and then

[Hoggage_54]

Interesting.

lolololol!!!

[Hoggage_54]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts in today's society. Personally, it's the last thing I will look at in a girl. First, I will ask, does she have a squat booty and thick legs? Then, how is her core? Then I will look at her facial features... The size of breasts doesn't even hit my mind, as long as the girl isn't abnormally flat chested.

I found a perfect girl for you, but you will have to fight Austinite for her...

[Honkey_Kong]

Honestly, that's a fear I have. Actually, I fear aging in general... But alas, I know it cannot be escaped, at least not with the technological means that are available to the masses currently. But if I could, I would stay young forever! I seriously cannot picture myself in 30 years from now, it just scares me too much to try and do so. Honestly, that's why I'm so interested about steroids. Right now, I'm young - barely 20 - so I don't need steroids at all, I just need to train hard and eat smart, but I know there's unevitably going to be a point where I'll have no choice but to use them if I don't want to see myself age and become depressed as a result.

Even guys who use AAS and other things eventually get old. It's not a prison sentence either. Part of this is that you have a mind of a 20 year old. Eventually, you'll get over your "Peter Pan" syndrome. For your sake, I hope you don't miss the right woman because you hadn't grown up in time.

And if you want to keep feeling young in to your old age, it's simple. Don't worry about it. Just keep active.

[Lunk1]

I wasn't a boob guy either...till I bought my wife some

[JAB1]

LOL you are young and it shows. Nothing wrong with that. You will change as you grow. Lifting is important to us here, sure. But to not respect someone who doesnt train like you is flawed thinking. If anything alot of people lack respect for you, because while you are focusing all your energy on YOUR body, they may be sacrificing time on themselves to oh i dont know, cure cancer or something.......big world out there buddy, open up to it, you might be amazed... Side not, my wife doesnt train

[kelkel]

I wasn't a boob guy either...till I bought my wife some

Pic's please. Feel free to pm.

[lovbyts]

Pic's please. Feel free to pm.

Hell with that, they need to be public. ;-)

[jay94]

LOL you are young and it shows. Nothing wrong with that. You will change as you grow. Lifting is important to us here, sure. But to not respect someone who doesnt train like you is flawed thinking. If anything alot of people lack respect for you, because while you are focusing all your energy on YOUR body, they may be sacrificing time on themselves to oh i dont know, cure cancer or something.......big world out there buddy, open up to it, you might be amazed... Side not, my wife doesnt train

I know it's flawed thinking, but I don't know to change that way of thinking. It just seems to be the right one to me, even though there's also a small part of me which knows it's not.

Which brings me to ask... How do you change your ways of seeing the world when you've had these views for years now?

[Rusty11]

Dude, you're 20. It's how we all think at that age. As you grow older, you'll either mature and see that there are more important things in a partner or you'll remain a superficial egotistical horndog who's never satisfied...sorta like redz

[jay94]

Dude, you're 20. It's how we all think at that age. As you grow older, you'll either mature and see that there are more important things in a partner or you'll remain a superficial egotistical horndog who's never satisfied...sorta like redz

Honestly, I think I could put up with the most superficial chick ever as long as she lifts lol.

[lovbyts]

Honestly, I think I could put up with the most superficial chick ever as long as she lifts lol.

Oh hell no. Thats because you have never had to or because you are just as superficial/shallow. Im visual and always go for looks 1st or at least what looks good to me. If there is not a personality there and then some connection in some way I'm gone after one or two nights.

I prefer a woman who does not need to work out or only wants to go once in a while with me and I keep her on the treadmill most of the time. I dont need the distraction of trying to show her how to lift properly or some other douche trying to hit on her.

If my woman really wanted to get into training then I would set up a home gym for her and me so we could do it without all the distractions. When I go to the gym I rarely talk to anyone or do anything besides my routine. I dont watch the tv or socialize. My phone stays in my car or locker.

[jay94]

Oh hell no. Thats because you have never had to or because you are just as superficial/shallow. Im visual and always go for looks 1st or at least what looks good to me. If there is not a personality there and then some connection in some way I'm gone after one or two nights.

I prefer a woman who does not need to work out or only wants to go once in a while with me and I keep her on the treadmill most of the time. I dont need the distraction of trying to show her how to lift properly or some other douche trying to hit on her.

If my woman really wanted to get into training then I would set up a home gym for her and me so we could do it without all the distractions. When I go to the gym I rarely talk to anyone or do anything besides my routine. I dont watch the tv or socialize. My phone stays in my car or locker.

Well, personally, I wouldn't mind my girlfriend training with me as long as we're on the same page when it comes to going hard or going home... When I hit the gym, I'm not just hitting the gym, I'm going to war, if you see what I mean.

[JAB1]

I know it's flawed thinking, but I don't know to change that way of thinking. It just seems to be the right one to me, even though there's also a small part of me which knows it's not.

Which brings me to ask... How do you change your ways of seeing the world when you've had these views for years now?

Based on my experience you dont need to try to hard to change your ways of seeing the world, reality is good as smashing you in the face from time to time to give you some perspective. Thats just part of growing up a bit. In the meantime tap all the hot fitness cheicks you like!! Enjoy being young and dumb. In a few years you will probably reflect and say wow Ive changed without even realizing it!! Sure you will still love hot young chicks that hit the gym, but im guessing those wont be the core values of what you seek in a llife partner....

[Black]

Honestly, I think I could put up with the most superficial chick ever as long as she lifts lol.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this in 10 years.

[jay94]

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this in 10 years.

Well, for starters, I'm a pretty superficial person myself. I tend to judge both myself and literally everyone around me based on their physical appearance and how much they seem to care about living healthy (eating clean/doing physical exercise). Also, someone who is dedicated to changing their body and living a healthy lifestyle cannot be THAT superficial.

[Times Roman]

I know board rule on pornography....

....but damn! did someone photoshop her nipples out?

(and please dont' tell me she is a dude)