ok, I need an excuse why a hospital would send me a letter, if i was never admitted for anything (which is the lie) Im not too close to the hospital so fund raising is out! it has my name on it, like it would be a bill....
please help!!!!!!!
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ok, I need an excuse why a hospital would send me a letter, if i was never admitted for anything (which is the lie) Im not too close to the hospital so fund raising is out! it has my name on it, like it would be a bill....
please help!!!!!!!
I think we need a little more information...what is this excuse for (i.e., work, wife etc).....then I maybe able to help you out
Just tell whomever asks that you had your yearly physical and they're sending you the results....no big deal.
parents, they no i dont go there, it was a drug OD
say it was a VD check and you would like your privacy. Most parents would understand
thanks for trying, i guess i should tell you a coule things
i told them ive never been to the hospital that i got the letter from, so far i played it like it might be a response to a survey,, but there too dman smart
Tell them you're a grown man and it is none of thier damn business.
are you still in school (which is the only reason I can imagine parents justifying such "intrusion)? If so, let them know that you need(ed) to satisfy some sort of community service requirements, and had requested info concerning such programs from the hospital, and, damn, wouldn't you know, that was so long ago you'd thought they'd forgotten (that explains the immediate lack of an explanation somewhat..and isn't something so brutally important you'd have elaborated immediately).
As long as they don't open you mail....you should be okay...
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Originally posted by arthurb999
Tell them you're a grown man and it is none of thier damn business.
well guys, thanks a bunch, but things failed...
it went worse then even imagined, and my lies we're seen threw.
in the end, i said it was my personal business, and to not bother me about it.. that didnt go well.. fuck him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he's an asshole anyway.
Iron Horse ... Just out of personal curiosity, could things possibly have gone a little better had you told your parents the truth? (not nagging you here, just wondering)
Reason I am asking is that I'm now a parent myself and any time my son lies to me, I see right thru him... it's like he has "I AM LYING" stamped on his forehead... and I realized that when I lied to my parents they also saw right thru me (thought I had 'em fooled all those years!).
Oh, and a "Look dad/mom, I fucked up, XYZ happenned and I went thru hell because of it, but I didn't want you guys to worry about it or hurt you so I kept quiet about it" can sometimes go a loooong way.
Don't burn your bridges bro... you don't know what the future holds.
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spoken like a parent red ketchup!
So now your parents are fearing the worst, right? They probably think you've got HIV or something else that serious but not always easy to talk about. I would have told them that you signed up with a volunteer agency and the hospital wrote to request your help.
dude, just tell them the truth. you might just need your parents someday.