Why do women like skinny lifters more?

**dfarre** · 03-15-2015, 06:02 AM

Why don't they like big guys? Is it because they have bloated faces, since face is the most important thing to attract females? Skinny lifters tend to have nice angular faces.
I think another factor is that guys that decide to get big are most on the time not the best looking ones. If a good looking guy got big, females would still like him. What do you think?

**Honkey_Kong** · 03-15-2015, 06:15 AM

Originally Posted by dfarre

Why don't they like big guys? Is it because they have bloated faces, since face is the most important thing to attract females? Skinny lifters tend to have nice angular faces.
I think another factor is that guys that decide to get big are most on the time not the best looking ones. If a good looking guy got big, females would still like him. What do you think?

You got to remember that women are habitual liars. They will say they dig the skinny guy. But when given the choice, they'll go for the yoked dude.

There is a media hatred going on against people who are in shape. That's why you see all these fat-chick models appearing and historically yoked super-heroes that aren't being portrayed as "larger than life." So it's politically correct for women to say they prefer people who meet the description of what the media tells them they are going to like. But bullshit aside, they still know what they like and it isn't that anorexic dude who struggles lifting the bar.

**Bio-Active** · 03-15-2015, 06:15 AM

Is this question for real? That's like asking why someone doesn't like a certain food. Everyone gets a choice

**lovbyts** · 03-15-2015, 06:47 AM

Again dfarre, you are off base. The face is not that important to women. It's more in the ass area or to be specific, the right but cheek in most cases. OK Ill spell it out for you, the wallet.

Get your facts straight.

**dfarre** · 03-15-2015, 06:54 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Again dfarre, you are off base. The face is not that important to women. It's more in the ass area or to be specific, the right but cheek in most cases. OK Ill spell it out for you, the wallet.

Get your facts straight.

If they are looking for a beta provider, but for sex face is most important.

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 07:00 AM

Originally Posted by dfarre

If they are looking for a beta provider, but for sex face is most important.

Please sight the research to support this statement.

**lovbyts** · 03-15-2015, 07:03 AM

Originally Posted by dfarre

If they are looking for a beta provider, but for sex face is most important.

No it's not. You really have women SO wrong. Maybe the women you are thinking of have a stubby tail between their lets?

We know you CLAIM to be good looking (cough, cough) but besides money next is personality or at least confidence. You dont need to be GQ by any mean to attract women.

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 07:05 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Again dfarre, you are off base. The face is not that important to women. It's more in the ass area or to be specific, the right but cheek in most cases. OK Ill spell it out for you, the wallet. Get your facts straight.

If this was the case nobody would be married in poverty? There's many women who have good paying jobs and don't need a man for his wallet.

**lovbyts** · 03-15-2015, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat

If this was the case nobody would be married in poverty? There's many women who have good paying jobs and don't need a man for his wallet.

Oh yes, there are still those few who are hopeless romantics and marry for LOVE but they all have such high hopes for their prince charming in the making just knowing he will find his true calling and become successful.

I dont think there are truly any women going into a marriage or relationship thinking, Hey he is a bum and will never amount to anything but I'm going to love him and stay with him anyways if she had a choice. It's also VERY rare a woman who has her own money will marry a guy who isnt also doing financially well. They may keep one around for a boy toy for a while but usually tire of them quickly.

Now dfarre we know he only has his boyish good looks to rely on so once he reaches mid 20s or soon after he wont have anything left to offer the women who have matured and he will be selling what's left of his youthful looks to old gay men.

**NACH3** · 03-15-2015, 07:33 AM

LOL! What is going on in that head of yours, my man??!

**jbonza666** · 03-15-2015, 07:37 AM

I used to be skinny as hell. But I still managed to pull women and get laid. However, since gaining 22kg I get a lot more attention from the girls. I have had women say 'ergh, your getting too big, I don't like it' and to that I respond 'Im not training for you, I'm training for myself because I love it.' **** what women say, do what you wanna do for yourself, be confident and the vagina will come....

