Female friends? ? ?

[< <Samson> >]

Soooo, theoretically can a guy(who's not gay) have any female friends when they are in a committed relationship? And when I say female friends, I mean single and not family mutual.

For the longest time, I said no - but, now being older & coming across a grip load of people I somehow gathered a few.

One is my eX wife - how? Don't know. I have zero attraction to her - but, we still talk & her & my woman talk away & hangout. Again, no clue how

Now, I have another female friend - again, zero attraction. We talk the same as I would to a guy - no, she's also straight. Been, fairly close friends for almost a year.

Now, my woman is starting to wig out. I never really seen as the opposite sex as "just being friends". But, now I see it a bit differently. I done wanna bone either. I can, I guess - but, I have no interest to either at all. Me & my woman are solid as fvck, aside from this.

The only other reason I guess she really dislikes the 2nd one is because I met her when we were going through a bunch of shit. But, I never had any sort of interest in her.

[Mp859]

I would just leave me alone because of the drama

[lovbyts]

It bothers her so it's a good enough reason to not pursue the friendship. It's not worth the trouble. I know where you are coming from and have always been the same way but when the significant other decides she does not like or want any of your attention to be elsewhere it can make life no very easy.

Does she have Guy friends? Does it or would it bother you? You know how guys are? She knows how women are, even if it does not mean sex. More importantly to women is mental attention so to them it's still a form of cheating of infidelity. Doesn't matter if it doesn't make sense. Thats why I dont have any female friend.... that she is aware of.

[GirlyGymRat]

If I am physically attracted, it's hard to just be a friend. My mind likes to dwell on possibilities.

Friends with benefits better describes the scenario.

[derekkpapa1]

As said above drama is not worth it. Get a pen pal

[RigPig]

Samson you are brave man! Never would I even consider this, just the thought of how this could blow up in my face is enough of a deterrent. Drama....that is an understatement. I have yet to meet a women that forgets, this will haunt you to your last day lol.. Doesn't matter if your banging her or not, if your wife thinks you are, might or ever have in the past, there is no changing that...

[Iceberg]

Soooo, theoretically can a guy(who's not gay) have any female friends when they are in a committed relationship? And when I say female friends, I mean single and not family mutual. For the longest time, I said no - but, now being older & coming across a grip load of people I somehow gathered a few. One is my eX wife - how? Don't know. I have zero attraction to her - but, we still talk & her & my woman talk away & hangout. Again, no clue how Now, I have another female friend - again, zero attraction. We talk the same as I would to a guy - no, she's also straight. Been, fairly close friends for almost a year. Now, my woman is starting to wig out. I never really seen as the opposite sex as "just being friends". But, now I see it a bit differently. I done wanna bone either. I can, I guess - but, I have no interest to either at all. Me & my woman are solid as fvck, aside from this. The only other reason I guess she really dislikes the 2nd one is because I met her when we were going through a bunch of shit. But, I never had any sort of interest in her.

There is a very fine line to walk on there my friend. Tread lightly....

[RaginCajun]

Didn't you cheat before?

[< <Samson> >]

Didn't you cheat before?

Yes - past it now, at least I am.

I changed my outlook on many things throughout the last few years.

Like the one I talk to now, I met her when met head wasn't really in the right place. And even then we had no sexual attraction. Before her, I didn't think it was too possible.

But, now it's her & my ex wife. It's more of a family like relationship. I can't even explain it to myself. But, I don't hide anything from my woman now. After all of our shit went down, we agreed & it's been better than ever since.


Plus, I thought the board needed more entertainment. . . . lol

[pitweiler]

You maybe past the cheating but it doesn't seem like your girl is. Do you hangout with with this woman (not your ex) or are you guys just friendly? When your in a relationship. I think you can be friendly with the opposite sex but anything more usually has someone that gets jealous.

[diesel101]

Completely impossible.

[tdoe11]

Seems unnecessarily risky. If I am in love with a woman, and it bothers her I wouldn't do it. Even if she was ok with it I would be weary. Things happen, and once they happen you can't take them back.......

[HGH4Lymes]

ask ur woman the million dollar question: why are you threatened by her?
but make sure you have a six pack on hand. doze off listening to her rant for for 2 hrs.. wake up for some good sex b/c she feels so much better having gotten it off her chest.

[< <Samson> >]

ask ur woman the million dollar question: why are you threatened by her? but make sure you have a six pack on hand. doze off listening to her rant for for 2 hrs.. wake up for some good sex b/c she feels so much better having gotten it off her chest.

Lmfao! Ha ha ha

That's the truth in this case for sure. She's got nothing to worry about at all. I have zero attraction towards her & my woman looks 5x better.

I did kinda ask her - but, made it more of a statement. Like for real, you know you don't have anything to worry about - she's like, well - ugggh, I know

Like even when I was off BS's I had no interest to do anything with her.

But yeah, women are special. Lol

[Hoggage_54]

Have you tried for a threesome? Always try for the threesome.

[derekkpapa1]

Have you tried for a threesome? Always try for the threesome.

Wow no pic??? You losing it

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[derekkpapa1]

He is back-I was worried for a second there

[kelkel]

He is back-I was worried for a second there

And quick on the trigger...

[Times Roman]

what's Hog trying to say?

[< <Samson> >]

what's Hog trying to say?

No clue / hmmmm

Odd