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 07:43 AM

Originally Posted by jbonza666

I used to be skinny as hell. But I still managed to pull women and get laid. However, since gaining 22kg I get a lot more attention from the girls. I have had women say 'ergh, your getting too big, I don't like it' and to that I respond 'Im not training for you, I'm training for myself because I love it.' **** what women say, do what you wanna do for yourself, be confident and the vagina will come....

Excellent!!!

**thisAngelBites** · 03-15-2015, 10:47 AM

Good lord. Here's a little tip for you: women are not all the same. I know that sounds radical and hard to believe, but stay with me. All statements that take the form: women like x or women are y or women dislike z are sophomoric.

There are many women, they like many things, they dislike many things and they are many different things. Apart from things that most people share, like breathing, and the right to trial by jury, women are different and have different tastes.

There are many men on this forum who are not skinny lifters, and many have girlfriends and wives (sometimes at once), so that disproves your comment that women like skinny lifters more. Maybe you should spend some time getting some experience and expanding your worldview to see what women are really like up close, instead of trying to develop a little theory in which women are all the same.

**Oki-Des** · 03-15-2015, 10:55 AM

This truly is absurd and I totally agree with the above statements. It is crazy to say or think that all woman want one thing. Some like this and some like that. Some like big fat burly teddy bear types and other like skinny dudes. The most important thing for any man to know is that woman typically are attracted to confident men. Beyond that, there are a million types of things woman might like or dislike in a guy.

**NACH3** · 03-15-2015, 01:07 PM

Wow!!! Lol Sounds as though he's lacking some knowledge in the Female Anatomy aspect of things! All women are different my man... And let's just keep it at that! If you don't understand this, you probly never will...

**kelkel** · 03-15-2015, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by dfarre

If they are looking for a beta provider, but for sex face is most important.

And you know this how? Aren't you asexual?

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by kelkel

And you know this how? Aren't you asexual?

I like the big guys!!!! Love a developed chest and arms, back and calves. Nice size on neck too. Oh And big hands. LoL.

**marcus300** · 03-15-2015, 01:26 PM

Weren't you banned under your other screen name?

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Weren't you banned under your other screen name?

Username. I think u are thinking about him. But these two are cut from the same cloth.

**human project** · 03-15-2015, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Weren't you banned under your other screen name?

Hahaha Marcus you crack me up how you can see a post and call them out..... I obviously have not been around the board as of late... Who is it?? Or what was his previous screen name??

**Hoggage_54** · 03-15-2015, 02:01 PM

Originally Posted by human project

Who is it??

OP:

**bsh** · 03-15-2015, 02:03 PM

Originally Posted by marcus300

Weren't you banned under your other screen name?

I was thinking the same thing....

**human project** · 03-15-2015, 02:03 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

OP:

Hahahahhahahahah.... Good stuff.... Where did you find this pic??

**bigZthedestroyer** · 03-15-2015, 02:07 PM

Originally Posted by dfarre

If they are looking for a beta provider, but for sex face is most important.

They usually don't see my face..Generally they get a good look at the wall! Haha

**GirlyGymRat** · 03-15-2015, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

OP:

Oh yeah. That's my type. Lol

**Docd187123** · 03-15-2015, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Oh yes, there are still those few who are hopeless romantics and marry for LOVE but they all have such high hopes for their prince charming in the making just knowing he will find his true calling and become successful.

I dont think there are truly any women going into a marriage or relationship thinking, Hey he is a bum and will never amount to anything but I'm going to love him and stay with him anyways if she had a choice. It's also VERY rare a woman who has her own money will marry a guy who isnt also doing financially well. They may keep one around for a boy toy for a while but usually tire of them quickly.

Now dfarre we know he only has his boyish good looks to rely on so once he reaches mid 20s or soon after he wont have anything left to offer the women who have matured and he will be selling what's left of his youthful looks to old gay men.

I've dated some doctor and med student women who made a hell of a lot more money than me and I wasn't the boy toy side piece either. One of them made over 8x what I make annually and obviously wasn't with me for my financial status.

Wouldn't you want your wife or significant other to find her true calling and be successful? Even if not solely for the money but for her pleasure and happiness?

I don't think there are many men either who go into a relationship or marriage thinking, hey she's a bum hood rat and will never amount to anything but I'm going to love her anyway. At least not the guys whose vision doesn't get clouded by the power of the P.U.S.S.Y.

Maybe it's your demographics or the type of women you go after but I see many more women not after a guy's wallet than those that are.

**fitnesstrainer** · 03-15-2015, 05:41 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

OP:

This is actually sad.

**Euroholic** · 03-15-2015, 05:58 PM

Women love power and money. Just look at how much quiff tony soprano slayed!!!!!!

**Cody95** · 03-15-2015, 06:06 PM

Originally Posted by dfarre

Why don't they like big guys? Is it because they have bloated faces, since face is the most important thing to attract females? Skinny lifters tend to have nice angular faces.
I think another factor is that guys that decide to get big are most on the time not the best looking ones. If a good looking guy got big, females would still like him. What do you think?

Not true, appearance means nothing to women. Two words: Money, confidence. Why do you think there are so many ugly guys with beautiful women?

**dfarre** · 03-15-2015, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by Cody95

Not true, appearance means nothing to women. Two words: Money, confidence. Why do you think there are so many ugly guys with beautiful women?

I am not talking about beta providers!!!!! That means no wives/girlfriends. If a man has a wife or a girlfriend he is automatically a total loser bitch.

**Cody95** · 03-15-2015, 10:21 PM

Originally Posted by dfarre

I am not talking about beta providers!!!!! That means no wives/girlfriends. If a man has a wife or a girlfriend he is automatically a total loser bitch.

Are you mad because you can't get a girlfriend or wife? Is that what this is all about.

**dfarre** · 03-15-2015, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by Cody95

Are you mad because you can't get a girlfriend or wife? Is that what this is all about.

No, I'm mad because you and others mention situations where a man has a girlfriend or wife. That's not what I'm talking about.

**Synhax** · 03-15-2015, 10:56 PM

op is somewhat right, alot of chicks seem to prefer slender/skinny guys than jacked ripped dudes. Dont know why this is or if it always has been this way. Im also only referring to 20 year olds, dont know about older women. they may appreciate a body that required hard work and sacrifice more, but dont know. Although gotta admit face is the most important feature for sure, thats mainly genetics tho so ya

**human project** · 03-16-2015, 12:00 AM

Originally Posted by dfarre

No, I'm mad because you and others mention situations where a man has a girlfriend or wife. That's not what I'm talking about.

I'm confused.... A girlfriend and a wife both start out with attraction....

**Cody95** · 03-16-2015, 10:48 AM

Originally Posted by human project

I'm confused.... A girlfriend and a wife both start out with attraction....

Give up, he's a troll lol.

**jackfrost88** · 03-16-2015, 12:15 PM

Depends on the girl obviously. Generally I would say a girl would prefer a man be "in shape" rather than skinny or out of shape. Now, bloated face, veiny neck etc. I can see that.

Maybe your thinking of a classic 5'10 160-170lb pretty boy with some abs who does well with women but I think that would have more to do with their game than anything. On a side note, women have no idea what they want so be the best version of yourself

**DrewZ** · 03-16-2015, 02:57 PM

**bsh** · 03-16-2015, 03:11 PM

Bro, I took a poll from all the other members here and the results are in..... U are the most handsome man that ever existed! U have ur conformation now, lol... Now go troll elsewhere, Thx

**Herbalist** · 03-16-2015, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

No it's not. You really have women SO wrong. Maybe the women you are thinking of have a stubby tail between their lets?

We know you CLAIM to be good looking (cough, cough) but besides money next is personality or at least confidence. You dont need to be GQ by any mean to attract women.

trust me a pretty face helps big time ; ) ... but i agree face not everything. ..

**tcw** · 03-16-2015, 06:36 PM

Yeah....i gotcha Girly.

The Truth of the matter is....Skinny Guys are "more Hung" than the Big Dudes. Just ask the avg. Ho....she'll tell ya!

I don't mean you of course...(cough cough) .

Originally Posted by GirlyGymRat

I like the big guys!!!! Love a developed chest and arms, back and calves. Nice size on neck too. Oh And big hands. LoL.